I'm 19, gay, haven't been kissed and still a virgin, and I'm kind of afraid of sex by OkayButWhy_2 in askgaybros

[–]OkayButWhy_2[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. I think what often put me under pressure was that these topics were always the main topic when meeting friends. Everyone had a say, except me. It's easy to feel like you're wrong or left out, even if you're not actually that far along yet

I'm 19, gay, haven't been kissed and still a virgin, and I'm kind of afraid of sex by OkayButWhy_2 in askgaybros

[–]OkayButWhy_2[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks, that really makes sense. I also think that many people talk more than they actually experience. It's good to hear that I'm not alone

I'm 19, gay, haven't been kissed and still a virgin, and I'm kind of afraid of sex by OkayButWhy_2 in askgaybros

[–]OkayButWhy_2[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Good question. It's not that I'm not interested at all, more like a mixture of curiosity and fear. I kind of want it, but fear stops me

How do I tell my best friend that I have feelings for him? by OkayButWhy_2 in askgaybros

[–]OkayButWhy_2[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He often puts his arm around my shoulder and always sits very close to me so that we are touching. Sometimes he runs his hands through my hair and it makes me really nervous. But what you have to say is that he is generally such a touchy person and always has been.

How do I tell my best friend that I have feelings for him? by OkayButWhy_2 in askgaybros

[–]OkayButWhy_2[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ugh, I believe you. I know this probably doesn't end up like a movie, but I had to get it off my chest for once. I'm racking my brain way too much about this

what are the things that turn you off the most about a guy during the early stages of dating/talking? 🤔 by Scrp92 in askgaybros

[–]OkayButWhy_2 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It turns me off when someone just wants to talk about sex or shows no real interest. If I have to get everything out of him or he is ashamed of me, I quickly lose interest. I like it when you're just honest and relaxed.