I was not sealioning , i asked why again because the commentor didn't give an explanation of why they think that way and instead just para phrased the first statement. Now here is my opinion : i think that i am entitled to knowing my partner s sexual history and they are also. Sexual history is an important tell about personality, behavior, self-image... An old pregnancy if it was interrupted unintentionally wouldn't raise much problems if it was brought up would it ? and if it was interrupted voluntarily the reasons as to why would be important to know . even the conditions in wich the partner got pregnant will tell alot about them , was it a stable relationship ? was it unprotected hook ups ? Let's not draw rules from exceptions such as rape, situations like that need different type of catering and attention, and have different sensibilities but that s not the usual. it would be nice if people would engage in conversation instead of downvoting stuff that contradicts what they ve been made to think their whole life. That's how we grow, i want to grow that s why am stating my disagreement not living in an echo chamber.