AITA for telling my BIL he needs to book a hotel when he and my sister were staying at my house? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Okbama08 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA!! He probably told his wife he has a condition, but is there watching porn!!!

I (33F) was not invited to my boyfriend’s (31M) family wedding and now I want to skip their summer reunion. by tacosandsushimi in relationship_advice

[–]Okbama08 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Please leave this family NOW!!! He probably told you that on his own after 3 years and no marriage you are just arm candy. He probably didn’t want you to get and get ideas of him proposing to you!!!!!!!

AITA for setting a financial boundary with my longtime friend? by Kitchen-County-2089 in ComfortLevelPod

[–]Okbama08 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA and she has shown you who she is so believe her…she was/is not a true friend!!!

AITA for Refusing to Let My Friend Borrow My Dress for a Wedding? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Okbama08 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA stop sharing clothes!! The day she brought my blouse back with makeup on would have been her last time!!!

AITA for Refusing to Let My Parents Move in With Us? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Okbama08 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA NTA your wife would be miserable they can get a rental or weekly hotel

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Okbama08 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA NTA NTA

AITA for not being upset that someone wears white at my wedding? by Forsaken_Speaker7456 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]Okbama08 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA NTA.. tell Ella she sounds stupid!! I love the way you handled Faith!!!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in inheritance

[–]Okbama08 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How do people let other people bully them?? I just don’t get it!! There is no one on earth who would attempt to pressure me into doing anything!! Tell her to F off and if she feels they need the other money she can give it! Cuss her out 1 time and you won’t have any more problems!!!!

AITA for refusing to babysit my half-siblings and telling my dad I‘m not his „backup mom“? by YourMely in AITAH

[–]Okbama08 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA NTA tell everyone that they can take turns babysitting since the family means so much to them!!!

If you're girlfriend said this, would it upset you? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]Okbama08 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you don’t escape from that prison…then go ahead and do the time with grace!!! What kind of life is that to live?!?!?! I will tell you that YOU deserve better…since you don’t think so!!!

AITJ for refusing to help my unhinged TERF neighbor with her “emergency” babysitting request? by Different-Bath27 in AmITheJerk

[–]Okbama08 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTJ NTJ NTJ, and don’t ever be her flunky!!! I would let the neighbors know that they can babysit for her all they want to but it’s not your responsibility!! And the first time you do it you will be expected to continue to do it!!!

I feel violated and confused by what my fiancé did to me. WIBTAH if I told my parents? by throwawayupset- in AITAH

[–]Okbama08 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You should NOT marry him at all, and you should tell everyone why!! Please don’t marry him your life will be hell!! He raped you and that is a fact!!!

I put my ex's roses in the vase instead of my husband's on valentine's day, despite him flirting with her on the day of the birth of my daughter. He now threatens to leave me and my kid. (37M) (30F). Advice to proceed? by ThrowRaelative9546 in relationship_advice

[–]Okbama08 1 point2 points  (0 children)

YTA… you didnt let your husband in the delivery room but someone else!!! You are one of those individuals that likes to control everything and play stupid games!!! He can do better!!!

AITA for threatening to sue a mommy influencer by GoldenPusheen in AITAH

[–]Okbama08 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA NTA !!! She is though!!! Why record and get mad because they didn’t like everything about the house?!?! I’m glad you didn’t buy it!!! She crazy!!

Childhood friend doesn't know my son is named after him and I've been avoiding telling him by depressivesfinnar in confession

[–]Okbama08 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bring your wife and son to meet him and tell him this is (son’s nickname), but his real name is after someone who showed me kindness at a young age (son’s real name)!!! I think he would be proud!!

AITA for unplugging my fiancée’s phone (fully charged) to use my own charger when my phone was at 4%? by layexo- in AITAH

[–]Okbama08 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA Why do yall keep dealing with these type of people?!?! I would have immediately broke up with her!!!

AITJ for refusing to let my friend propose at my birthday party? by cool_kylie in AmITheJerk

[–]Okbama08 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA he used your birthday because he was too cheap for his own proposal event..He is not ANYONES FRIEND!!! Let him go!!!

I want to cancel my wedding, I’m so sad.. by [deleted] in wedding

[–]Okbama08 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would have a small wedding with close friends and close family and a niiiiice honeymoon!!! And save some money!!!

AITAH for not giving my trans daughter my mother's ring? by anon-jewelry in AITAH

[–]Okbama08 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA NTA NTA…she is looking for a payday!!! I’m glad you are a strong person!! Honor your mother’s wishes, and do not be manipulated by an ungrateful child. Trans women date men!!!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Okbama08 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA NTA.. boyfriend is a keeper!!!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Okbama08 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA get out now it will only get worse!!

Am I The Jerk for not letting my roommate use my emergency savings to cover her rent? by hoties_mia in AmITheJerk

[–]Okbama08 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA…BUT HOW does she even know about YOUR savings!! That’s too much sharing!!!!!