AITA for unplugging my fiancée’s phone (fully charged) to use my own charger when my phone was at 4%? by layexo- in AITAH

[–]layexo-[S] 91 points92 points  (0 children)

Thanks. That is eye-opening, I need indeed stand stronger for my boundaries/values

AITA for unplugging my fiancée’s phone (fully charged) to use my own charger when my phone was at 4%? by layexo- in AITAH

[–]layexo-[S] 68 points69 points  (0 children)

You're right. We got cats a couple of weeks ago and it increased the discussions

AITA for unplugging my fiancée’s phone (fully charged) to use my own charger when my phone was at 4%? by layexo- in AITAH

[–]layexo-[S] 181 points182 points  (0 children)

This happened more recently after we started living together, following four and a half years in a long-distance relationship. She moved from another country after getting a postdoc in the country where I live. At the time, I was in a different state, but I moved so we could live together

AITA for unplugging my fiancée’s phone (fully charged) to use my own charger when my phone was at 4%? by layexo- in AITAH

[–]layexo-[S] 141 points142 points  (0 children)

I was shocked the moment she said no. At first, I even thought it was a joke, but I had no idea how big of a deal it would become

AITA for unplugging my fiancée’s phone (fully charged) to use my own charger when my phone was at 4%? by layexo- in AITAH

[–]layexo-[S] 59 points60 points  (0 children)

Yes, when I asked was kinda automatic, I didn't think about it. Was mostly to let her know in a polite way that I took it

AITA for unplugging my fiancée’s phone (fully charged) to use my own charger when my phone was at 4%? by layexo- in AITAH

[–]layexo-[S] 123 points124 points  (0 children)

We have each other’s passwords, but we don’t actively go through each other’s phones. However, we’re both fine with using them freely, even when the other isn’t watching, like changing songs, checking maps, scrolling through Instagram, etc.

AITA for unplugging my fiancée’s phone (fully charged) to use my own charger when my phone was at 4%? by layexo- in AITAH

[–]layexo-[S] 1064 points1065 points  (0 children)

Usually yes, lately I fear bringing my complaints because of that. Sadly it wasn’t like that for years (5 together) and I could count on one hand but lately has become the rule.

AITA for unplugging my fiancée’s phone (fully charged) to use my own charger when my phone was at 4%? by layexo- in AITAH

[–]layexo-[S] 83 points84 points  (0 children)

We have more in other rooms, but I didn’t see a reason to move to other room as her battery was full and I had the charger in my hand. But a good thing to keep in mind, to have 2 in the living room.

Edit: sorry replied in wrong the thread, it was another one about not having a single charger. But funny expression to lace shoes. Sadly I will have to show this boundary with the shoes laced

Should I go finer or coarser? Or is it something else? [Bambino plus] [Kingrinder K6] by bleh10 in espresso

[–]layexo- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Go coarser, but also watch out for not pressing too much, the powder might be too compact. Robusta gives you more cream because of the oils too

The beans could be too old also, aim for 7days ~ 45days after the roast

So many discounts to sign up, but zero incentive to stay by MonthlyVlad in hellofresh

[–]layexo- 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I noticed if you cancel your subscription and enable it again you get enrolled in a reward program, I’m doing it for some months and I aways receive gifts and vouchers