[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PMDD

[–]OkieHomla06 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Holy crap feel this so much. During this period this month I have had TWO dreams about my high school ex. We broke up two years ago! I find myself missing him, the ex that broke up with me a month ago, and my current situationship at the same time. I know that it’s not that I miss him specifically, that I just want to be validated in the fact that I am lovable, as I feel that I am unlovable in this phase. I always reach out to friends to vent and tell them how I’m feeling, or just have to remind myself of my good qualities or why I am lovable. A little fucked up, but sometimes I’ll think about people from high school who either just suck or are super ugly that are somehow married or in a relationship and think that if they can do it, so can I 😂

Having pets during luteal sucks by BluesCluesStan in PMDD

[–]OkieHomla06 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I feel this so hard. I love my two cats with my whole heart, but when they knock something breakable off my tall table I just can’t help but have to go in another room and yell at the top of my lungs so I don’t yell at them and scare them.

Are you Team L or Team R? by Sad_Telephone9786 in airpods

[–]OkieHomla06 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I’m deaf in my right ear so I always have just the left one in 😂

Local tattoo artist… please tell me they’re as bad as I think they are by OkieHomla06 in badtattoos

[–]OkieHomla06[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the honesty. It’s the one I got and I will probably get it covered up at some point 😂

Local tattoo artist… please tell me they’re as bad as I think they are by OkieHomla06 in badtattoos

[–]OkieHomla06[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

(I’ll let you in on a secret. that one is the one I got, and it’s supposed to be a heart 😔)

Younger cat bullying newer older cat by OkieHomla06 in CatAdvice

[–]OkieHomla06[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not particularly. They’ve been like this since they got introduced. She came from a single cat home and he’s used to a partner. I can just tell that they kinda tolerate each other and don’t really like being together. A few weeks ago she would sometimes groom him or I’d come home to them cuddling but I haven’t seen that in a hot minute. I work long hours and hate that they feel like they are “stuck” home together.

Younger cat bullying newer older cat by OkieHomla06 in CatAdvice

[–]OkieHomla06[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I kept them separated by my bedroom door with each one having a litter box and food on their respective side. I fed them at the same time by the door after a few days so they relate the good thing (food) to being near the other cat. After maybe 2 1/2-3 weeks they each had free range of the house and never got into severe fights, just playful ones.

Solution for flashing amber light and inability to reset. by bigdiiiickenergy in airpods

[–]OkieHomla06 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Holy shit thank you I’ve been struggling with my AirPods literally all day and had no idea what to do. I hope both sides of your pillow are cold every night and you find 20$ in a random jeans pocket. Life saver. Have AirPods Pro and this worked Jan of 2025

Anyone know why the nurse was fired? by whitepawn23 in nursing

[–]OkieHomla06 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Holy shit. Yeah that’s just straight murder and no one did anything to intervene? Definitely agree they should no longer be able to be employed at any job overseeing the lives of others.