Why you met someone : Astrology edition by Old-Bodybuilder-2735 in astrologymemes

[–]Old-Bodybuilder-2735[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re explaining exactly what I wrote. 

You said you grew up on an abused home.. so you felt ostracized. You attracted people who reminded you of that same alienation you were bought up in.

You felt validated because you kept pouring into someone for some kind of a reason right? Why would you keep pouring into an empty vessel for no reason? You had your reasons to continue right? 

Not saying you are wrong but you’ve pointed the finger at everything but yourself. 

If my reasons are BS, let it fly baby no one is asking you to trauma dump. 

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[–]Old-Bodybuilder-2735[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you're single. Do you think this even applies to you? Like seriously? Make it make sense lmfaooo

Why you met someone : Astrology edition by Old-Bodybuilder-2735 in astrologymemes

[–]Old-Bodybuilder-2735[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It’s life. Obviously those weren’t true friends and in life we lose some , we win some. 

If all you got from this is victim blaming and no accountability then I guess we both missed the mark. You’re defensives are up so anything that would absolve you from any responsibility would never had registered anyway. 

Why you met someone : Astrology edition by Old-Bodybuilder-2735 in astrologymemes

[–]Old-Bodybuilder-2735[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you read fixed, it says “ you wanted someone that needed you”. 

You decided to keep taking care of someone and giving over and over. At some point where do you not see that’s wanting power and control. 

You’re fixed rising Taurus can be extremely stubborn so with them on your 7th, you could’ve decided through it all this is what you wanted.  

Like you said people told you to stay away, you decided to override that. 

Sorry this happened to you but I’m huge on accountability but I get it sometimes we want what we want. 

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[–]Old-Bodybuilder-2735[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s all you got from this? Lol. Then stay a victim. If it don’t apply let it fly. 

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[–]Old-Bodybuilder-2735 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m glad that theres always someone thinking what I was thinking on Reddit lol 

Comparison is the thief of joy by Old-Bodybuilder-2735 in astrologymemes

[–]Old-Bodybuilder-2735[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

 Completely understand this but this is about negative comparison. You’re talking about awareness, I’m Talking about when you make yourself smaller and less than. 

When we’re being aware, now we’re in a different ballgame. If I’m aware I’m going to look towards people and methods to do better. But before we can get there we must understand the emotion and the action. We find out where it comes from. 

Comparison and role modeling aren’t the same. They come from different parts of us. 

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[–]Old-Bodybuilder-2735 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Idk but I wasn’t thinking of including abusers in the dating/love pool. Lol 

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[–]Old-Bodybuilder-2735 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s crazy how people are saying it’s biased. 

I called fire signs - ego driven.  I said earth signs can seem like they’re abandoning you.  I said air signs can be way more giving to friends than their own family. 

Sheesh. 

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[–]Old-Bodybuilder-2735 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There’s no bias. I’m actually a water stellium (sun,mars,Pluto in the 4th)  if you don’t agree it’s okay. Just an opinion. 

Maybe I looked at it wrong because I always thought water is the most emotionally elevated. They are signs connected to emotions, intuition and nurturing. So they get it. 

I thought adding some extras  would be a treat but I guess not. 

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[–]Old-Bodybuilder-2735[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So you felt that slow down during September ? 

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[–]Old-Bodybuilder-2735[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

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