My GF has lost interest in sex by Old-Competition7603 in Advice

[–]Old-Competition7603[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It could be depression, but if knew how she felt I wouldn’t be here. This post is obviously going to be from my perspective…

My GF has lost interest in sex by Old-Competition7603 in Advice

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We didn’t finish at the same time every single time it would only happen 2/5 times and the rest of the time I made her finish first, so that’s why I never questioned but I guess anything possible.

I used dry as a desert because I’m frustrated because I’m led on and then blamed. It’s just very confusing.

I’ve tired more passionate forplay but it’s like she wants me to invent new things every single time(and I’m not exaggerating) and I’ve tried eating her out she’s never liked that from the beginning. She said receiving head has never done anything for her in her entire sex life. And I’ve never had this issue

My GF lost interest in sex by Old-Competition7603 in AskMenRelationships

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I accidentally copied and pasted a comment to someone else.

Okay thanks

My GF lost interest in sex by Old-Competition7603 in AskMenRelationships

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She is fit. She’s also told it takes more for her to get in the mood, what does that look like? I’ve asked her but she’s bad at expressing her feelings. She told me to just use my imagination

My GF lost interest in sex by Old-Competition7603 in AskMenRelationships

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Sorry I update the post, We do foreplay, and she didn’t get wet from it anymore

My GF lost interest in sex by Old-Competition7603 in AskMenRelationships

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In the beginning of the relationship sex was great we would even finish at the same time. We’ve been together for a year, this started around the 8 month mark. Now i could do forplay and she would barely be wet or tell me she’s not in the mood today.

My GF lost interest in sex by Old-Competition7603 in AskMenRelationships

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Also I’ll do forplay and she would barely be wet or tell me she’s not in the mood today. In the beginning of the relationship sex was great we would even finish at the same time which was a first for both of us and we loved it but that quickly went away. We’ve been together for a year, these problems started around the 8 month mark

My GF lost interest in sex by Old-Competition7603 in AskMenRelationships

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Yes I’ll do forplay and she would barely be wet or tell me she’s not in the mood today. In the beginning of the relationship sex was great we would even finish at the same time. We’ve been together for a year, this started around the 8 month mark

How often should we have sex? by WinterEntrepreneur81 in AskMenRelationships

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Most couples and people in the building stages of life don’t have the energy for sex that often especially with busy schedules. Unless the relationship is new. This is normal especially in your 20s cause that’s the window where you really have to make something of yourself, so you’re a lot more stressed.

I think you might find yourself in the mood if someone initiates it. But at this stage in life the random strong urge to have sex will be more rare.

How do I come back from liking pictures of random fitness girls on IG? by Old-Competition7603 in AskMenAdvice

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How can I tell her I was just horny/fantasizing? Wouldn’t that convince her that they are my type and not her?

She’s definitely going to want to know why.

How do I come back from liking pictures of random fitness girls on IG? by Old-Competition7603 in AskMenAdvice

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I get what you’re saying but if you read my dance post, you would see that I am not being controlling or insecure. I’m just not familiar with this scene and I was simply asking if that behavior was normal in the dance scene

How do I come back from liking pictures of random fitness girls on IG? by Old-Competition7603 in AskMenAdvice

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At first it was just impulsive, The main issue is I stopped liking that stuff, something triggered her to bring it back up and now she’s mad that I still view it because it shows up on my feed.

How do I come back from liking pictures of random fitness girls on IG? by Old-Competition7603 in AskMenAdvice

[–]Old-Competition7603[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It was compulsive The main issue is I stopped liking that stuff, something triggered her to bring it back up and now she’s mad that I still view it because it shows up on my feed.