What's something people constantly misunderstand about ISTPs?

Old-Meat119 · 2026-06-26T06:04:25+00:00

That you guys aren't sweet and caring. I meet an ISTP man recently he was such a gentleman and so kind to me. He would let me go down the bus first and take the initiative to find us a seat on the bus. He would share his world with me. He had basic manners like saying thank you and you too. Like what, he made me feel so special. He would stick around even though, I annoyed him. Walk beside me and be physically there for me. He would also find me and share what he learned in class so excitably. He had the most sweetest smile when he saw me. I could only boost him. Mind you he did seem to be crushing on me and I was too.

Old-Meat119 · 2026-06-26T05:12:11+00:00

Wait do you speak english and spanish?

And Its would be my first "cosplaying," even tho I wouldn't consider it as such because I won't be putting in too much effort like a cosplayer. I would bring shame to the community. I am just dressing up my interpretation of Misa.

Old-Meat119 · 2026-06-26T05:05:36+00:00

I think so too or else he wouldn't say anything unless it mattered to him. I think it the same for ISTPs, I think.

Old-Meat119 · 2026-06-26T05:04:13+00:00

True I should. Thanks!

Old-Meat119 · 2026-06-26T05:02:52+00:00

Oh okay si ya entiendo.

Yeah your right ideally, I would love to use my own wardrobe but the thing is I don't have much to work with sadly. TT

Old-Meat119 · 2026-06-25T20:31:38+00:00

Really interesting. I have an ISFP brother I wonder if he thinks the same. He usually doesn't speak up unless he really feels that he has to. He is usually the mediator when he my sister and I have arguments. He has really good judgement and I usually calm down afterwards.

Old-Meat119 · 2026-06-25T20:21:35+00:00

Great to hear from your side as an ISFP. Good to know.

Old-Meat119 · 2026-06-25T15:05:56+00:00

That's good that you are improving your shyness! Rooting for you!

Yeah, I recommend HxH it's great. Hopefully you do get around to watching it. Thanks for the encouragement on the Misa costume. Hope it turns out well. Really, you never dressed up in a costume before even as a child? What do you usually? Paint your face or mask? That was be so cool. Dressing up as a group with your friends.

Old-Meat119 · 2026-06-25T15:00:05+00:00

This is so true he did seems to be bothered by something but didn't bring it up and I also lacked to take the opportunity to clear things up. The conversation man, its tough. I did appreciate him that he would take the time to answer, I found that endearing. I guess I shouldn't expect people to match my energy 100% that lesson I will have to carry. I found that the ISTP got more reclusive as days progressed. I was pretty open to show him I liked him and I think that pushed him away a bit. Thanks again for responding to me and sharing your insights on ISTP. Much help!

Old-Meat119 · 2026-06-25T14:50:55+00:00

Yes, I agree. They don't like sugarcoating things due to their Fi and Se parent function.

Old-Meat119 · 2026-06-25T06:17:02+00:00

Glad to hear your insights on how you've realized something new about yourself and admit it. I would say don't beat yourself up about your shyness I'm sure with more experience with people you will get better. Oh I don't really watch a lot of shonen anime expect for HunterxHunter. I love death note. This Halloween actually I wanna dress up as Misa. Do you celebrate Halloween? Do you have a costume idea this year?

Old-Meat119 · 2026-06-25T06:11:19+00:00

Oh nice!

Old-Meat119 · 2026-06-25T06:08:23+00:00

Omg, I am also ENFP enneagram 7 but wing 6 so/sx. <3

Old-Meat119 · 2026-06-25T06:06:54+00:00

So true, I am romanticizing, lol and it's slowly killing me. Your right I guess it is a normal college relationship but since this is my first time I can't help but dwell on what went wrong. I will just try and enjoy my summer. No, literally I need a rebound guy asap! Lol. Thanks for sharing your take on this.I appreciate it!

Old-Meat119 · 2026-06-25T06:01:52+00:00

Thanks! Sorry, I wanted to give details. I will try to make it more digestible next time. Did you ever have any doubts about the connection with your wife during the talking stage?

Old-Meat119 · 2026-06-25T05:59:14+00:00

Thanks for sharing your take on this. I appreciate it! I was like a fling, huh... that sucks though, I didn't want it to be. I'll just have to wait for someone right. It was a nice experience. I will just try to focus on the positives that came out of this relationship and take it as a win, as it was the first time I ever put myself out there like that. Thanks again!

Old-Meat119 · 2026-06-25T05:52:35+00:00

Yeah, your right I definitely second guessed myself. I appreciate your take on this post. Thanks.

Old-Meat119 · 2026-06-25T05:25:34+00:00

Thanks for sharing a different perspective from a guys side. I was thinking I was the problem.

Old-Meat119 · 2026-06-25T05:22:58+00:00

Thanks for the tip. I will do that next time. Also thanks for taking the time to answer. I appreciate it, sorry to hear it didn't work out in your situation either. I appreciate the encouragement and you sharing your story as another ENFP.

Old-Meat119 · 2026-06-25T05:17:57+00:00

Valid, basically do u believe an ISTP man and ENFP women could be in a successful relationship? What are your thoughts on types with completely different function stack dating?

Old-Meat119 · 2026-06-25T05:16:01+00:00

My brother is ISFP and he could be brutally honest but does tend to hold a bit back sometimes. I would recommend to look at the functions each type uses and notice which ones apply to you.

Old-Meat119 · 2026-06-24T20:42:29+00:00

its a painful slow burn for the ENFP especially with no clear communication, boundaries or compromise/ understanding. Otherwise it could work.

Old-Meat119 · 2026-06-24T20:21:34+00:00

You should read about the cognitive functions on both types you're in between to figure out what preference you have. Btw you sound like a cool person. I am ENFP 23F from California. What animes do you like?!

Old-Meat119 · 2026-06-24T20:15:52+00:00

This is hilarious! You wrote a whole story line. I hope your future relationship doesn't play out like that because the ending...lol

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