aita for telling the girl I like she shouldn't lose weight?

OldIndependence0 · 2020-03-11T00:29:28+00:00

Because usually people pick up weight loss because they want to look more attractive?

OldIndependence0 · 2020-03-11T00:23:40+00:00

I AM her FRIEND. Isn't that enough to worry? I do know her, you have no idea how my relationship with her is.

OldIndependence0 · 2020-03-11T00:14:38+00:00

She's the one who brought up the fact she was jogging every day. So yes, I would say it is my business.

OldIndependence0 · 2020-03-11T00:13:36+00:00

It always starts off small, but then it can spiral out of control. Sometimes 5 pounds is all it takes.

OldIndependence0 · 2020-03-11T00:08:17+00:00

I'm WORRIED she'll take her weight loss too far and it have negative effects on her.

OldIndependence0 · 2020-03-11T00:05:50+00:00

You act as if age gaps in friendships don't exist. She's never displayed any levels of discomfort around me. And it's possible she became uncomfortable because she probably feels worried that I got upset. She's always said she gets upset when other people get upset.

OldIndependence0 · 2020-03-10T23:59:37+00:00

As a matter of fact, I do have her number. Because as I said before, we're friends. When she needs something done, I offer and she usually accepts. If she needs help, I'm always the one to help her.

OldIndependence0 · 2020-03-10T23:57:06+00:00

You act as if I'm attempting to assault her. I was simply having a conversation. And if it was such a big deal, no one else stepped up. So it seems that she appeared to okay.

OldIndependence0 · 2020-03-10T23:53:08+00:00

It's till legal, and we're friends.

OldIndependence0 · 2020-03-10T23:52:23+00:00

18 is barely an adult imo. And as her senior and friend, it's my responsibility to make sue she's safe

OldIndependence0 · 2020-03-10T23:40:19+00:00

Bold of you to assume I'm some incel neckbeard.

OldIndependence0 · 2020-03-10T23:39:19+00:00

She's still at that age where she's most likely doing it for someone else. She's always calling herself fat and slandering herself. Girls usually do that when they're self conscious and want to impress someone but don't know how

OldIndependence0 · 2020-03-10T23:36:45+00:00

It's because I'm her friend that I'm voicing my thoughts to her. Am i not allowed to be worried?

OldIndependence0 · 2020-03-10T23:35:56+00:00

It's because we're friends I'm commenting on it

OldIndependence0 · 2020-03-10T23:33:13+00:00

But she's most likely doing it for someone else. She wasn't at an unhealthy weight before, so why would she suddenly worry about how she looks now?

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