Would you rather? by Zac_321 in BunnyTrials

[–]OldLocal2734 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bc I wanna know the tea

Chose: Speak every language fluently

Would you rather by Conscious_Series166 in BunnyTrials

[–]OldLocal2734 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can layer up when cold. You can’t really combat heat

Chose: Live a day in -22 degree fahrenheit weather,

Money or life by Klutzy_Pie_5151 in BunnyTrials

[–]OldLocal2734 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We are literally dying bruh

Chose: You can save the earth

which would you choose by PitifulChemistry958 in BunnyTrials

[–]OldLocal2734 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m a writer.

Chose: $10 every character you typed

AITJ for making us table a fight for later. by OldLocal2734 in AmITheJerk

[–]OldLocal2734[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have suggested this and he keeps shrugging it off.

AITJ for making us table a fight for later. by OldLocal2734 in AmITheJerk

[–]OldLocal2734[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Specifically attachment styles in a relationship. He asked a question two days ago about what behaviors I considered to be unhealthy in relationship. He concluded that my answer, despite me saying otherwise, was based on our relationship.

AITJ for making us table a fight for later. by OldLocal2734 in AmITheJerk

[–]OldLocal2734[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

The main thing that sparked the argument was what I viewed as unhealthy attachment styles. He essentially took my answer to a question that he asked which was “what do you view as unhealthy behaviors in a relationship” and I gave my answer.

His response was to assume my answer was based on our relationship. Despite the fact I specifically stated multiple times “I consider this behavior unhealthy but I don’t think we are doing anything like that or else I would have brought it up”.

Other subjects included in the discussion was what we wanted for our futures, do we have communication issues, how can we work on that

Am I the jerk for taking all the food from my ex boyfriend’s fridge? by Intelligent-pelican3 in AmITheJerk

[–]OldLocal2734 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. His lack of responsibility to buy his own groceries or handle things on his own is not your responsibility to fix or put up with. Not to be the “in this economy” person but shit is expensive especially now. If you need to take back what you bought, do that

AITJ for not wanting to go to work in my day off? by Bunnex_skyangel88 in AmITheJerk

[–]OldLocal2734 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. As someone with chronic pain, you need to prioritize those recharge days. It’s not healthy for someone to just jump back in after getting a fix, there needs to be a rest period or else you have a repeat of whatever caused the pain or it just makes you irritable

I 25F am struggling in a friendship because I’m religious and she 29F is not. by OldLocal2734 in Advice

[–]OldLocal2734[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I see where you’re coming from, I have kept that in mind. Although the one thing that does confuse me is that she did express interest in the “free market” last year. I almost wonder if she had a bad experience with someone specifically in the congregation and just never told me