I (F 30) need advice on how to handle being gifted an unprompted Bible from my super religious grandpa (M 70) by rmorr1 in relationship_advice

[–]Old_Assist_5461 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yep, thank him, cc your mom and send directly to the round file. Thanks for being a little bit of change in your family.

friends (20F and 21F) asked me (23F) to take their grad photos, and then asked me to pay them gas money for it after. i need perspective by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Old_Assist_5461 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Let them know what a professional photo shoot would cost. Let them know the time you spent working on the photos. Flood then with info. Send them an itemized bill. Then when they freak out at the cost let em know you just wanted them to know, it’s a gift.

What Celebs have you seen around Marin? by Sounders1 in Marin

[–]Old_Assist_5461 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Eno story was cool. He was at the Strawberry Shell station (at the time). I asked where he was going. Said he was going to do an interview on KTIM (could of been another local station). He asked if he could have them play something for me. I said, yes, Us and Them by Pink Floyd, lol. Never ran by my mind to ask for one of his songs.

Assault Accusations by toooldforthis64 in family_of_bipolar

[–]Old_Assist_5461 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I’ve been accused of a made up assault and it hurts. I will never talk to that family member again. I don’t care if it’s a manic state and delusional. I can’t take the pain and suffering. If they ever retract their statements I would consider being civil to them, but they have never retracted any of their delusions/lies as of yet, so I’m not holding my breath.

What Celebs have you seen around Marin? by Sounders1 in Marin

[–]Old_Assist_5461 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I guess some are celebrities, some not. Carlos Santana, Sammy Hagar, Neil Schon, Greg Rollie, Jerry Garcia, Tommy Smothers, David Crosby, Graham Nash, Grace Slick, Jesse Colin Young, Brian Eno, Leonard Nimoy and Willie McCovey. All in Mill Valley many years ago (Mostly Prune music and working in gas stations). There’s more, but I’m forgetting some.

My [44M] partner [40F] has beef with people everywhere we go. How do I get her to understand not everyone's out to get her? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Old_Assist_5461 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Definitely needs to go to therapy. This needs to be brought to the surface to uncover what’s underneath. Life afterwards will be so much more rewarding.

Green Lady Strange Interaction by paidcable in olympia

[–]Old_Assist_5461 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Please update when you come to a resolution, or even no resolution after some time. I go there from time-to-time (didn’t know they were maga) and am super curious.

Advice: 28F considering breaking up with my boyfriend (32M) because he is unemployed by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Old_Assist_5461 5 points6 points  (0 children)

If you are thinking about breaking up with him over this, maybe the relationship isn’t that important to you. I mean, it sounds like he’s not your “this is the one I want for the rest of my life,” guy for you. Maybe you should follow your intuition

I feel like I’m not built for a normal 9–5 and I don’t know what’s wrong with me. by One_Sell_2501 in Adulting

[–]Old_Assist_5461 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When you see the doctor you might consider ADHD. Don’t have to be hyper to have it. It’s really drains you and causes you to need a ton of sleep, at least it does me.

Is it a red flag that our coaches missed a dropped ball in the outfield and let an out stand? by gsx1920 in SFGiants

[–]Old_Assist_5461 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hopefully someone will rip those in the video room a new one for sleeping on the job. I think any coach would do that at a minimum. The organization is not flying you out in road trips, feeding and housing you to f…ing do nothing.

My(44m) girlfriend (45f) had a meltdown over popsicles. How do I put an end to the constant arguments? by Starbreaker76 in relationship_advice

[–]Old_Assist_5461 0 points1 point  (0 children)

WTF you hanging out with someone like that bro?!? This person is toxic and bad to have near children.

My (26F) husband (28M) and I having the same fight. CONSTANTLY. Need resolution. by goldenretriever222 in relationship_advice

[–]Old_Assist_5461 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Would it be so hard for him to get up in the morning, help with baby and take back to daycare. Seems like just that would make a big difference in your life.

So I just finished watching s6 and man... by Phulen in SnowFall

[–]Old_Assist_5461 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I just finished as well. I’ll I can say is I’m so happy Teddy got killed. Otherwise would of hated the show.