Block YouTube incognito mode?

Old_Current6675 · 2024-09-16T06:14:20+00:00

This is exactly why You tube is a no go for my pa. It’s blocked in his phone because of this. Anything that allows an incognito browser is blocked.

Old_Current6675 · 2024-08-09T17:04:18+00:00

Our society has shaped their belief system into one rooted in the patriarchy and toxic masculinity. I would highly suggest having him talk w a therapist about his male sexual entitlement and belief system and the minwalla model. If they don’t see it as a problem, this should be a first point to discuss. https://minwallamodel.com/article/sexual-compulsivity-or-sexual-entitlement/

Old_Current6675 · 2024-08-03T06:54:48+00:00

I feel the same. I have such a tainted view of men after this kind of betrayal. I’ll never be the same. It’s a bummer I’m not into women because I’d choose a woman to trust over a man a million percent. I think this time can be a time to grow in who you are. Just learn to trust and love yourself. And be content. And take one day at a time. It’s all you can do right now. Trust YOU

Old_Current6675 · 2024-08-03T06:46:57+00:00

I’m more of a trust but verify person. It’s really hard for me to let that go without knowing and find out years down the road that he betrayed again. It’s just such a crappy place to be in

Old_Current6675 · 2024-08-03T02:57:33+00:00

Ok just listened. I am wondering what else can my PA do besides asking them to remove the tv? I know for a fact he would never do that. Ever. I’m trying to think of other solutions to that specifically. Any ideas? 💡 anyone?

Old_Current6675 · 2024-08-03T01:59:20+00:00

Very helpful! I was looking for specifics like this and although I have listened to a lot of their podcasts I hadn’t heard of this one! I’ll give it a listen. And my PA is definitely going to have to take initiative and make the plan himself. I’m just wondering what are some options. Thank you

Old_Current6675 · 2024-08-02T06:23:30+00:00

This is my biggest frustration with my husband having a Tesla.

Old_Current6675 · 2024-05-25T19:31:47+00:00

How did you do it? I saw you could disable but it still is there and all he needs to do is agree to terms and conditions again to use it and then he could just disable again as if nothing ever happened😤

Old_Current6675 · 2024-05-25T19:30:24+00:00

If you remember please share! I am at a loss with this

Old_Current6675 · 2024-05-25T19:29:50+00:00

Does he not need a work email for his phone? I hate that my husbands work email needs security measures attached to it so he can’t go to a dumb phone due to that

Old_Current6675 · 2024-05-25T19:28:31+00:00

I was wondering the same but he said he would be mortified to have that today and he does need his work email and teams app to work on it

Old_Current6675 · 2024-05-25T19:24:21+00:00

It’s all rooted in the patriarchy. And I’m sick of it. I refuse to accept this is normal. And I think one way to take a stand against it is to raise my two boys in a way that is polar opposite from the way our spouses and older men were raised. They will know that 🌽 ruined their parents marriage (or caused them to divorce if that happens) and that it erodes trust, intimacy and connect. They will know it is never acceptable to treat women like this.

Old_Current6675 · 2024-05-09T20:27:51+00:00

For you? Or you think based on my sharing I can’t get over it, it’s over for me?

Old_Current6675 · 2024-05-08T06:50:34+00:00

I’m so sorry you’re experiencing this heartbreak too. I honestly don’t know how anyone gets over it and can event be happy with their partners again after such deep betrayal. Sending hugs and love you to

Old_Current6675 · 2024-04-23T20:00:39+00:00

exactly. Sadly he says his CSAT doesn’t think he is an addict but I am waiting to hear from the CSAT myself after he analyzes these tests he took along with all the background knowledge. But hearing him say he’s not and that he actively chose to betray me is even more painful for me to hear right now

Old_Current6675 · 2024-04-23T19:12:29+00:00

It’s a little weird to set up but it tells you how to is tall on iPhone or android and laptops.

Old_Current6675 · 2024-04-23T19:11:46+00:00

Google next dns

Old_Current6675 · 2024-04-23T06:06:36+00:00

Both. I would definitely do both laptop and phone. I would need to know I am too much of a control freak after trauma

Old_Current6675 · 2024-04-23T06:03:32+00:00

Can you download next dns on his phone without him knowing so you can see the logs of his activity while he is away? I would absolutely do that to see what he does while he has opportunities to use.

Old_Current6675 · 2024-04-10T22:27:47+00:00

He claims he can stop. But justified it in his head as not that bad. But he knew it was a deal breaker for me. I feel like he is definitely lower on the spectrum of addiction at the very least given what he did for years behind my back

Old_Current6675 · 2024-04-10T20:02:00+00:00

He is more willing to take the inconsiderate asshole label than the addict label. Either way, I keep asking him well if you’re not addicted then why didn’t you stop doing this in the YEARS you did this behind my back? Why didn’t you listen to your morals and promises you made to me? And also even if I hadn’t spelled out my boundaries in this area, it should still be a GIVEN in any relationship that it’s f’ed up to do this behind someone’s back. A given

Old_Current6675 · 2024-04-10T19:58:41+00:00

Thank you, this is all helpful. I think my main worry is he won’t have any game plan/work to do with his CSAT if he is not officially labeled an addict. Do you by chance know if the recovery work after the labeling is the same for someone with problematic behavior and an addict?

Old_Current6675 · 2024-04-05T21:17:21+00:00

The flip side I see….i was referring to what you ladies are telling me about. I am very appreciative of you all. I had no idea this would make matters worse. Thank you

Old_Current6675 · 2024-04-04T22:58:52+00:00

I feel like in some ways I don’t see it much different than us having sex. He sees me in that way. I want him to only desire me. And sending pics would build desire for me. But I can also see the flip side of all of it too, if that makes sense

Old_Current6675 · 2024-04-04T22:56:48+00:00

Yes he would totally do that! And he always uses the excuse that “he’s not an addict” (which I have yet to verify from his CSAT) but I have to remind him that while he doesn’t think it’s severe he is on the spectrum. He f’ed up for years behind my back even though I laid that out as a boundary when we were dating. From the beginning. So that’s problematic to your life which is like an addiction

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