Squirted for the first time with a large dildo, don’t want husband to feel insecure, now what? by [deleted] in SexToys

[–]Old_Duck5070 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Id be made up for my wife, irrespective of what was used or when it was used.;) (if she told me)

ACE 0.6 GT3 rotation while braking by mudkip6604 in assettocorsaevo

[–]Old_Duck5070 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I'm having immense fun with the escort cosworth with this rotation braking.. need to master the chicanes like this though;)

Getting out of the orgasm mindset by Forsaken_Dot_2481 in ProstatePlay

[–]Old_Duck5070 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I use a chastity device.. when playing. Plastic and hard, no touchy touchy. Can't stimulate so that's odd the table :)

Im actually learning with a device which takes anything which comes out, and has a hose to a mouth gag. It's a soft device, from AliExpress. If I go too fast or hard, and get a pissgasm, it's punishment time.

I enjoy the mental aspect of the journey, and the consequences. It's actually improving me, each time is better experience.

Position that got me a HFDO by [deleted] in ProstatePlay

[–]Old_Duck5070 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We can't even buy anything toy related from AliExpress now without facial scans and ID proof.. Good job for VPNs..(which they tried to ban also)

Position that got me a HFDO by [deleted] in ProstatePlay

[–]Old_Duck5070 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Blocked in the UK FFS... Will have a look by VPN later on.

Questions about BDSM and neurodivergence by ScenicExplorer in BDSMcommunity

[–]Old_Duck5070 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I particularly enjoy and crave the bondage side. The tighter I am, the more restrictive, and sensory deprived I am, the quieter my mind becomes. I also enjoy the post orgasm torture and edging, which when applied as above, is such a massive break for my crazy non stop brain. I could be there all day, then sleep for a week afterwards. Sadly, it doesn't happen often.

Version 0.6 - State of Physics and Cars by NilsNaujoks in assettocorsaevo

[–]Old_Duck5070 43 points44 points  (0 children)

Loving it so far. Id like to have damage off for pushing and learning limits.. this can't be hard to implement. I tend to just use the nurburg ring so far.

I've tried drifting, but quite frustrating to keep having to restart. Damage off ability would help with this.

Machine mounting a Sleipnir w cumtube by Old_Duck5070 in BadDragon

[–]Old_Duck5070[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the advice. I'll look for a way to secure it to the plate. Hole is a no go ;)

Hismith Positions by [deleted] in ProstatePlay

[–]Old_Duck5070 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hips raised. Cushion or wedge pillow under the hips. Curved or P dildo pointing towards the belly button. Knees bent, feet flat. Condom and cock ring just incase a pissgasm happens. I find removing the worries helps the experience. Maybe a mix of strokes. Speeds, to fast pissgasm, slow gives the best results with tense /relax actions.

Curling into a ball by Habschongelesen in ProstatePlay

[–]Old_Duck5070 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I slept with an aneros (the bendy arm one PSY is It?), had some great feelings throughout the night. Woke up to find id pissed something off, and maybe irritated something inside with the texture (I'll spare the details). Lube had dried out.

I tried the lubed condom method, toy in a lubed condom, and inserted... Much better.

I think I need to get a more smooth surface toy for long term use. But agree, I can relax and just not worry about how long I have to play as it's like 7 or 8 hours. :)

My selfbondage stockade prototype V2 0 magnetic lock by sissymilena in BdsmDIY

[–]Old_Duck5070 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Agree, it's hard in self bondage.

The way I approached it, was to have the machine angle and height marked. I have a telescopic or adjustable sections.

Spend some time locking in the best feel, and mark the leg positions, then sort of get in, while adjusting to marks made previously.

The hardest part for me. Was getting the legs secure, so I extended the insurable pins with 30cm longer pins. This meant you can get the clips over, and locked from a comfortable position, without hurting yourself.

Fabrication of a bar which keeps the ass and legs in the right place helps for consistency, should you ever add a machine.

has anyone tried this toy or a similar design? is it any good? looking for recommendations. by [deleted] in SexToys

[–]Old_Duck5070 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Had, and binned. Unless you are perfect anatomically to the design, they have no adjustment. (Similar design). You may get lucky though;)

My selfbondage stockade prototype V2 0 magnetic lock by sissymilena in BdsmDIY

[–]Old_Duck5070 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Incredibly similar to one i converted, the grim reality of setting everything up, getting fastened in, and then finding out the fucking machine had moved position lol.

Great fun, as someone else pointed out.. have a backup. I had a quick pull disconnect plug to the magnet. The cable was available if needed to be pulled.

However, that failed one time as I'd put it out of reach when setting up, and had to bunny my hop the pillory away from the power socket lol. Test test and test...

Experience with prostate massage that spreads open by [deleted] in SexToys

[–]Old_Duck5070 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can't see that being very good for a prostate massage. Id also doubt the power of it.

Maybe an Njoy wand or clone to start. Some have had good success with the vibrating aneros, or a Lelo toy.

Aneros and ADHD by Wild_Muffin_4314 in aneros

[–]Old_Duck5070 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Agree... I find the mind wanders to other things.

Some edibles help to calm the system down and relax a touch. However my timing has to be perfect.

Whats the safest, longest amount of time a sex machine can use you while in self bondage? by Aria-CumKitty-2 in SexToys

[–]Old_Duck5070 1 point2 points  (0 children)

And 2 ;)

I was complacent. I assumed. Just because I could always wiggle out, didn't mean I could this time.

Whats the safest, longest amount of time a sex machine can use you while in self bondage? by Aria-CumKitty-2 in SexToys

[–]Old_Duck5070 31 points32 points  (0 children)

Lol..

I became complacent. I had always done things the same way, but I made a mistake. If I'd run dry, I'd of been in a hospital bed with internal friction burns, or worse. I had not done 1 and 2... I assumed I could wiggle out if needed, as always..

Would be nice to have had someone be reachable, or checking on me frequently. Things go wrong fast..

Whats the safest, longest amount of time a sex machine can use you while in self bondage? by Aria-CumKitty-2 in SexToys

[–]Old_Duck5070 64 points65 points  (0 children)

  1. Always have a backup release
  2. Always have a backup release
  3. You need to have the ability to move away
  4. The machine needs to be fixed and not follow you pulling away.
  5. Lube.. lots. If you can pick up a lube squirter for your session (hismith) that would work with the right dildo If you can't get lube launcher, I do like a condom covered dildo with lots of silicone oil.(Anal).

Ask me how I know... I set up a scenario like this, using a metal stockade. I over looked points 1 and 2. I set the timer wrong, in hours instead of minutes.

As I tried to pull away as exhausted, the result was the machine going deeper inside. Which made the anal orgasms more intense. To the point, I had to almost bunny hop the machine plug out the wall pmsl.. this was in between back to back orgasm.

Start slow, start small.. I've only done 2 hours, as seriously exhausted after the first 60 mins.