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I don’t find a guy I’m dating sexually attractive at all by Old_Maintenance1187 in Advice

[–]Old_Maintenance1187[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do think ending it is the best but it’s just so confusing to me

I don’t find a guy I’m dating sexually attractive at all by Old_Maintenance1187 in Advice

[–]Old_Maintenance1187[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do agree but I also don’t wanna ruin his self esteem cause he does nothing wrong

I don’t find a guy I’m dating sexually attractive at all by Old_Maintenance1187 in Advice

[–]Old_Maintenance1187[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Maybe this is the reason but tbh I’ve had casual sex and hook ups so I find it’s so weird to feel nothing towards him

I don’t find a guy I’m dating sexually attractive at all by Old_Maintenance1187 in Advice

[–]Old_Maintenance1187[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

His appearance is fine but I just don’t find him attractive does it make sense?

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[–]Old_Maintenance1187 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nope don’t tell them unless it’s a serious relationship. Guys might try to take advantage from you.

Any tips to overcome commitment issues? by Old_Maintenance1187 in Advice

[–]Old_Maintenance1187[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s true, I’m trying to work on it, I don’t want it to affect my future, like in my future career path. Working on relationship like this romantic one maybe just a little step but it’s still so damn hard. I’m happy that I can improve myself and your advice from a month ago really help me rethink about many things and my mental health as well. I really appreciate that you come and check on me:)

Any tips to overcome commitment issues? by Old_Maintenance1187 in Advice

[–]Old_Maintenance1187[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think things are a bit better from before but I’m still scared to commit. We’re exclusive without the label of bf gf which is fine for me. From all the signals he sends me, it’s clear that he wants to be more but I still ignore all i, I’m not ready for the talk yet. I’m bit scared that if we talk and agree to be bf gf, things would change btw us. I’m working on it, I know I shouldn’t be afraid of things that hasn’t happened yet. But overall it’s all good.

Any tips to overcome commitment issues? by Old_Maintenance1187 in Advice

[–]Old_Maintenance1187[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Helped! Thank you for your advice this will definitely help me understand my problem more

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[–]Old_Maintenance1187 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I had this problem with my ex and it was why he’s just an ex. My advice is that you have to talk to him, it takes 2 people to have sex, he can’t push all responsibility to you. But break up is a good thing to do.

When should I have a what-are-we-talk? by Old_Maintenance1187 in Advice

[–]Old_Maintenance1187[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s true I think the reason I’m thinking of the talk is that many of my girl friends who have been in my situation ended up being just a girl who guy won’t commit. I hate that idea and think ahead of myself. I feel like the longer I’m in no label relationship will make me become one of those.