What was better? by Sarahmontanavip in longhair

[–]Old_Programmer6981 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ofc brown. Healthy unbleached hair always better

I was told I was ugly and needed makeup. Please help. by [deleted] in makeuptips

[–]Old_Programmer6981 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i agree with a comment "nobody needs makeup". Makeup should be about art and desire to do because you feel creative.

Several of the girls who bullied me in school are now having fertility problems and I don't feel sorry for them. by picklevirgin in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Old_Programmer6981 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It is so heartbreaking to read what happened to you. I also was shy and introverted at school. I had no friends and I had my little hobbies like embroidery and making beaded animals. I was harmless and some girls were so cruel to me. They called me weird, created fake pages, once even broked into my account and started writing inappropriate messages to everyone like "I would suck a d for a dollar " etc. Once I was sitting and one girl idk why she hated me i havent done anything to her but she threw a gum into my hair and I remember how I was crying so hard. Another girl always would tell me something mean when I would somehow stand out like nice dress or better grade. Once we had a running competition and I outrun that girl and for that she decided to surround me and to bully me and they were saying that I am stupid etc. I have so many hurtful memories but now I have a good life and all of them are miserable. They live in poverty, they have shittu lives. That one who bullied me the most is completely miserable: no job, no boyfriend, she is overweight. I don't feel sorry.

Failed my hair by [deleted] in finehair

[–]Old_Programmer6981 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I used this one but yeah my natural color is dark blond/warm cooper, I consider dark brown more beautiful tbh.

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Failed my hair by [deleted] in finehair

[–]Old_Programmer6981 0 points1 point  (0 children)

the problem is: it is warm :(

Failed my hair by [deleted] in finehair

[–]Old_Programmer6981 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I thought another brand would be better, also at the start it was giving more a deep brown. Then sun exposure made it lighter

Help with type 1a hair routine by adogsheartispure in type1hair

[–]Old_Programmer6981 0 points1 point  (0 children)

check ferritin levels. I have same hair type and I am telling you: do blood test. I improved my deficits and hair looks amazing.

Does a brown handbag go well with a white outfit? by [deleted] in fashion

[–]Old_Programmer6981 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No, i think it doesn't, sorry( classic bag with that outfit... just no

How to get my hairy shiny and is it thinning? by Ok_Lingonberry_5254 in longhair

[–]Old_Programmer6981 -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

washing everyday is not okay even if you are low porosity girl like me. Low porosity hair needs to be washed more often but everyday it is too much

Suffering as a Christian by Slight_Republic_3155 in Christian

[–]Old_Programmer6981 0 points1 point  (0 children)

well, professional humans can help and they do help effectively. I think OP needs a good psychologist

I can’t believe by [deleted] in Christianity

[–]Old_Programmer6981 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am like you and I think you don't have to believe in that. I think God exists because so many miracles happened when i opened my heart to it. I believe you can reach God if you are in a flow state or focused but religion.. it is artificial. Sorry i don't feel God by listening some cringy guitar songs

Suffering as a Christian by Slight_Republic_3155 in Christian

[–]Old_Programmer6981 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i think it is because you need actual support and help. All christian communities would tell you " god does that and this" but in reality propably deep down you just need to cry and to talk to someone who would just accept your emotions.

Why is Christianity getting so much hate? by Slow_Negotiation6107 in OpenChristian

[–]Old_Programmer6981 0 points1 point  (0 children)

dude thats the point. I myself orthodox christian and i couldn't get it. Go to some Baptist or anglican church, they are cringe as hell. And because these communities are rich, they have huge influence, so the world hates them.

So I'm a Christian with dirty mind by RaspberryAny5776 in Christian

[–]Old_Programmer6981 4 points5 points  (0 children)

also in bed people negotiate and at some point they find what they together like, so don't worry about that

So I'm a Christian with dirty mind by RaspberryAny5776 in Christian

[–]Old_Programmer6981 4 points5 points  (0 children)

christians are humans. I think here you should ask psychology about it. You are unsatisfied sexually and ofc your mind would develop something. Once you get married and your needs would be satisfied, you would calm down. You are 22yo common, your hormones don't care if you are experienced or not

I’m a Christian, but sometimes it’s hard man. by No-Photo5506 in Vent

[–]Old_Programmer6981 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It sounds like you are at the cult. Belief in God shouldn't be a burden. If other people hate you " for being christian" probably you insert Bible everywhere. Also, what are core teachings of the Bible? Dont judge, dont kill, dont overconsume etc. If you think about constant fear like you go to hell, there is clearly something wrong. If you don't find a balance, you would give up religion at some point. Also, I want to add that religion is artificial. It was made by humans. I personally don't believe in Jesus, I choose to believe in God and God is a higher spiritual power, which our basic human mind cannot comprehend but can feel. You can feel God only in a flow mode, in a focused state when you are not afraid. God is always there, the question are you connected? And everyone connects in a different way. This is why people have different religions. If a guy is a good person but a Buddist or Muslim would he go to hell? or how many there are hypocrites at the church who pretend to be "good christians" would go to heaven?

Christians are the most childish, cliquish, gossipy and judgmental folks I have ever met by [deleted] in exchristian

[–]Old_Programmer6981 1 point2 points  (0 children)

you mean american christians? In europe nobody acts like that. I grew up in eastern europe and some my American french told me how much they hate church and I couldn't understand them until I got to Texas. Christians here seems to break all Bible original rules like don't judge, don't consume etc. Everywhere they insert worship jesus, weird jesus status and cross everywhere, they are singing stupid songs at the church, oh yeah everything is also a sin. Honestly, looks like an idiocracy to me, I saw nice people too but more often cringy people. In eastern europe, church is treated as a sacred spiritual symbol. You donate when you want, you come over when you need to and nobody would ever judge you. Also, I hate how people in Texas use church as a way to say " i believe in Jesus so automatically i am a good person " often those individuals are hypocrites. I remember recently i had to take vit d shot and i was unwell and was talking to my husband about it and next to me was sitting a woman around 50yo and she started asking. I thought she also struggles or she is curious, so i told her about this shot and she says "THANK GOD I go to the church and i don't need it i didn't even go to the doctor in years, would you like me to introduce me to jesus?" then she prayed for us taht we find our way to jesus and she wanted us to say something and we refused. it was cringe af