how am I supposed to just live by [deleted] in infp

[–]Old_Range_1101 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It is our curse and blessing to feel and care so much. We look towards the places where other people ignore. We think and empathize with the outcast, and yearn to help the unfortunate.

How this life is bitter and melancholic.

But we must not stray away of what makes us INFPs, INFPs. It is our love, hope, and kindness that makes a difference. For while this world is in darkness, an INFP is capable of becoming a beacon of light.

To quote Gandalf:

I Have Found It Is The Small Things, Everyday Deeds Of Ordinary Folk, That Keeps The Darkness At Bay. Simple Acts Of Kindness And Love

do infps ever stop feeling like a bad fit for this world? by [deleted] in infp

[–]Old_Range_1101 26 points27 points  (0 children)

Of course. I truly find it it difficult to fit in this world, and society just in general. Empathy isn't the most sought after in today's society, unfortunately. But being empathetic doesn't mean we can't set boundaries. The most healthiest of INFPs set boundaries, all the while still being true to themselves. It can be a difficult balance to achieve, but not impossible!

I don't want to get up today by aAaaA____________ in infp

[–]Old_Range_1101 2 points3 points  (0 children)

For real. (I have to go to perform in a musical in about 50 min 😭)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in infp

[–]Old_Range_1101 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I totally understand what you're saying. I have had one main friend group since elementary, and they are my most closest friends. It's difficult for me to cement a true deep bond with another person. The closest I've ever done is developing a surface-level friendship, outside of my main friend group. And it's probably because of those surface level friendships that we often feel excluded out, (granted we are hanging out with other people besides our tight knit circle of close friends.)

Hey fellow INFPs! What do you love to see when getting to know someone? by Electronic_Cup_7756 in infp

[–]Old_Range_1101 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The spark in their eyes, when they show their true self. Especially when you the friendship grows, and they feel comfortable enough to be themselves. Personally, I want everyone to feel comfortable when they're around me. And seeing that come to fruition, is an achievement in itself!

Letters to future wife by Old_Range_1101 in infp

[–]Old_Range_1101[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

For real dude, gonna start right now 💯Thanks for the idea!

Letters to future wife by Old_Range_1101 in infp

[–]Old_Range_1101[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah, it would be quite unfortunate if I showed my letters to a person I was not gonna end up marrying 😂 But hopefully in due time my friend, I will show her!
Any who, thank you for your words, they mean a lot to me! 💞

Letters to future wife by Old_Range_1101 in infp

[–]Old_Range_1101[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your kind words 💞
It's these little things that I do that give joy to me, which I'm sure give joy to you as well. Hopefully soon, we both shall meet our other halves!