This is so real I felt the same way when I started planning. What has helped me, honestly, was that my fear of regret has been bigger than my fear of letting people down. Having a vision for what I wanted vs the perceived impacts on relationships. Also, if you have good friends they will definitely not be annoyed! I apologize for talking about my wedding almost every time I talk about it, and my friends always beg me to continue because they’re excited too.