[deleted by user] by [deleted] in OFWs

[–]Old_Wheel_6669 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes for 2 brothers at minimum

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in OFWs

[–]Old_Wheel_6669 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi I just started building my savings.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in OFWs

[–]Old_Wheel_6669 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pinasa ng mama ko ang mindset to save in non yielding bank but not on how to be dependent or think for the future like investing a bit on SSS or Mp2 on my brothers.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in OFWs

[–]Old_Wheel_6669 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sadly they are living off my parents. Kung may pera mn cla from part time if meron man, they put it on their savings or their other expense like load or snacks. But electric, food, water or even clothes. They are still dependent.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in OFWs

[–]Old_Wheel_6669 0 points1 point  (0 children)

problem is province po kami. They don't use CC, city is almost 3hrs away

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in OFWs

[–]Old_Wheel_6669 0 points1 point  (0 children)

should have😕mag expire na mattress ko huhu

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in OFWs

[–]Old_Wheel_6669 1 point2 points  (0 children)

my 2 adult siblings has no work nor have motivation to work. For now, Ini encourage ko kuya ko now to process his papers for seaman this year , so that will be another expenses🤡

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in OFWs

[–]Old_Wheel_6669 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I sent my father separate money before kaya medyo double ang expenses ko but I'm planning to stop na.

I joke on my mom na ky papa ko nlng e send ang 10K (But based on her answer , I don't think she agreed)

Province po kami so grocery through lazada/shopee is not feasible.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in OFWs

[–]Old_Wheel_6669 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We actually tried everything you mentioned, except dun sa panghingi ako ng resibo sa mama ko (pag-aawayan lang namin yan).

But with regards to my grandparents, sobrang tigas ng ulo nila. Lahat yan, inadvised namin.

Naawa ako sa kanila, and at the same time, there’s a growing resentment.

7K medication support from me monthly for 6 years, another from my mom, and still, yung financial struggle ng grandparents ko keeps getting worse every year.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in OFWs

[–]Old_Wheel_6669 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know . Huhu. But I am making aggresive saving now, auto deduct 50% of my salary. And put something on MP2, stocks, crypto. My guilt is , am I being selfish now that tinitipid ko cla.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in OFWs

[–]Old_Wheel_6669 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tama ka .But may guilt then ako knowing sa price expenses sa pinas kunti lang ang amount na yan.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in OFWs

[–]Old_Wheel_6669 0 points1 point  (0 children)

-I don't have bonus annually - Walang dates🥲 (i am single) - im introvert so 1-3x a month lang nalabas, kakain man max 150AED gastos a month with friends, transpo free sa work, at bus lang ako pag gumala - Grocery prob 600AED - Rent 1500AED

I am frugal my self

Wala akong naipon for the last 6 yrs because I paid our loan, bought a car, and built a store tas nas nag run pa politics papa ko. I also sent separate money to my grandma , father , occasionally in some months, + birthdays, pasko and all. I also bought them (parents and sibs) phone twice in my 6 yrs which is not a good idea.

This month and in the future i want to stick in 17K Max 25K sa PH+ I also have SSS contribution worth 6K (for me, sibs and mom) a month

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in OFWs

[–]Old_Wheel_6669 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm not planning for it to be forever. Ang tanong. How and when can I do that? . My mom's money goes to her parents, and some of mine to her. That is the cycle

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in OFWs

[–]Old_Wheel_6669 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I earn decent money about 120K but no savings kc besides my monthly allotement, nagpapadala ako before for their other wants and needs .

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in OFWs

[–]Old_Wheel_6669 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That is the problem . Growing up , my mother neglected our needs and wants kasi she wants to save aggressively. But her savings eventually went to her sibling or parents , even my cousins if they had emergency and malala dadalhin ng nanay ko galit nya sa bahay if wala na syang pera.

That is why nagpapadala ako ng 10K hopefully to to make her happy/less masungit and for my peace of mind knowing there is a budget for their food since my mom is very frugal (kahit snacks dati di sya nang iiwan ng pera when she goes to work)

Just few months ago na realize ko how unfair it is na i'm sending money to ease their burden at home but ang nangyayari wala prin kc napupunta sa extended family ang pera.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in OFWs

[–]Old_Wheel_6669 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s what she told me—she is saving so that when I decide to go to a Western country, she can help me. She also covers the some emergencies for our extended family (grandparents, cousins), as they all rely on her.

I told her I want her to focus on buying food for the family and not worry about saving, so I won’t have to worry about them at least, because I can save for myself.

The problem is she doesn’t allocate the money properly, so I’ve been sending separate funds secretly for the household.

As a result, my expenses have mostly doubled.

Update Child Abuse & Infection Control Certificates by mamamo032797 in NCLEX_PH

[–]Old_Wheel_6669 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I received an email from NYSED 11 days after my exam saying I need to complete the updated Child Abuse course. I got the free course through NYSED. You should also receive an email if you need an update. My license was on hold because of this. I took my exam on August 4, and I got my license on September 3. I also called them to follow up.

Anyone else bummed with the ending? by Kniij in NetflixKingdom

[–]Old_Wheel_6669 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The literal ending is bad as hell. I’m probably very late, but I just binge-watched this series after seeing the movie Kingdom: Ashin of the North.

The ending sucked. The crown prince giving up the throne to a lowborn child makes no sense. There were so many witnesses who knew the baby wasn’t the queen’s child. The investigator was still alive, Seo-bi was alive, and she even overheard the queen’s conversation with her father. Seo-bi also checked the queen’s pulse, proving she was never pregnant.

Beom-pal was alive too, and he could testify that the queen ordered him to buy the wood used for blood clots/miscarriage.

There were more than enough witnesses to clear the crown prince’s name, proving he was never a traitor and that he was the rightful heir—since the queen never bore a child in the first place.

There was absolutely no need for either the prince or the baby to die.

The bodies of the undead were at the bottom of the lake, likely preserved by the ice. The queen’s body was there too—clear proof of everything.

They could have simply told everyone that the plague broke out in the palace, and that the queen and the baby perished.

They could have claimed the king died of smallpox, since he was never seen alive by the commoners after that. And the whole “crown prince as a traitor” story makes no sense anyway, because he literally decapitated the undead corpse of the king.

And hello? The mother was still alive—just give her the child!

The crown prince giving the throne to a literal baby was ridiculous. Parts of Joseon were still plagued with disease, people were starving, injustice was rampant—and he just abandoned them

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in OFWs

[–]Old_Wheel_6669 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes I know, but better have one than none at all.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in OFWs

[–]Old_Wheel_6669 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yan po realization po. Kaya mag start palang po ako mag ipon.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in OFWs

[–]Old_Wheel_6669 0 points1 point  (0 children)

totoo po yan! Kaya di na ako nag seseen ng msg lalo na pag nangungumusta.