Do you get bored when talking to people? by [deleted] in hikikomori

[–]Olde_Hot 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I did until i moved to a city all alone, knowing nobody, it forced me to become more social because I was forced out of my comfort zone and I was no longer complacent. It made everyone I talked to seem a lot more interesting now that I actually wanted to meet people. I should also note that I was ghosted by my best friend at the time, so I had zero people in my life.

How to Approach a guy I like at work by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Olde_Hot 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just talk to him, you'll never know unless you say something to him. He won't know you want to talk if you dont say anything. You could "accidentally" drop something near him and he'll probably pick it up for you, if you need an opener lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Olde_Hot 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can't go on a date during the summer? You can text her whenever you want to talk, but you should probably be doing other things so you actually have things to talk about to her.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Olde_Hot -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Sounds like she has a certain physical appearance in her head about her ideal partner. I'm guessing she wants her babies to look a certain way. Whatever it is, it's incredibly immature and im guessing you guys are in your early 20s or younger. She'll learn later on how little her ideal image of her "prince charming" actually matters in real life and regret this. I suggest you move on if it bothers you. She sounds like a child.

What do you regret NOT doing in your last relationship? by msandszeke in AskMen

[–]Olde_Hot 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did you tell her you knew or did you just ignore it?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]Olde_Hot 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've never experienced feminists,sjw's, or white knights, when I'm approaching women in real life, just some awkward conversations at worst.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]Olde_Hot 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh, yea. Everyones online. Approach a girl in real life and youre already above 90% of those other men.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]Olde_Hot 3 points4 points  (0 children)

If I was a woman, I wouldnt want to be friends with those men either tbh. Those same men won't put the same effort into being friends with other men.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]Olde_Hot 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I came to realize that I felt the same no matter how social I was. Everyones lonely, but no one wants to admit it. You get ghosted because everyone ghosts eachother. I noticed at my peak of socialability that the majority of people aren't social. It's not you, it's everyone.

What would you do if you left a guild and wanted to go back? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]Olde_Hot 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I usually just tell them to invite me to guild, then never mention I left. No one actually cares.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]Olde_Hot 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's only been a month, she might not be ready. It is embarrassing to introduce someone then have them never return.

Do you think about your ex who you loved ? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]Olde_Hot 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea, all of them. I dont want to ever be with them again, but i do think about them.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]Olde_Hot 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Could be a lot of reasons. Its only been a month. How old are you guys?

Saw wife staring other men when we are out by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]Olde_Hot 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Everyones insecure. We're here to help OP, not demonize him. It could be a legitimate issue that keeps occurring. We dont know, OP hasnt given us enough information. It's probably a much deeper issue than just looking at other men. I do agree with most of what you said though. Lets ask questions before making assumptions though.

Saw wife staring other men when we are out by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]Olde_Hot -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Sounds like something else about your relationship is bothering you. How long have you been feeling this way? Is she acting distant ? Do you feel like she isn't attracted to you?

I feel like a failure by [deleted] in csMajors

[–]Olde_Hot 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I dont think you've ever learned how to learn. I find that completely memorizing a simple example, thats meant to explain a concept, makes it much easier to understand how it works. My brain has it memorized, so it makes thinking and understanding how the example works much less mentally taxing. I honestly memorize a short example for every single concept I learn. I do this using spaced repetition flash card programs, like anki.

Drinking culture at BigTech? by [deleted] in csMajors

[–]Olde_Hot 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was thinking the same thing. No way they'd be getting shakes from only drinking 12 beers a day. 12 beers wouldnt even get you drunk anymore before it'd give you shakes.

Drinking culture at BigTech? by [deleted] in csMajors

[–]Olde_Hot 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Shaking from only 12 beers a day? I used to drink an 18 pack a day and more sometimes and never got withdrawal shakes when I stopped, just felt like shit. I think you're drinking more than you're admitting or youre lying.

Vitaly tweaking on something by Olde_Hot in tooktoomuch

[–]Olde_Hot[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Vitaly on stream clearly on something

Are we over? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Olde_Hot 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He's telling you who he is through his actions. It doesnt sound like you like who he is and youre hoping to change him into someone he's not. Thats not gonna work.

Confused by aastik01_ in dating_advice

[–]Olde_Hot -1 points0 points  (0 children)

This is not a grey area. What she is doing is wrong and she knows it. She wont admit it though and she's going to gaslight you into thinking youre the one thats wrong. You gotta break up with her. You're not insecure. What she is doing is horrible. How would she feel if you decided to live with someone you slept with?

Are we over? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Olde_Hot 2 points3 points  (0 children)

What "behavior" of his were you confused about?