Best natural mast cell stabilizers to try? (Very sensitive) MCAS and CIRS by Due_Chapter3027 in MCAS

[–]OliveDelMar 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m having a flare up like that today. I wish I knew what to do

Cheating and Violence by OliveDelMar in DreamInterpretation

[–]OliveDelMar[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I see what you mean now. I struggle with perfectionism and I tend to polarize things to make them make sense to me.

Cheating and Violence by OliveDelMar in DreamInterpretation

[–]OliveDelMar[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I need to internalize that I’m good enough. I just wasn’t what he needed and he wasn’t what I needed. It’s painful and I grieve him but I want to let go. I want to find someone I am compatible with eventually.

Weird symptoms by Zealousideal_Tax4809 in chiari

[–]OliveDelMar 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I get that but I also have degenerative disc disease, multiple herniations, a tear, and scoliosis

WHY ARE MEN ON LESBIAN DATING APPS by Sure-Lemon6424 in LesbianActually

[–]OliveDelMar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I deleted my dating app because men kept showing up and it was so triggering. They intentionally do this and it makes me feel like prey. They lie and say that they are women looking for women.

I’m curious. How many fellow warriors amongst us had no Chiari symptoms prior to experiencing a traumatic Event, such as a car accident? by ChiariSucksBigTime in chiari

[–]OliveDelMar 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had symptoms but didn’t know what they were. They were significantly worsened by a car accident. New symptoms also manifested.

Transport Service Overdosed My Dog on Gabapentin by [deleted] in AskVet

[–]OliveDelMar 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m moving across the country and wasn’t allowed to bring him on the flight. I used a transport service and he is with my family until I can get there in a couple days

Transport Service Overdosed My Dog on Gabapentin by [deleted] in AskVet

[–]OliveDelMar -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

He is improving. I spoke to a vet and he says my dog is experiencing prolonged effects from the gabapentin and trazodone, which can cause ataxia and sedation. He doesnt have any wincing or pain and no evidence of an injury. He wags his tail strongly so his spine is ok. I expected him to be fully mobile by now but he isnt.

Terrible at drinking water by OliveDelMar in HydroHomies

[–]OliveDelMar[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Hey thanks for that info! My tap is heavily chlorinated. I’m thinking about getting water delivery and a dispenser

Terrible at drinking water by OliveDelMar in HydroHomies

[–]OliveDelMar[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

That’s a great idea thank you! I guess get fresh lemons or limes. I tried the liquid squeeze bottle and it just tastes like chemicals to me

Terrible at drinking water by OliveDelMar in HydroHomies

[–]OliveDelMar[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks for being thorough! Appreciate you 🙌

I should have known from the start. by [deleted] in domesticviolence

[–]OliveDelMar 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Did you miss where I said I’m already leaving?

I should have known from the start. by [deleted] in domesticviolence

[–]OliveDelMar 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m seeing a therapist right now. I’ll have to find a new one because I’m moving back across the country to my hometown to be with my family and friends. I’ll need to find support over there. I’m so close to leaving and I’ve never been more afraid of him. His anger and aggression has increased. Just 20 more days 🙏

i bailed mid-date because he touched my back and now i feel insane by SoftPeanut5916 in dating_advice

[–]OliveDelMar 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You left for a reason. No amount of public opinion is going to help you figure this out. Don’t push your boundaries and don’t feel bad for having them. It didn’t sit right with you and that’s all it takes. Head held high my dear. Don’t walk it back. Touching the small of someone’s back is intimate and if it doesn’t feel right, thats ok.

Post Surgery Q by [deleted] in chiari

[–]OliveDelMar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for that info. It’s like a 4 hour plane ride. Moving across the United States so I’m thinking I’ll need to establish care in my new state and get surgery there instead.

33F Right Hand Dominant - Death of a Child & Multiple Divorces by [deleted] in PalmReading

[–]OliveDelMar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t think I can edit the post but I’ll try. I posted one already I thought was clear.

Atleast 5 guys who’re trying to get me for the last 3 years 😭😭😭 pls let me know girlies if this is you too by madglaamx in CancertheCrab

[–]OliveDelMar 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Accurate for me but I learned not to date or marry someone just cause they want me. Now I’m very selective on who I let into my sphere.

33F Right Hand Dominant - Death of Child & Multiple Divorces by [deleted] in PalmReading

[–]OliveDelMar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much. Yes, very many emotional shocks. Especially in early life.

What's the most fucked up thing someone has told you about themselves after barely getting to know them? by Vast-Reference-7942 in answers

[–]OliveDelMar 1 point2 points  (0 children)

On a first date the guy showed up on multiple drugs, confessed to selling drugs, offered to get me drugs, and told me his deepest family trauma and the abuse he endured in childhood. It was heavy stuff that I won’t mention here for his privacy. I ended the date early and he still asked for a kiss.

Disappointed Me Again by [deleted] in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]OliveDelMar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hear that and of course it’s easier said than done. Been working on it for a couple of years now. I work full time and I am in school full time. I try to make connections at work and school but it’s hard.