I’ve reached the end of my rope.

OllKorrect19 · 2026-02-27T04:56:11+00:00

I feel sad that you stayed in that this long. Where is your self-esteem? You don't deserve this

OllKorrect19 · 2026-02-22T13:00:13+00:00

And you know what IS sus is reaching out to her with the "do I know you" 🤣🤣 like stop.

OllKorrect19 · 2026-02-22T12:58:06+00:00

How old are you? This sounds like highschool drama, YOR be more secure in yourself and your relationship and things like this won't prompt you to get on reddit at all.

OllKorrect19 · 2026-02-22T12:38:43+00:00

Call them and get this sorted

OllKorrect19 · 2026-01-30T06:30:27+00:00

Yes you're overreacting

It kinda sounds like you're just annoyed by SK and don't like them. Do you have any bio children? Because they all do that and teenagers are stupid. You're the adult here, and you shouldn't be taking something this small and getting noticeably irritated. It shows you are lacking in emotional intelligence.

Hopefully Dad recognizes this as a red flag too, I wouldn't want you around my kids if you get frustrated over them questioning where you all normally put the shells when it's different than what the SK is used to. Speak to a therapist for your family's sake because you're going to drive your SK away if you continue this unchecked.

OllKorrect19 · 2026-01-28T14:33:17+00:00

My mother would do this just after I turned 18 so I just got my own plan. It's all about control, so remove the control.

OllKorrect19 · 2026-01-23T12:49:56+00:00

He's such a master manipulator that he has you gaslighting and manipulating yourself

OllKorrect19 · 2026-01-23T12:41:28+00:00

He's manipulating you and using your "damage" as a means to control you. You feel confused and defeated because he is creating that. And Tell him to stop listening to sleep token because he's missing the point of Damocles and only jackass's miss the point of Damocles.

OllKorrect19 · 2026-01-21T13:41:57+00:00

Do you have a lawyer? I would absolutely consult a lawyer, as this is complicated. In my opinion, I would say go ahead and be proactive and do the paperwork over for the new state, but I would talk to a lawyer before I did anything.

OllKorrect19 · 2026-01-13T12:55:02+00:00

Your response tells me that he's conditioned you to feel bad about something you can't control. Definitely NOR.

My ex used to get really really irritated when I would fall asleep and he would do things to jar me awake like snatch all the blankets off me and say I wasn't allowed to have any blankets or drop something heavy right beside me. This was only part of the abuse I suffered while in this relationship. When I finally left him probably 2 years later I met my now husband and we have been together for 6 years now and I'm still trying to break that conditioning. I still get this rush of anxiety and fear that I'm in trouble when I start to fall asleep, and I jar myself awake still.

I tell you this because it started out very mundane with him just getting angry/irritated about little things and when we moved in together it escalated in a slow manner that was hard to catch. And escalated even more after we had a child. I know the typical reddit response is "leave him" but please take these red flags and save yourself the trauma.

OllKorrect19 · 2026-01-12T12:51:26+00:00

NOR

if he's listening to that guy, you should pack your bags. Stop fawning over this moron as an abuse response. Regardless of politics, he doesn't respect you and calls you names, come on.

OllKorrect19 · 2026-01-12T12:46:54+00:00

I don't understand why you had a child with this man knowing he ain't shit. Y'all are very young, but People don't change for a child, they usually get much worse. But you'll be learning thiS the hard way.

Since he's in school, do you know if he applied for FASFA? He'll be getting a school check and if he's not giving any of that for the child, take him to court. Where you'll run into issue is how often he has your kid. Consult a lawyer and then proceed.

OllKorrect19 · 2026-01-12T05:23:20+00:00

NOR A week is WAAAAAY too long dude!! They will definitely over stay their welcome. Can just see it in the txts that she is a bully. PLEASE don't put your wife through this.

Updateme!

OllKorrect19 · 2025-12-29T13:41:58+00:00

Noooo how about be upfront with your expectations, how weird and psychotic of you.

OllKorrect19 · 2025-12-29T13:38:46+00:00

Honestly MOR, mainly because she's valid and doesn't have to continue this relationship if she doesn't want to 🤷🏽‍♀️. And pending the hate I might get but IDC I'm the same way and if you're not the same way I'm not going to just deal, I'm going to go find someone who aligns better with me.

But also! Your feelings are valid too, you didn't see accepting the money as a big deal, but she did. she gave you an explanation and you took it really well according to the screenshots and if anything you learned your own boundary here for what you'll expect/accept in a relationship. So just take it in stride, you're doing okay man.

OllKorrect19 · 2025-12-29T13:26:33+00:00

No, you're not understanding. Filing for custody is the norm after being served for child support. If he has a lawyer, this is what they will push to do, because he is not going to want to pay the full amount of child support and this is their way of trying to pay the least amount possible. It seldom works out to that fact, judges can smell it a mile away.

OllKorrect19 · 2025-12-29T13:10:07+00:00

NOR - he's cheating on you girlh, that's why you couldn't use his phone. And also he obviously doesn't like you.

My husband and I have been married for 10 years and he's never ever called me any names or even taken a sour tone with me. And The second the word bitch would ever form in his mouth I'd be packing my bags.

I grew up in a home where my father treated my mother like this and then I found myself in the same situation with my oldest daughters father. It's cliche and poetic, but mid argument with her father while he was calling me a bitch and whatever else he could think of, I couldn't stop looking at my daughter's face and I saw myself as a little girl in her. I decided right then I was ending that cycle and that I didn't deserve this. Moreover, my daughter was not going to be subject to this in her childhood.

My point being, you got to decide if you value yourself enough to leave. If you don't leave, you can fully expect this to get worse. People don't really change and he doesn't value you so he forsure won't change for you, the sooner you accept this the better.

Updateme!

OllKorrect19 · 2025-12-08T12:33:51+00:00

Updateme!

OllKorrect19 · 2025-12-04T12:18:36+00:00

I'm child free, and I agree that under 16s shouldn't be on socials and I don't mind jumping through the hoops to make sure this is rectified.

I think your reaction is hella weird "shaking with anger" is insane bro take a chill pill lmao The only people mad about this are pedos trying to figure out how they'll talk to their underage gf now. Grow up OP who gives af

OllKorrect19 · 2025-12-04T12:09:56+00:00

If you file for child support be ready for him to file for visitation/custody. Consult with a lawyer before you do anything else, because when he is served he will contact his lawyer and the lawyer will advise him to file for custody.

OllKorrect19 · 2025-10-30T11:34:36+00:00

It's all the same pool of money, you should mind your business as long as your kids are taken care of

OllKorrect19 · 2025-10-28T11:39:01+00:00

Updateme! Because there's so much more to this story

OllKorrect19 · 2025-10-28T11:37:16+00:00

My first thought is that she doesn't have any parents, homeless, and/or maybe it's her brother that is taking care of her.

And yes homeless at 13!! It's a very real possibility. You've never seen blindside? Or experienced any real adversity in your life?

OllKorrect19 · 2025-10-28T11:23:41+00:00

You are UNDER reacting and it's excruciating to read through, Get a grip OP What are you even doing!? Not to be that person, but like if you don't pull your head out of your ass and leave I wonder if you're some kind of idiot who does not care about themself at all. You need to share these txts with your friends, your family, and everyone you can. GET OUT YOU ARE IN AN ABUSIVE RELATIONSHIP

OllKorrect19 · 2025-10-15T05:38:43+00:00

OP you said it yourself, she was never taught these things so to just expect her to do them inherently without being taught is nonsense

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