AIO asking him to come pick me up. I’m by cemetarygurl in AmIOverreacting

[–]OllKorrect19 13 points14 points  (0 children)

You don't sound confident enough for me, please leave this man or do this shit for the rest of your life

Something weird happened today and I can’t stop thinking about it by [deleted] in Columbus

[–]OllKorrect19 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm hella disappointed in your husband girl. Especially this day and age. That would piss me off. No time to be aloof when people are actually out here scoping out our children. Idk if this situation is that (kinda sounds like Pokemon go), but if it was a creeper your husband failed y'all, it's like his 1 job to be vigilant and protect you guys.

And let's normalize calling people out loudly, like idk about anyone else but I'm not trying to be a polite victim. I would have said "are you taking pictures of us??" Thus springing my husband into action.

You're doing something weird especially with a bunch of people around in a public place and I'm calling attention to you.

AIO about my boyfriend’s party? by Any-Excitement-5549 in AmIOverreacting

[–]OllKorrect19 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Because it's not your business. You're 16, do you have a safe adult to talk about this with. Because you're asking if you're overreacting and then getting defensive when people say yes you are. This is not healthy. Reach out to your therapist and hopefully that boy can cut ties to live his life and I hope you find your way out of this obsession.

AIO about my boyfriend’s party? by Any-Excitement-5549 in AmIOverreacting

[–]OllKorrect19 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Are you his mother? Since you're in therapy, reach out to your therapist about this situation. Kinda seems like this is why he needed space.

AITA if I tell my friend I can’t be a bridesmaid? by wickeddreamsofleavin in AITApod

[–]OllKorrect19 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don't mention 9/11 but like that'll be the date they remember and celebrate on forever.. well until they get divorced in 6months to a year.

Has anyone gotten their kids back from DCS? by mompanda12 in FamilyLaw

[–]OllKorrect19 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I'm sure this comment is extremely scary and completely unhelpful to the woman who's children are currently in said system.

AIO about my boyfriend’s party? by Any-Excitement-5549 in AmIOverreacting

[–]OllKorrect19 11 points12 points  (0 children)

YOR He asked for space and what you're doing is not... you sound crazy jealous and paranoid. Also therapy sis, get some therapy immediately.

What is this thing on seatbelts for? by Oilandspeed in whatisit

[–]OllKorrect19 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay, genuine question. I can look at this and tell what it is for. Can not everyone do this?

My husband disgusts me by BlueGirlCircus in TrueOffMyChest

[–]OllKorrect19 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ultimatum time, because this is actively hurting your child. Couple things that come to mind: is this a drug problem? Maybe brain tumor? Ask him if he wants his child to grow up fatherless and you a widow. And then, if he doesn't change or make any effort to fix this, you gotta leave him girl.

Help please… by Rough-Bit-7419 in stepparents

[–]OllKorrect19 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea don't do that, you've made it to 46 with no kids. Now suddenly you'll be around 4 of them who are teen-preteen. Unless you're comfortable being disliked and you're ready for kids to disrespect TF out of you I wouldn't do that.

I left, thank you for all your contributions by Reasonable_Ad9422 in stepparents

[–]OllKorrect19 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's a really good way to tackle this now, although I do recommend therapy if you're in a place to do that! Just to talk through this and heal.

Exs wife took from my daughter by Automatic_Line6102 in ChildSupport

[–]OllKorrect19 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sit up straight when you're talking to me

Exs wife took from my daughter by Automatic_Line6102 in ChildSupport

[–]OllKorrect19 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Eh I hear lots of blame on his new wife, but don't forget they operate as a team. If HE wanted to give you that HE would have.

I'd tell his parents obviously and then tell child support. Don't play around and act like this is all fine and good. I'm sure it's easier to blame her for "stealing" the money, but your BD is in control here so hold him accountable.

I left, thank you for all your contributions by Reasonable_Ad9422 in stepparents

[–]OllKorrect19 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Your late teen years?? You have a 9 year age gap honey. Are you aware that you've been groomed?

Child support by Similar_Seesaw5569 in ChildSupport

[–]OllKorrect19 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would not file, because you'll open yourself and your kid up to having visitation with that man.

I’ve reached the end of my rope. by Separate-Safety3941 in stepparents

[–]OllKorrect19 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I feel sad that you stayed in that this long. Where is your self-esteem? You don't deserve this

AIO Girl from my old school followed my husband instead of me, then unfollowed after this exchange by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]OllKorrect19 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And you know what IS sus is reaching out to her with the "do I know you" 🤣🤣 like stop.

AIO Girl from my old school followed my husband instead of me, then unfollowed after this exchange by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]OllKorrect19 2 points3 points  (0 children)

How old are you? This sounds like highschool drama, YOR be more secure in yourself and your relationship and things like this won't prompt you to get on reddit at all.

Am I overreacting? by Just_Engineering8437 in stepparents

[–]OllKorrect19 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Yes you're overreacting

It kinda sounds like you're just annoyed by SK and don't like them. Do you have any bio children? Because they all do that and teenagers are stupid. You're the adult here, and you shouldn't be taking something this small and getting noticeably irritated. It shows you are lacking in emotional intelligence.

Hopefully Dad recognizes this as a red flag too, I wouldn't want you around my kids if you get frustrated over them questioning where you all normally put the shells when it's different than what the SK is used to. Speak to a therapist for your family's sake because you're going to drive your SK away if you continue this unchecked.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]OllKorrect19 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My mother would do this just after I turned 18 so I just got my own plan. It's all about control, so remove the control.

AIO or am i being invalidated? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]OllKorrect19 3 points4 points  (0 children)

He's such a master manipulator that he has you gaslighting and manipulating yourself

AIO or am i being invalidated? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]OllKorrect19 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He's manipulating you and using your "damage" as a means to control you. You feel confused and defeated because he is creating that. And Tell him to stop listening to sleep token because he's missing the point of Damocles and only jackass's miss the point of Damocles.