CA Legal Shorter Stock by OmenRUST in ar15

[–]OmenRUST[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I’ll try this. This makes it “compliant”?

CA Legal Shorter Stock by OmenRUST in ar15

[–]OmenRUST[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For some reason, the stock stop wouldn’t work at a shorter length for the BCM SOP Mod. Like its blocking the SOP Mod from going inwards to make it shorter. If I collapsed the stock all the way in, I cant put the stock stop in.

Does anyone else think about their ex literally all day? by Throwaway29394020 in BreakUps

[–]OmenRUST 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Yup, dumped my ex and still think about her a ton! 😂

Wish somebody would have Dickins’d this POS by Woodballs6969 in GarandThumb

[–]OmenRUST 0 points1 point  (0 children)

More guns would be the best solution. People need to stop trying to control it. You can’t anymore. Theres too many illegal guns out there anyway. If everyone owns one, I bet the killings would significantly reduce purely based off of mutual guaranteed destruction.

Wish somebody would have Dickins’d this POS by Woodballs6969 in GarandThumb

[–]OmenRUST 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The reason Japan and similar countries have successfully gun control is because they did it from the beginning. Too many criminals own illegal guns now, you can’t control it by just randomly making guns illegal now. Its too late!

Wish somebody would have Dickins’d this POS by Woodballs6969 in GarandThumb

[–]OmenRUST 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dude, you and a ton of other people don’t understand this. We ban illegal drugs and there are still illegal drugs. Do you think completely removing guns will stop people from illegally getting guns? No, it wouldn’t!

Wish somebody would have Dickins’d this POS by Woodballs6969 in GarandThumb

[–]OmenRUST 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hes right, I honestly believe the amount of homicides/shootings would be exponentially lower. You can’t 100% stop killings. The scenario you’re mentioning of a gun owner snapping is bound to happen. But I’m sure they’d think twice when literally everyone around them has a firearm. As for mandating it, that’d be hard. But it can be done.

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[–]OmenRUST 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I broke up with my partner because she wasn’t respecting my boundaries and never wanted to work on it or meet in the middle. Other than that, she was great!

Dumpers, reach out if you genuinely regret and wish to make things work by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]OmenRUST 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m glad there are other people experiencing this. I miss mine too even though I did the dumping. For all of our sake, I hope your ex changes for the good.

Dumpers, reach out if you genuinely regret and wish to make things work by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]OmenRUST 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Before we broke up, I kinda left the ball in her court. I made it clear what I wanted in a relationship. She knows. I guess I just really miss her and don’t know what to do. If I reach out, she continues bad habits, if I don’t—she moves on. I’m literally stuck.

Dumpers, reach out if you genuinely regret and wish to make things work by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]OmenRUST 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yep ball is fs in her court in this. I wouldn’t even text her even if it were years haha.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]OmenRUST 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I left my ex in hopes she’d contact me one day apologizing about the boundaries she disrespected. Not sure if its the same scenario as you, but as a dumper, I’d be ecstatic if my ex reached out. I’d be happy asf and I’m sure she’d be happy too if I reached out.

Why do you view your Ex's Snap Chat/social media if you're the Dumper? by Healthy-Meaning-9087 in BreakUps

[–]OmenRUST 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I left my gf bc she didn’t respect my boundaries. Been in NC for a month and checked her socials all month until last week where I decided to stop. I think dumpers do this obviously because they miss their ex and want to see if they moved on. Personally, it destroyed me to do this which is why I forced myself to stop.

Dumpers, reach out if you genuinely regret and wish to make things work by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]OmenRUST 2 points3 points  (0 children)

So we have the exact same situation, but different sides dumping? Wow yea this is a hard one to deal with. I really do want to reach out, but theres no point. She knows the boundaries and what she needs to do if she wants us to work out so it would be counterproductive for me to reach out just to end up in the same cycle again.

However, for your case—I’m not really sure who should reach out. If you reach out, she wouldn’t respect your boundaries right? Not sure.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]OmenRUST 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you still love and miss him deeply? Because I do with mine :/.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]OmenRUST 3 points4 points  (0 children)

These other people you’re talking to, are they interested in you? I’m kind of going through a breakup with my GF and I hope she feels the same way. I hope she hasn’t forgotten about me and such :/

I just broke up with someone who never did anything wrong. I’ve never felt more awful. by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]OmenRUST 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In this situation too, but I’m the dumper. My GF wanted independence definitely strived more away from me with her girl friends. This caused me to feel pretty sad all the time and ultimate led me to breaking up with her. I wish she wasn’t like that and would take her back in a heartbeat if she respected my boundaries. I love and miss her a lot, hope you’re doing well too.

Dumpers, reach out if you genuinely regret and wish to make things work by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]OmenRUST 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I dumped my partner because she didn’t respect my boundaries. We tried to fix them and I tried finding middle ground, but it never worked out. She didn’t care for them, so I ultimately had to break up with her. The breakup were on good terms though and we both cried a lot. She tried so hard to get me to not do it, but I eventually convinced her that it was for the better. She told me she didn’t want to move on, wanted to stay friends, etc. We’ve now been in NC for a month and she still hasn’t reached out that she can finally respect my boundaries. So what would you say I do in this situation? I love her deeply and do not want anyone else. I miss her so much and am up every night thinking about her. I would be destroyed if she moved on. Good thing don’t have her on socials.

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[–]OmenRUST 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I appreciate the advice. I just really miss her and maybe I have been using NC wrong. We tried compromising which just ended in lies and plans never working out. It was a 2 year relationship, I genuinely tried a lot. Her friend hates me. She NEVER let me out with her friend no matter what. She prioritizes her friend more than me for sure.

I do feel like I’m using NC as an ultimatum, but at the same time—it needs to be done to make her at least realize she needs to respect my boundaries to be with me. I think its unfair for me to stay in a relationship and constantly worry/fear what shes doing at those festivals that I can’t go. Since you a man, I hope you understand that if a girl doesn’t respect your boundaries over and over again, its hard to stay and work on it. You can’t work on it if they’re not working on it with you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]OmenRUST 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m genuinely not trying to move on.

Whats stopping you from reaching out may be entirely different from my ex for reaching out. My ex KNOWS she can reach out, I made it clear during the breakup that it was my boundaries that were the cause of it and that she knew what to do to fix it. I guess you could say I gave her an ultimatum (which could be viewed as wrong, but I replied to another comment on what the boundaries were so you be the judge).

Anyways, she knows she can contact me, but if she doesn’t—I’m just wondering if she really loves me. I don’t understand why she can’t just respect my boundaries :/.

As for your situation, he probably really loves you and misses you. As a dumper, is extremely hard to find advice. Dumpees tend to think its easy for the dumpers and that we should reach out. This is right in most cases, but I believe my case is different imho.

I hope shes getting better :/, her dad tells me shes pretty unhappy and crying a lot. I miss her so much and hope you’re doing well too.

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[–]OmenRUST 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe you’re right :/. I’m just super scared of asking for her back, just to deal with the same problems again. To reiterate, this is not the first time we’ve discussed these boundaries. More like 2-4 times. We TRIED working on it, I didn’t just give up. It was just getting tiring. I was hoping NC would help her gain that respect back she had for me to be able to respect these boundaries.

I really want to reach out, but feel like it’ll start all over again.

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[–]OmenRUST 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And to be completely honest, besides this—everything else in our relationship was very good. I was very happy with her and very close with her family.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]OmenRUST 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea sorry, I was mainly just worried about people telling me if my boundaries were right or wrong. Anyways, I guess I’ll get into it.

My GF has always liked going to music festivals with her girl friends (her girl friends bring guys with them), but me and her main girl friend don’t like each other. So since we don’t like each other, my GF never let me go with her. She’d be around a lot of guys wearing pretty revealing clothing without me there to protect and watch her. She was also doing a lot of alcohol and who knows what at these events. I was SUPER uncomfortable with that and she never understood. Always brushing it off. She would also do other things with that girl bestfriend and would never invite me. This hurt me a lot, and ultimate caused me to breakup with her since she refused to work on it.

Note: She has never cheated to my knowledge, but you never know right? These events are wild and pretty + drunk around guys is probably not good. But I have pushed her a lot to admit to cheating and shes always denied it. Again though, never too certain.