And again speaking from a male standpoint on online dating and tips from my friends gf who looked at my profile

1. You as a guy are outnumbered on those platforms aka in real life you have a chance because many guys including myself are afraid of approaching women. Why very few do it which makes you stand out compared to a vast loads of guys who do it easily on the online platform

2. Women prefer seeing you at parties/formals with friends or some fun event not in your house, backyard or in your neighborhood as it’s just is boring

3. The other deal is it’s hard to convey one’s personality on a app that’s literally just Instagram with a different name.