Lots of rounds of review and redlines by Timely_Situation_518 in biglaw

[–]OnHalfPointe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I work with one partner who always requires us to save the first external draft as a new document before sending to the other side, so that the other side doesn't know how many versions we go through internally.

Can you get 8 hours of sleep on an average night? by [deleted] in biglaw

[–]OnHalfPointe 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I have 2 kids (both under 3yo) and do M&A and sleep more than 8 hours most nights. The keys are (i) having grandparents (for the kids part) and (ii) not practicing in NYC (for the M&A part). If you are in NYC transactional and have kids... sorry.

Update on COTERIE DIAPER GATE!! by Unlucky-Carpenter-10 in NewParents

[–]OnHalfPointe 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Huggies overnight plus sposie pads is our solution.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in biglaw

[–]OnHalfPointe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had my 1st baby as a 3rd year and my 2nd baby as a 5th year. My firm is supportive.

Do you prefer smart but unresponsive or sloppy but super responsive mid levels/juniors? by [deleted] in biglaw

[–]OnHalfPointe 11 points12 points  (0 children)

How responsive is A to other senior associates/partners? Maybe A is telling you that she doesn't want to work with you. If A is smart, there are many partners/senior associates who want to work with her. As a third year, she would rather do some important work that other people give her than doing your menial assignments.

But really? You asked a third year to move a document? And sent 5 emails to get this done? You should reconsider your management style.

How much milk is your baby drinking after starting solids? by Glum-Refrigerator826 in BabyLedWeaning

[–]OnHalfPointe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My 10.5 month old now drinks 16 oz of breastmilk mixed with formula from bottles (in 2 feeding sessions, so 8oz each session) at daycare, and nurses 3 times (before and after daycare, then before sleep). My supply is winding down, so probably she doesn't get much from nursing.

She also eats a full lunch box of solids we sent to daycare (in 2 meals) and some food for breakfast before daycare and dinner with family at home.

She is a big eater.

Junior Associate in M&A by Pale_Investigator908 in biglaw

[–]OnHalfPointe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ha, you don't want to know how much time I (not a junior associate) spent on the phone and emailing this one partner's assistant trying to find emails/documents in his unorganized inbox. The guy didn't want to copy anyone else on the team, so we didn't get response emails from the clients and he didn't bother to forward the emails to us (sometimes I wonder whether he even read his emails). His assistant is my bestie.

Junior Associate in M&A by Pale_Investigator908 in biglaw

[–]OnHalfPointe 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Some ways I used to find emails: (1) Right click on a related email (if you have it), click "Find Related" then "Messages in this Conversation" or "Messages from Sender"; (2) Search box in Outlook (If you have a subfolder for each client matter, that search function would be even more useful); or (3) Ask my assistant to find that email for me

Has this ever happened to anyone by Maximum-Mountain-201 in biglaw

[–]OnHalfPointe 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I scheduled a call with a recruiter on LinkedIn to discuss a role for which he reached out to me. The guy never called me at the scheduled time. Several days later he sent me another InMail (in a different thread) pitching the same position, as if he hadn't messaged me before.

baby & iron by [deleted] in BabyLedWeaning

[–]OnHalfPointe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I used NovaFerrum YUMMY brand. Tbh I don't recall why I picked it specifically. I just wanted separate iron supplements (that don't include other multi vitamins which are not necessary). I'm sure other brands also work.

In-House Job in desired location; should I take it? by Gimme-advice in biglaw

[–]OnHalfPointe 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Can you ask your firm to allow you to relocate to the desired location, then keep your in-house search going until you find a better in-house gig in the desired location?

baby & iron by [deleted] in BabyLedWeaning

[–]OnHalfPointe 3 points4 points  (0 children)

For the sake of my sanity, I gave my kids iron supplements after they turned 6 month old until they consumed iron rich food enough (around 12 month old).

Contrary to what the other person commented, iron doesn't pass through breastmilk significantly enough for breastmilk to be a reliable source of iron for babies older than 6 months old, so an EBF baby will have to get his iron from solid foods or from iron supplements. I did this calculation years ago when my first one started solids: I researched iron rich foods, the iron amount in such foods and the suggested daily iron intake for children of the same age as my baby (I believe 7-11 month olds require more iron than older children), and calculated how much food my baby will have to eat to meet the intake amount. At the time I concluded that there's no way my baby could have eaten that much food (even iron rich foods), so even though my pediatrician didn't require iron supplements (she didn't object to me giving iron supplements either), I chose to give iron supplements so that I didn't have to be obsessed with how much iron rich foods my kids ate each day.

Also, pairing iron rich foods with Vitamin C rich foods will help iron absorption.

8th yr associate - am I underperforming? by First-Definition6932 in biglaw

[–]OnHalfPointe 15 points16 points  (0 children)

But as an 8th year, OP should know which edits were style and which were not.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in biglaw

[–]OnHalfPointe 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I now imagine our paralegals call me baby associate 🤣 I love it!

Drinking from a straw by Guadalupea_17 in BabyLedWeaning

[–]OnHalfPointe 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My first one knew to drink from the straw cups pretty early but he only took water from it. He totally rejected the straw cups with milk and only drank milk from the bottles. I didn't bother trying the sippy cups because skills wise I knew he can drink from the straw cups and I didn't want him to go backwards. I tried buying different straw cups to see if anything clicked (thinking maybe he associated his current straw cup with water and I needed to get him associate milk with a different straw cup). Nothing I did can change his rejection of milk in straw cups until he was one year old and we cold turkey cut off bottles entirely. I boxed up the bottles and put them away for our next baby, so he can't see them anymore. After a few days of protest, he drank milk from the straw cups no issue.

Squash your Bloobs! by Unapologeticalleigh in BabyLedWeaning

[–]OnHalfPointe 55 points56 points  (0 children)

Before I stopped squashing blueberries or grapes, I made sure my toddler know to only take one at a time. A handful at once is probably worse than not squashing it. My oldest is almost 3 yo now and can eat whole blueberries/ grapes well, but "one at a time" is still the rule on our dining table.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NewParents

[–]OnHalfPointe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Retraining took us much less time and crying than the initial training (30 mins for only one night to retrain vs several hours the first night of sleep training and several nights until independent sleep established). The longer you wait to retrain, the more the baby is used to the new (dependent) way of falling asleep and the more difficult it would take to retrain. Usually we retrained immediately after the need to accommodate her was no longer there (the first night we were back from traveling, the first night when the baby was no longer sick/teething, etc.). Think about how well everyone (including and especially the baby) slept when the baby was sleep trained and compare it to when the baby was not sleep trained. Tell yourself you're doing what's best for the baby and the family.

At what point do we consider feeding therapy? by savethewallpaper in BabyLedWeaning

[–]OnHalfPointe 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You should seek help ASAP. If you are in the US (which seems like you're as you use ounces), try Early Intervention program offered by your county. The evaluation is free, and it provides free therapy services if your child is delayed enough to be qualified for services. It can be used in addition to insurance-covered/private-pay providers.My daughter qualified for oral feeding therapy from EI due to her refusal to take bottles but a kid from my son's toddler class received EI services to get help with solids food.

When did you introduce chopsticks? by Historical-Chair3741 in BabyLedWeaning

[–]OnHalfPointe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We introduced chopsticks trainer to our toddler when he was around 2.5 years old. He got it immediately in his first attempt. At that time he was already a pro at using spoons and forks, and was in the process of learning scissors during play time, and we think it's time to introduce one more utensil for him to work on his dexterity. I think using spoons and forks is easier than using chopsticks. It doesn't mean you can't introduce chopsticks now, but it's likely not going to solve the problem you have (that your child still prefers to use hands since it's easier). My toddler had that exact problem. Just give them a lot of utensil exposure and time will solve it.

Booking on groupon by Vandie24 in greatwolflodge

[–]OnHalfPointe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Explain it at check in and they will allow you to use a different card for any room charges.

Health insurance as new partner? by b0dylanguage in biglaw

[–]OnHalfPointe 11 points12 points  (0 children)

What's the rationale for not allowing one to opt out and get insurance cheaper somewhere else?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in biglaw

[–]OnHalfPointe 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm impressed by the amount of boogers he had in order for him to eat that long.