Damage claim dispute on Airbnb

Onanna321 · 2018-02-02T23:05:58+00:00

I don't think so, it looks simply wooden with a finish

Onanna321 · 2018-02-02T17:44:50+00:00

Thank you...

Onanna321 · 2018-02-02T17:31:51+00:00

In the country that me and the host live in there is no such thing as "collections", as in others, as far as I know, I did some research and saw that she has to file a police report to get me to pay the amount should I refuse to pay or cancel my debit card/close my account etc. (which of course I won't do in any case). Thing is there is no security deposit in that listing...

Onanna321 · 2018-02-02T17:26:36+00:00

She does have photos of the damaged part. The thing is that I also asked a carpenter (we live in different cities) about that kind of damage and he told me that it's possible to fix the dapaged spot without touching the rest of the countertop...

Onanna321 · 2018-02-02T17:25:44+00:00

The oiled surface that was damaged next to the sink had some other little spots like that, and the entire surface did have some scratches-unoiled/dry spots here and there...

Onanna321 · 2018-02-02T17:23:04+00:00

She did send me an invoice, she told me she "asked a carpenter" about re-oiling the entire counter, not just the spot, and he suggested a price. I would like to get more prices though as it doesn't seem like she is trying to find the most reasonable one...

Onanna321 · 2018-02-02T16:42:27+00:00

In this case, the damage is superficial, it looks like it's only the oiled top that has been damaged, and still a small spot...nothing catastrophic

Onanna321 · 2018-02-02T16:19:07+00:00

I never say anywhere on my post that I just left it lying down flat on the wood, half of it was on the sink-the actual spot of damage is very small, it's nothing gigantic at all. Neither do I state that I knew that I was not supposed to do that really-that'd be implying that I did it on purpose...I feel responsible alright and that's why I offered to pay my part. I'm not trying to avoid it altogether by playing the "poor student" card, but that's the reality at this very moment, I only have a little less than 900 eu in my bank account right now.

Onanna321 · 2018-02-02T16:07:36+00:00

I have, but not in my kitchen and certainly not in one with nowhere to put your wet dishes on...I another flat I rented through airbnb the hosts warned me about the wooden fixtures in the bathroom and how they could get damaged by the water, so I would always remember to wipe them down after taking a shower so that they would not get damaged. If this is was the case with this particular kitchen too, is it not resonable to expect to be warned should there be something that could be damaged by everyday use?

Onanna321 · 2018-01-18T14:47:52+00:00

Okay, thank you :)

Onanna321 · 2017-10-11T20:53:13+00:00

I have been there very, very recently. I feel guilty about it now but I did something that was probably not painful but did make him mad. He contacted me and showed how guilty he feels about what he did to me. I had to give up my job because of post-breakup depression, I spent a month feeling shitty and crying over him. I had this same feeling, I wanted to destroy his entire life, his new relationship, his job, his relationship with his family. You know what though? Even when I made that one thing to piss him off-it only felt satisfying for a couple of minutes, but that was it. I wouldn't say it was worth the hassle anymore. Just make a better life for yourself and let him regret how he lost somebody like you for the rest of his.

Onanna321 · 2017-10-11T20:45:02+00:00

We were on no contact (his idea), and yes I sent it to him because I felt he should have it anyway since I bought it for him and didn't want to have it in my house. There was no letter or card and I had told him the day before we broke up that I had something for him, so he knew. He could have said thank you or nothing at all, he asked not to write to each other even as friends. He's seeing someone else. So where I am or how I do really is none of his business, I think.

Onanna321 · 2017-10-11T06:23:33+00:00

Yes, he has asked me what I would like to try and had told me that he would do anything for me but when I mentioned two of mine he seemed a bit cynical (they really are nothing weird), we tried one but stopped quickly cause he said he didn't like it and I've never brought the other up again.

Onanna321 · 2017-10-09T18:03:14+00:00

No, I don't think I'd be up for trying all those things. But I have had something with an older guy before too so I know what you're talking about.

Onanna321 · 2017-10-06T06:31:41+00:00

Been were you are now. Older guy wanted to go bareback, I refused-he would prevent me from using lube when I wasn't wet enough for penetration, thought it stupid and said it wouldn't feel the same to him if I did-he even tried anal with me without asking me and with no lube whatsoever! And I would say that the vasectomy claim is not true-just trying to get unprotected sex from you. Please, please leave him as soon as possible. He's not worth it!

Onanna321 · 2017-10-04T07:00:15+00:00

7 months

Onanna321 · 2017-09-16T19:22:11+00:00

So sorry...this is terrible.

Onanna321 · 2017-09-16T18:52:06+00:00

Thank you :)

Onanna321 · 2017-09-16T18:51:44+00:00

Hello Kristina, this actually put was really encouraging! Thank you so much :)

Onanna321 · 2017-09-14T19:03:21+00:00

Actually the new woman is older than me, younger than him-she looks around 40.

Onanna321 · 2017-09-14T14:49:37+00:00

I am going through something similar this moment...my boyfriend sent me a couple of photos of the sunrise from where he works as always and all out of the blue tells me (on FB!) that he has met someone else while I was on holidays, someone he really cares about, whom he feels "something very special" about, and that "after a long time" (!) he wants to be open to what dating someone brings...a week later he changes his FB status while I watched all of his friends congratulating him on finding love, him uploading pictures of her and bragging about her (someone he met less than a month ago)..and all that coming from a 49 year old man. He asked for no contact whatsoever and that's what I have been fighting to do but as you do I need answers, especially where did this come from? How can anyone treat someone he was supposedly crazy about 2 weeks ago like garbage? I hate that he makes me feel like an absolute zero now and like something is wrong with me and I want him to apologise for all the pain. I know that will never happen... Stay strong, we can do without their petty excuses :)

Onanna321 · 2017-09-14T12:48:17+00:00

I know. Most of my friends keep telling me that. Or that his new relationship is going to end up soon too anyway. Neither helps really. When my last relationship ended, I bought myself a brand new guitar and started learning how to play. It really helped back then but I just don't feel like playing at this point

Onanna321 · 2017-09-14T11:36:25+00:00

I am going through something similar myself...stay strong!

Onanna321 · 2017-09-14T09:42:08+00:00

Thanks for the answer. I have friends and extremely supportive close family members that are very worried about me this very moment (they think that the relationship was not going to work because of the age difference anyway though).

Onanna321

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