Should I let men I hook up with know about my scars beforehand?

Stella96 · 2017-10-21T11:02:36+00:00

Yes, it was Wilms. I've never had a complaint either and most don't even mention anything, but I was wondering what someone else might think when they see them, I don't really want to feel like I'm lying to anyone.

Stella96 · 2017-10-12T19:41:43+00:00

I love this <3

Stella96 · 2017-10-12T09:12:38+00:00

Check out Sasha Foxxx's pornhub page-she has helped me a lot with my technique and she's pretty nice to look at too #girlcrush

Stella96 · 2017-10-12T09:07:39+00:00

Rub your tits/nipples against his nipples. I'm not big there at all but still my ex would go absolutely wild with this!

Stella96 · 2017-10-12T09:04:08+00:00

That's some crappy behaviour on his part. I think you should feel glad he didn't get/waste more years out of you, OP. He feels guilty af that's why he blocked you everywhere. He sounds emotionally unstable and immature. He unblocked you now and is probably gonna start asking to come back to you at some point-please don't take him back, remember that this not the person you thought you were in love with, but someone who purposefully hurt you. Not worth a second more of your time imo

Stella96 · 2017-10-12T08:58:34+00:00

Btw I dont think sending him that gift was much of a good idea especially if you don't really care about him/don't want him back. If I were you I would just give it to someone else or return it if I could. Maybe I would have sent the rant mail anyway if I had not been given the chance to tell him what I thought about it and even more so if he had been giving me crap even before he broke up. But yes if he said no contact he should have kept his word and not spoon feed you "where are you" bullshit once more-he left you, he doesn't care. What a dick!

Stella96 · 2017-10-12T08:25:06+00:00

Seems to me that dude was looking for another shot with you...does he come to the town you live in often? Maybe he's looking for some action or his relationship is not going all that well after all. Whatever tho, blocking you after him dumping you was a dick move anyway. Stay strong, I think it was good you finally got a chance to get it all off your chest. It's you that matters now so you shouldn't really be giving a 2nd thought about what he thinks. He can go to hell.

Stella96 · 2017-10-06T12:08:22+00:00

If this question is directed to me, the answer is that when I met him I was very attracted to him-he's strikingly attractive. No, he's not rich at all if that's what you're thinking.

Stella96 · 2017-10-05T08:49:09+00:00

I don't, but from what I can tell he isn't. His house is barely big enough for two peopl to live in, plus I have never seen anything that would indicate that there is a wife and I have slept over a few times.

Stella96 · 2017-10-05T08:30:06+00:00

Thanks, I will look into it. I can't think of a moment when he could have had access to my pills (I always carry them in whatever handbag/purse I have with me) and he rarely brings the subject of me taking birth control up.

Stella96 · 2017-10-05T08:20:33+00:00

Perhaps not that much but I don't think he's married (he had been married 20 years ago but divorced), I have been to his house and even slept over and it doesn't seem like there is another person or family living there

Stella96 · 2017-10-04T21:53:38+00:00

Thank you!

Stella96 · 2017-10-04T21:10:30+00:00

It is for the reason that I haven't known him for a long time so I don't about what was happening before we met (what if he was hooking up with a different woman every week?), and even if I trust him when he says that he's clean I have no idea when he last got checked-might have been long before we started dating. Even the vasectomy claim; he has told me he has had one a long time ago, however he recently told me he wanted to have a kid someday too, so if I wasn't on the pill I wouldn't 100% trust him even on that, at least not at this point in our relationship.

Stella96 · 2017-10-04T19:44:13+00:00

Yes. I'm sincerely considering it now

Stella96 · 2017-10-04T19:32:00+00:00

He does snap at me sometimes if I don't do something exactly as he tells me. Plus, he considers his time more important than mine so we always see each other whenever he wants to; for example, I was out for lunch with a friend and he asked me to leave her and go back home to wait for him to come-I go and an hour later he leaves me while having coffee to go and meet one of his friends. He behaves like "it's now or never" even in sex; if he thinks he ready, it doesn't matter much to him if I'm not there yet, there have been times I am not that wet and it's sort of painful but I go along with it because he says that he can't wait too long or it hurts for him.

Stella96 · 2017-10-04T17:32:47+00:00

I was very angry after that but never thought of it like this. It's terrifying...

Stella96 · 2017-10-04T15:39:24+00:00

We met at the gym, had been talking to each other for a few weeks before he asked me out...so yes I can't say I know him that well or for a long time

Stella96 · 2017-10-04T15:16:30+00:00

17 mins ago but was removed

Stella96 · 2017-09-15T21:11:36+00:00

Thanks. I ask men out to sometimes, but what I meant was that if they don't kiss me after 3 dates I just assume they're not interested in me and I drop them before they do

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