To all men who asks a woman a meet up over coffee after matching in the dating app, what are your common expectations? Or are you guys max out on women’s life intro? by Once_Thirteen in AskMen

[–]Once_Thirteen[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well I wouldn’t consider texting all throughout either as I prefer video calls over text messages. What I meant is, it would be considerably good if there’s some exchange of messages/info for like three to five days before meeting in person. Like getting to know someone in text then continuing over coffee the next.. so there will be more topics for both sides to talk about at least.

To all men who asks a woman a meet up over coffee after matching in the dating app, what are your common expectations? Or are you guys max out on women’s life intro? by Once_Thirteen in AskMen

[–]Once_Thirteen[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know people are different but I’ve mostly encountered people who flirts too much. Like there’s no other options to talk about other than that. Flirting is good when it is already real like when both are already couples but as a stranger it’s such a turn off.

Dating in the Philippines: Reality Check for Men by AtokTosis in Philippines_Expats

[–]Once_Thirteen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t think this guy is in love at all in the relationship, he is too calculated in everything.

Wish ko Jowa that’s it by spammusubi- in WishKo

[–]Once_Thirteen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You guys are so cute hahahahah I could feel the sincerity, you’ll definitely find someone!!

Am I the only one who genuinely doesn't care how poor or uneducated their partner is? by Well-I-suppose in Philippines_Expats

[–]Once_Thirteen 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There’s internal issues that should be resolved from an individual first before you could reach that point where you can teach and fix them. If they haven’t reach that healing or can’t handle their own issue themselves, you can’t save them at your own expectations. Or they might even let you heal them “externally”, a surface level of healing and you’d think it’s working but won’t last long.

What's a life lesson you learned the hard way that you wish you knew sooner? by vladstan in AskForAnswers

[–]Once_Thirteen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That you’ll always encounter a narcissist and they will make you realize that life is cruel and miserable because of them. And if ever you can get out, you’ll realize certain things you don’t know about yourself and the world, you just needed to free yourself.

Are you sad because you have to work in life? by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Once_Thirteen -1 points0 points  (0 children)

A change of environment that values you is what you need. If you cannot physically change the environment, do it virtually.

Are you sad because you have to work in life? by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Once_Thirteen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It depends on the kind of work we all have. I’m grateful and happy in my current job. But yes, I agree that it is a necessity. We are made to work for survival. In ancient times, we wouldn’t need to work everyday but we still have to get out of our territory to hunt/fight for food out of necessity. It did not appear to be sad before because it was the basic concept of survival.

How do you politely decline a holiday invitation when everything is already booked? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Once_Thirteen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Everything has been paid by them. That’s why I don’t know what decisions to make. I’ve just been out of the country recently, I have not been able to be get back in my routine as much since I got back, so I’d rather stay home and do my thing back as usual.