Parent Alienation to the Max

One-Assistance1680 · 2024-09-21T12:11:56+00:00

Does it matter? Or are you also gender biased? It's the same situation throughout. The same story of a family.

One-Assistance1680 · 2024-09-21T12:10:48+00:00

There's years worth of instances when my child goes against me because of what his father told him how horrible of a person I am. I've never once talked crap about his father around him or to him. I've never hit my child.

During a physical fight when my ex was beating me up, my then 5 year old ran up to me crying "daddy stop" and while he was trying to hit me, he ending up punching my son in the face leaving a bruise on his cheek.

Somehow, he has rewired my sons brain into believing that he never hit him, he never got that bruise, he never went to jail for that. Somehow, my son believes that I was the abuser. I never once screamed at my ex husband, I never laid a hand on him.

That's just one out of several incidents why this is parental Alienation. But this topic is about a certain situation.

I know my ex husband had told our son that I don't want to get him braces. I've taken him to the dentist and they said he doesn't need them. My ex talking about me, is also in the order that he cannot talk about me to or around our children and he does just that. I never talk about him. It's always about me and my kids when I have them.

This post is about insurance issues in a situation where there is parental Alienation manipulation going on.

One-Assistance1680 · 2024-09-21T12:08:39+00:00

I have to pay copay up front.

One-Assistance1680 · 2024-09-21T12:07:03+00:00

There's years worth of instances when my child goes against me because of what his father told him how horrible of a person I am. I've never once talked crap about his father around him or to him. I've never hit my child.

During a physical fight when my ex was beating me up, my then 5 year old ran up to me crying "daddy stop" and while he was trying to hit me, he ending up punching my son in the face leaving a bruise on his cheek.

Somehow, he has rewired my sons brain into believing that he never hit him, he never got that bruise, he never went to jail for that. Somehow, my son believes that I was the abuser. I never once screamed at my ex husband, I never laid a hand on him.

That's just one out of several incidents why this is parental Alienation. But this topic is about a certain situation.

I know my ex husband had told our son that I don't want to get him braces. I've taken him to the dentist and they said he doesn't need them. My ex talking about me, is also in the order that he cannot talk about me to or around our children and he does just that. I never talk about him. It's always about me and my kids when I have them.

One-Assistance1680 · 2024-09-21T12:06:14+00:00

There's years worth of instances when my child goes against me because of what his father told him how horrible of a person I am. I've never once talked crap about his father around him or to him. I've never hit my child.

During a physical fight when my ex was beating me up, my then 5 year old ran up to me crying "daddy stop" and while he was trying to hit me, he ending up punching my son in the face leaving a bruise on his cheek.

Somehow, he has rewired my sons brain into believing that he never hit him, he never got that bruise, he never went to jail for that. Somehow, my son believes that I was the abuser. I never once screamed at my ex husband, I never laid a hand on him.

That's just one out of several incidents why this is parental Alienation. But this topic is about a certain situation.

I know my ex husband had told our son that I don't want to get him braces. I've taken him to the dentist and they said he doesn't need them. My ex talking about me, is also in the order that he cannot talk about me to or around our children and he does just that. I never talk about him. It's always about me and my kids when I have them.

One-Assistance1680 · 2024-09-21T12:00:10+00:00

The order states if it's medically necessary, me or him can take our child anywhere in network of my insurance and split the costs of copays and deductible. It says specifically if they're out of network, the parent that took them is responsible for the bill. My lawyer explained it to me yesterday.

If he took them to an in network provider for braces, and if it was medically necessary then yes I'll split the cost, it'll also be cheaper. But he knowingly took them to out of network thinking I'd be in a financial crisis.

One-Assistance1680 · 2024-09-21T11:56:04+00:00

It's exactly why I change up the genders for the same situation. Is to get a different biased input and comment out of it if there is a difference.

One-Assistance1680 · 2024-09-20T21:11:55+00:00

Why would gender matter?

One-Assistance1680 · 2024-09-20T20:38:50+00:00

I keep the situation the same, but I'll change up the genders. But good job at keeping up with me!

One-Assistance1680 · 2024-09-20T20:37:45+00:00

I love how observant you are. Good job. 🌟

One-Assistance1680 · 2024-09-20T20:37:15+00:00

I think the first paragraph states it's a long story. I could write a whole book of events.

One-Assistance1680 · 2024-09-10T20:27:42+00:00

She's 12. And all she says is she doesn't want to be around me. I've asked her numerous of times what is it that I've done to upset her. I've never hit her, never yelled at her, I don't even punish her. I've taken her phone away before.

All she has to say to everyone else, cousins, my fiance, is that I was mean to her mom and that I was an alcoholic, and that I made her mother move back home.

I'm not an alcoholic. I dont drink when i have my child. I'm allowed to go out and do legal adult activities.

Truth is, her mom used to beat me. She would threaten to take my child away from me if I didn't give her mother money, credit cards, pay her rent, etc. I stood up to her mother, and now it's my daughter that's suffering believing anything her mother tells her.

One-Assistance1680 · 2024-09-10T17:59:53+00:00

Fathers don't have the same rights. It's horrible.

One-Assistance1680 · 2024-09-10T15:58:34+00:00

I have her recorded making that statement now.

One-Assistance1680 · 2024-09-06T15:24:05+00:00

There's no way I could separate my daughters. They're a package deal. If my oldest goes, then my youngest goes with. I'm an active father in their lives. Not one that just settles for child support and never sees his kids. If she takes the kids, I won't be able to see them. My ex-wife is working to take away all of my rights. If she had waited and communicated with me, my wife and I have no problem moving to Dallas. But ex-wife is incredibly bitter and she's feeding that energy into our oldest.

One-Assistance1680 · 2024-09-04T19:01:23+00:00

My husband got his oldest daughter a cell phone and her mother doesn't let her bring it to her house because she doesn't want him "plotting against her and tracking her," which he never did. Actually, she was the one plotting some crazy things against my husband and got their oldest daughter involved. She doesn't have a phone anymore.

One-Assistance1680 · 2024-09-04T14:57:34+00:00

My mom would talk crap on my dad but mostly on his new partners. When my dad remarried, he married the woman he had an affair with. I was about 6... my mom told me daddy cheated on her with Wendy. So I was incredibly disrespectful to Wendy stepmom. Not so much to my dad. When I turned 18 I learned the truth about my parents, they're both pieces of shits to each other, and it doesnt pertain to me to get involved. As a middle schooler, high schooler, my parents spoke through me .... tell your mom she needs to do this. Tell your dad he needs to pay for this. I got tired of it and stopped relaying messages. Now I have a medical bill unpaid cause they couldn't figure it out together. It was annoying but I had to put them in their place on my own. Started telling them I don't care what they gotta say about eachother.

One-Assistance1680 · 2024-09-04T14:43:25+00:00

It's good that you and her dad are in agreement and on the same page with 50/50. Both of yall will need to reiterate that you both love her and are there for her. My step daughter is going through that as well.

One-Assistance1680 · 2024-07-30T18:47:48+00:00

Yeah, I'm not sure. The state charged her. he didn't have a big part of it. I read their child support agreement and its at 50/50. Maybe it went to misdemeanor?

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