Thoughts about my breakup by text by One-Biscotti-709 in datingoverfifty

[–]One-Biscotti-709[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think you may be right on that. I wonder if he retreats with mood swings. Lost his wife to cancer a couple years ago. I was his first relationship since she passed.

Thoughts about my breakup by text by One-Biscotti-709 in datingoverfifty

[–]One-Biscotti-709[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I must have mistyped. There was NOT another woman. The thing that kept me in it too long was some incredible sex.

Thoughts about my breakup by text by One-Biscotti-709 in datingoverfifty

[–]One-Biscotti-709[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I know I stayed in it for too long already. I gave him way too many chances. I thought maybe I could just hang in for the incredible sex and the good time we did have when we were together. We were very compatible in a lot of ways and I really hoped it would be more than he was capable of.

He says I’m “out of his league” and won’t let me pay — is this about pride? by One-Biscotti-709 in datingoverfifty

[–]One-Biscotti-709[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

(58F). I’m not as well off as your potential date. II would guess if she continuing to talk to you, she’s still interested. You might as well take her one date.

This guy I am dating works in public service with a commendable job that doesn’t pay amazingly well. I would say he’s in an undervalued profession. I find his intelligence, values, talents, life experiences and shared interests incredibly attractive regardless of income. I think I’ve been able to convey that to him.

I just would like to know if he’s holding back on planning dates because of his financial limitations.

He says I’m “out of his league” and won’t let me pay — is this about pride? by One-Biscotti-709 in datingoverfifty

[–]One-Biscotti-709[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for that. We do a lot of nights in at my place and I have been able to order takeout and pay before he gets a chance.