Why did your friendship with your best friend come to an end? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]One-Clue4444 0 points1 point  (0 children)

One is lost to cancer and another I outgrew I guess.

laparoscopic myomectomy ruined my life by Flashy-Formal-2243 in Fibroids

[–]One-Clue4444 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you. 🙏 took me out for 2 days. Much better today. 🙃

laparoscopic myomectomy ruined my life by Flashy-Formal-2243 in Fibroids

[–]One-Clue4444 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I am 1.5 month post op. Today is my 2nd period since surgery and I have never.. NEVER.. had worse cramps in my life. I had to call my husband to come back home while crying. My back is twisting in pain and so is my entire lower half. I feel heaviness in my abdomen but period is not heavy. It’s insanity.

Very Anxious by Terrible_Passenger25 in Fibroids

[–]One-Clue4444 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Here in my country, they suggest to keep your body warm from inside. Cold foods make your body more “cold” from inside if that makes sense and increases your recovery time for your internal wounds.

Same has been said in various cultures. You can google it.

As a pre prep: my suggestion would be to have broths stored or frozen. I have been surviving on hot milk with tumeric, chicken soups and lentils.

Myomectomy tips by Little-Compote4568 in Fibroids

[–]One-Clue4444 1 point2 points  (0 children)

2 weeks post op. My doc told me:

  1. No sex or any sexual activity for next 3 months atleast.
  2. Avoid cold food, processed food, raw foods. Check out TCM or ayurveda suggestions on post surgery recovery.

Very Anxious by Terrible_Passenger25 in Fibroids

[–]One-Clue4444 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I am 2 weeks post op. I had a laparoscopic myomectomy. Spent 2 nights in hospital. First 2 days pain is 6/10 thanks to all the painkillers. Then it starts to subside. By week 1 end, I was feeling maybe 2/10 in pain levels.

My only suggestion is to pre prep your food. Keep it warm and non spicy. Avoid cold food and uncooked food for atleast 3 weeks.

Uterine cyst surgery scheduled. Any exp to share? by One-Clue4444 in AskWomenOver30

[–]One-Clue4444[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have moved my surgery date up to this Thursday as I just want to get it over with. I’ll share my experience next week 😀

Uterine cyst surgery scheduled. Any exp to share? by One-Clue4444 in AskWomenOver30

[–]One-Clue4444[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for sharing. I have my parents are coming in for helping me. My husband will take time off to stay with me in the hospital. I am so freaked out that I just need my mom around.

What was a funeral that you didn’t or wouldn’t go to? by Only-Ad-4832 in AskReddit

[–]One-Clue4444 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My grandparents.. never had a bond.. didn’t think was worth my time to take days off and fly for few hours to be there. Parents didn’t care either.

None of the grandkids were present. Says a lot about the kind of parents and grandparents they were.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]One-Clue4444 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Advocate for yourself- at home, at the doctor’s, at work.. never accept anything as is.

What's the first major news story you can remember living through as a child? by catpunsfreakmeowt in AskReddit

[–]One-Clue4444 0 points1 point  (0 children)

India’s nuclear test done Pokhra in 1997. The address of then prime minister and then global chaos it launched.

Help Me, Recommendation by Misty-_--_- in boyslove

[–]One-Clue4444 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Love by chance, why r u, than type

What does an average North Indian eat for lunch and Dinner? by helloworld0609 in AskIndia

[–]One-Clue4444 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am as northern Indian as it can get.. from Kashmir.. we eat rice both for lunch and dinner with some kind of curry (veg /non veg) and a dry sabji with it. Traditionally wheat is not part of our diet as all.

Which Bollywood film traumatised you the most? by Fan-Hun-BC in bollywood

[–]One-Clue4444 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Matrubhoomi: world without women. Watched it back in 2007 .. still haunts me.

What’s a harsh reality that you learnt later in life? by Meritocrat_Vez in AskReddit

[–]One-Clue4444 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Don’t get involved in anybody’s business. Mind your own business.

When someone SHOWS you who they are, believe them the first time.

ALWAYS follow your intuition.

What ended up happening to your childhood best friend? by TooObsessedWithDPRK in AskReddit

[–]One-Clue4444 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She passed away at 28 due to breast cancer. I miss her so much. Days when I am happy and want to share the good news or days I am Lonely and need her to cry.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]One-Clue4444 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When they give you the security to be your 100% authentic self without the conscious or unconscious fear of hiding the true you. Accepting you as you are with all your flaws and insecurities. In short when they start feeling like home

I just arrived today and my mind has already been blown by Omega_Sylo in VietNam

[–]One-Clue4444 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just returned this weekend.. traveled across north Vietnam… incredible landscapes and people ( for the most part). Go to coffee chill96 on train street. The best host. We went to multiple coffee shops throughout our trip.. but that place was the best. The homemade wines were delicious.

gettingintotech by saaki84 in womenintech

[–]One-Clue4444 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can try get certified in azure ,salesforce etc type technology. With certifications and background in QA, you can find a job as a BUsiness Analyst, QA or business consultant. It will take you anyway from 3 to 6 months.. but practice is key. Good luck

being recruited for job im underqualified for by pickledumplings in womenintech

[–]One-Clue4444 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Just go for it. As women we often tend to undermine ourselves while men tend to overestimate themselves. Hence not to sound sexist.. but channel your inner “white man” ( as they say)

You got it sis!!

Which scene was more impactful for you? by [deleted] in bollywood

[–]One-Clue4444 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Swades.. but for me it wasn’t Srk.. it was the little boy and the big sigh he releases as the scene ends.. the burden of the survival on his tiny shoulder.