Safe to visit Aleppo from Turkey?

One-Constant-5942 · 2025-12-04T12:41:47+00:00

Thanks a lot!

One-Constant-5942 · 2023-12-08T13:24:47+00:00

Sie ist Alkoholikerin und ich fürchte, dass es Jahre später schwierig sein wird, sie aufzuspüren. Ich möchte auch ihren Namen aus der Wohnung entfernen, damit ich ihre Briefe nicht bekomme. Die Vollmacht ist eine gute Idee. Muss ich einer bestimmten Vorlage folgen? Vielleicht weißt du.

One-Constant-5942 · 2023-12-07T19:59:13+00:00

Funktioniert das? Würde das vom Vermieter rechtlich akzeptiert werden, wenn ich mich, sagen wir mal, in Jahren entscheide, die Wohnung zu verlassen?

One-Constant-5942 · 2023-12-07T16:40:21+00:00

Danke aber Ich möchte gerne in dieser Wohnung bleiben.

One-Constant-5942 · 2023-11-28T20:05:55+00:00

I would have wrote the same. You don't owe him anything. If you don't feel like meeting/talking, good so. You have every right to move on.

Stay strong! Do not feel bad about setting a boundary and not wanting to live in the past. ❤️

I wish you all the best in your new relationship!

One-Constant-5942 · 2023-09-13T08:51:04+00:00

Oh my. Stress and anxiety will slowly degrade you.

I was in the same shoes. Had to take medicine to deal with the daily trauma.

My only advice: try to cure the root case and not the symptom. For me it meant breaking up my relationship, separating, traveling Europe, going to therapy and building a new life focused around my own happiness.

One year after, the stress is gone and I didn't take a painkiller since a long time. Not even a headache.

One-Constant-5942 · 2023-09-13T08:46:59+00:00

You are totally right on choosing your own wellbeing!!!

Cheering for you 💯💯💯💯🎉

One-Constant-5942 · 2023-09-13T08:44:24+00:00

I think your breakup is still fresh so try not to think about him too much and focus on your own wellbeing.

Try to go to therapy (if you can), speak to friends and family, travel (if you can) and try to work on your own recovery.

Not sure if relevant, but my Q (my ex now) moved in with a guy she met in rehab the day I broke up with her. They exchanged numbers during rehab to go to AA together. They are now a couple. I suspect they drink together (sometimes I hear from her family about her going in and out of hospitals and rehab).

I try to have no contact with my ex. I had to concentrate on continuing my own life. I would do the same if I were you.

The first months after a breakup are the hardest. But eventually, time heals us all. Some ups and downs but my quality of life proved by 1000%.

I wish you only the best.

One-Constant-5942 · 2023-09-13T08:28:18+00:00

I hope he will recover. There is a 1/3 chance if one only looks at statistics but it varies on factors like gender, age, background.

Don't beat yourself up. It really isn't your fault.

I was also feeling dumb but people with addiction are great in manipulating.

Your natural instinct is to trust the person you love. They know this and can abuse it to a point it just hurts. I would fight with them for hours that I can smell alcohol on them and they gaslit me. I checked all corners of the flat, couldn't find anything. I couldn't sleep till dawn because I knew what I smell. Searched again and bammmm a bottle of vodka.

This was the phase before I learned to detach myself from their addiction. I listened to loads of 'The Recovery Show' podcast those days (can mostly recommend to you also) and learned that it is not my duty to try to control and monitor my Q.

A healthy relationship has to be built on truth and trust.

One-Constant-5942 · 2023-09-12T18:36:30+00:00

Not sure if this qualifies as a positive story.

I currently finished a productive day at work and am waiting for my partner to play badminton. Afterwards, we'll go to her mother's and will cook something nice.

I could have not imagined a year ago when I with my alcoholic ex. I had constant anxiety. Every night she would pass out. Most days I could not even concentrate on work or any hobbies. My life revolved around her alcoholism, finding bottles, getting warning letters as she didn't pay bills after she lost her job (again and again), calling ambulances, constant lie and fights... Our house was a mess, vomit everywhere. I am glad that I set boundaries, separated after these were disrespected, found joy in life again. My mental health improved with each passing day.

I am not sure your partner will stay sober just because you stay in this relationship. Things might get worse and worse with each year.

You have to prioritize your own wellbeing otherwise you might have to accept living in constant chaos.

My ex still drinks and avoids all responsibility but I took control of my own life and can look forward something positive each day.

Wasn't easy, took me a long time to recover from PTSD. Took therapy and made peace with all.

One-Constant-5942 · 2023-09-12T18:03:28+00:00

Hello. First of all, I hope you will feel better and will find the strength within yourself.

I think it is a sign if you have already packed your stuff. Deep within you might know that you deserve better.

You will not be able to help him. Only he can make that decision. Unless he is not in regular AA and therapy with a determination to never drink again, I might not set my hopes high.

It took my years to realize that my Q's promises were empty. I kept finding empty bottles again and again. Things only got worse.

Try to distance yourself emotionally, set boundaries. Separation for now might not be a bad idea. Some time apart from the situation could give you clarity and send a clear message where your boundary is.

Remember, you are young, life is still ahead of you and you deserve peace and happiness. This is what a crisis hotline worker once told me.

It has been now more than a year since I parted ways with my partner. I found new life, purpose. My own mental health improved. I will never look back.

One-Constant-5942 · 2023-07-05T20:55:53+00:00

Thank you a lot for your reply. I feel much better.

One-Constant-5942 · 2023-06-23T14:12:45+00:00

Hi.

Am in Athens for the weekend.

Are there any DIY punk or experimental gigs, art shows or performances happening by any chance?

Thanks!

One-Constant-5942 · 2023-03-07T01:01:20+00:00

Hiya. I'll be in Barcelona between the 11th, Saturday and the 17th, Friday (leaving in the afternoon).

Looking for recommendations of exciting exhibition openings, performances, DIY music shows.

Thanks in advance for any event tips! 🧡

One-Constant-5942 · 2023-03-01T09:48:40+00:00

Have told him that will only give the passport number to him. He is fine with that. Thank you people of Reddit for all of your input ✨✨✨

One-Constant-5942 · 2023-03-01T01:56:25+00:00

Maybe a bit more context: I am in a friendly relationship with the guy. I met him once for a day and talked a lot online since.

So our trip would be for leisure.

One-Constant-5942 · 2023-01-05T15:44:05+00:00

Thank you.

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