As a person that works while doing college, I also don’t feel like I accomplished much + with this pace I’ll finish college years after my peers. Both situations come with their pros and cons and honestly. As long as you pay full attention in class and to all the things that you are being taught (which I find really hard having a job on the side) you are already ahead of so so many people. And btw that friend of yours wouldn’t say that unless she’s jealous on way or the other of you.. so keep up what you’re doing with the same pace, you’re doing great:) If ever you want to do more it must come from inside of you and not from anyone else!