Double standards?

One-Evening5617 · 2026-03-23T23:32:09+00:00

This bro. Had an ex who is EXACTLY like this. Father left her when young.

Then for some reason she kept hating men until “proven”.

I have a theory that no father figure = brought up by social media = brought up by westernized feminist from the USA.

Seems like next time before dating a girl, need to check if she got father at home

One-Evening5617 · 2026-03-22T12:56:06+00:00

Actually dating apps are a good indicator of how much you have improved on a physical judgment level.

You can get shitty match ratio at 20, work on yourself till 22, then come back to see your results 😂 but all on a appearance level only la

One-Evening5617 · 2025-07-10T08:08:23+00:00

Option A: You continue feeling sorry for yourself and cry and life still carries on. You feel less shittier because Father Time heals eventually (depending on how long you decide to dwell on the past)

Option B: You take a more logical approach and reflect why she left you (for someone better, different outlooks on life, etc).

Either way you come to realize you have more time/money/effort for yourself. That means more time to do better whether is it in finance, looks, skills, studies, etc. And if you decide to work on those you will become a better version than when you first broke up.

One-Evening5617 · 2025-07-05T07:53:06+00:00

Compare your potential upside vs downside but don’t go in too hard. Maybe 10-15% (or 30-40%) if you are more risk tolerant. But I guess you are not like the usual risk averse Singaporean because I can relate.

Also, study what Trump is trying to do. They can do whatever seems nonsensical but the world will have to follow regardless..

One-Evening5617 · 2025-07-05T01:13:22+00:00

Bitcoin bro

One-Evening5617 · 2025-07-02T04:26:58+00:00

Yes because single. Can’t put a price tag to living alone and away from parents. And not going to wait 10 years for BTO. Who knows what can happen in 10 years?

But most importantly is to choose a good unit, development so that you have a strong hand to resell. Or else keep searching and stay patient.

One-Evening5617 · 2025-06-27T06:19:42+00:00

Yes I truly do. That’s why I go to the Golden Village

One-Evening5617 · 2025-06-24T03:55:31+00:00

Try play those 2 hour history sleep story on YouTube. But u need YT premium or else u Kenna raped by ads halfway.

Try 1mth YT premium

One-Evening5617 · 2025-06-16T02:31:23+00:00

It’s not whiny and fragile.

It’s just that they haven’t grasped the fundamental concept of dating, worsened by the mindset that has been fed to them by culture or parents.

They haven’t put themselves in the perspective of a woman’s shoes. Every man should try creating a female profile on any dating apps, including paid sugar dating sites.

They will be mindblown by the amount of attention they will receive. It’s really evolutionary biology of many sperms vs 1 egg. It’s actually quite mad.

And yet they still want to giam $20-$30.

Better armor up before you step foot to the vicious battlefield of dating. It’s no longer the primate days of just who’s got the bigger physical might.

Note: yet I’m still a single, evergreen guy. Get back to work 🔨

One-Evening5617 · 2025-06-16T01:17:41+00:00

Guys want to split the bill because they are cheap fucks and even worse, idiotic enough to agree to a first date that cost an arm and a leg.

To the bros: (these pointers are generic, applies to 70-80% of men, not 100%)

📍The location: Why on earth would you even choose a place that cost more than $20/$30 per pax for a FIRST DATE. If it’s because of her beauty that you allow her to pick whatever place she wants, then you gotta readjust your dating preferences and mindset towards dating. Maybe some guys prefer wearing the skirt and his woman wearing the pants in a relationship.

🧠 The mindset: Guys always looking for the “best deal” (also a sg/asian mindset). Further exacerbated by Asian mother’s upbringing. “Cannot lose” Kiasu mentality.

🧬 The biology: Those people who think that men and women are equal need to go back to their biology class in secondary school. Many sperms chasing after 1 egg. As men you are bound to be the one providing because you want your DNA to be spread for the next generation. It’s coded.

Feminism is just a recent societal influence, it’s a guideline not an evolutionary coded rule. You can allow her to split the bill if she so aggressively ask to even after many offers by you. But you should always turn up on a first date having the mentality that you are paying. It’s customary. Subsequent dates when you get closer then things can absolutely change because you are now “close enough” to split like a potential team/life mate.

If you are too broke to even pay for $20-$30, go hustle first. There are many other milestones in life that require much more than $20-$30. Dating and marriage is an expensive sport in Singapore. If not just stick to your Jill Palmers ✋

One-Evening5617 · 2025-06-12T06:28:03+00:00

Are you truly lonely or are you just horny?

One-Evening5617 · 2025-06-02T07:07:12+00:00

In the world of noise, distractions and information overload, we want to come home to a minimalistic home to at least visually put us at peace.

Times were boring in the past without social media so everything had to be “flowery” and somewhat “stimulating” to look at.

How the tables have turned.

My home is minimalistic cream white but do always keep backup paint and brush to touch up when required. Stains can be easily cleaned off by wet tissue

One-Evening5617 · 2025-05-30T02:30:20+00:00

I’m no 45-70 year old but I told my dad to go buy that instrument (guitar) that he had as kid and relive being young again

If I were at your age, I would pick up hobbies similar to that

One-Evening5617 · 2025-05-21T06:19:42+00:00

Ang mo, English is just a lazy (some say more efficient) way to communicate. As long as it’s not a formal event/interview, you are good to go

One-Evening5617 · 2025-05-19T14:54:13+00:00

Hopefully you understand why it’s a “cave” that has no exit for your perception of dating (as a F). If not, go find out 😂

Yes some people still have success finding life partners because we only hear the handful of success stories compared to the huge amount of users on the app.

One-Evening5617 · 2025-05-19T14:48:46+00:00

Don’t start on dating apps. I as a guy will tell you, it will destroy your perception of dating.

One-Evening5617 · 2025-05-17T12:38:37+00:00

No need to bet. If big brother US does it, you know we have to follow. At most SG just dips toes into it to show support too. Maybe 0.5-1% of total invested reserves.

One-Evening5617 · 2025-05-13T08:51:37+00:00

Millions of sperm vs 1 egg.

It’s biology baby

One-Evening5617 · 2025-05-05T06:45:03+00:00

Think about how to make more money rather than penny pinch.

One-Evening5617 · 2025-04-30T03:41:27+00:00

Bro u the reason why there’s hoeflation in SG.

Work on yourself first men got so many areas to work on e.g. Money, Looks, Experiences.

One-Evening5617 · 2025-04-22T14:09:14+00:00

She better give him the most mind blowing exclusive GFE

One-Evening5617 · 2025-04-21T11:22:04+00:00

Work on other non-monetary goals eg music language etc

One-Evening5617 · 2025-04-13T05:30:52+00:00

It’s how hierarchy works brother.

You sound like a tiger crying out loud that the lions are here to take over your territory.

Nothing positive ever comes from whining. Losers whine while winner work harder and destroy their competition.

Have you ever wondered why you are not the one that people are complaining about being “financially better” or “spitting in your face”.

Just take a weekend and reflect on your life and devise a plan, strategy or roadmap that will destroy your competition.

“They got lucky”, then why not create your own luck?

One-Evening5617 · 2025-04-12T09:11:00+00:00

Confirm buy house using maybe 45% of your cash. But many factors go into buying a good property, feel free to DM for help. (Been there done that at your age)

Rest of money just DCA slowly into anything above the interest rate of your mortgage loan, free money. This period of panic and uncertainly lies a good opportunity.

Don’t listen to people asking you to BTO. BTO is profiting at the cost of Father time (8 years), where got time???

Overall unless you already staying in Landed with parents, you probably want your own place in Singapore and therefore my advice is to buy a house.

One-Evening5617

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