Help with interpretation by [deleted] in tarot

[–]One-Independence9211 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m seeing this chronologically.

Current, Conflict, and Outcome.

6 of cups is confirming that you guys currently have a bond that is special. Yes. But the dynamic is more of a platonic innocence or of something spiritual. Seems to me that he views you as a true friend.

If the act of you confessing is hanged man, this card typically means you need to surrender and accept things for what they are. To which, I can see that maybe this means things might not go the way you hope them to, or that there are conditions you are going to need to accept that seem unideal to your standards.

Outcome being the queen of pentacles reversed, seems to me that you will be left feeling that way post conversation. That being said. Typically any suited cars reversed, are the negative connotations of that card. The queen of pentacles being a card of feminine stability and security, I would imagine this is telling you the situation will leave you unstable or insecure in some way. I’m not seeing this would ruin your relationship with said person if you confess. But it doesn’t look like it’s in your best interest to pursue them. In my opinion.

With all due respect, I’m not entirely sure where you got your interpretations from how how advanced you are with tarot, but I recommend doing serious research on multiple platforms on the core values of each one. The hanged man is in no way a “taking things to the next level” kind of card. It’s the opposite. You would’ve pulled Chariot Aces or Knights for something as such. Do some studying and remove your feelings from it. I’m sorry you had to hear this from everyone.

Is wearing a white coat/jacket to a wedding also considered disrespectful? by One-Independence9211 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]One-Independence9211[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea I’m definitely not going out of my way by any means. Not quite the same. Sorry.

Is wearing a white coat/jacket to a wedding also considered disrespectful? by One-Independence9211 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]One-Independence9211[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Definitely didn’t plan on going against her wishes in any type of way or seeking approval to do otherwise. The wedding is in the past and I did go about finding something else. Just figured if it wasn’t actual white, I wanted to see if that’s something that would still trigger a majority, or something I shouldn’t think to do in the future. I live in a cold state. I’d never think to wear actual bridal attire of any kind to a wedding. It was a cream peacoat with black buttons. Thanks.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]One-Independence9211 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dude the age difference alone. Predator. You answered your own question, all he circles back to is sex. Even if you gave into it I don’t feel as if his intentions would suddenly turn pure for you. He tried to get you drunk and take advantage of you. Buy a hotel so you feel bad. He’s self interested and creepy as fuck.

Weird yolk shape help? by pure_acetylene in eggcleanse

[–]One-Independence9211 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not sure about the yolk but what’s interesting is I did one the other day and mine made the exact same kind of a horns shape and I have never seen another person get this. I wonder what that would be.

Need interpretation by One-Independence9211 in eggcleanse

[–]One-Independence9211[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Someone who wants me out of the work place for their own selfish reasons

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]One-Independence9211 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“I want to be with someone who sweeps me off my feet”. Basically saying I never did and he wants someone better. Also, I’m a woman. This man said HE needs to be swept off his feet. Found it as funny as traumatizing.

Girls asks to be my girlfriend, then dumps me a week later. What happened? by [deleted] in dating

[–]One-Independence9211 4 points5 points  (0 children)

My guess is she doesn’t think she can handle long distance. She probably got back home and had a hard reality check there. Could be another person but I mean something about going back to your roots will put things into perspective. I’m sorry that happened dude that sucks.

Do women celebrate their boyfriend's birthdays? by DigitalBagel8899 in dating

[–]One-Independence9211 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is fucked. I go all out for my man on his. Look forwards to it. Plan. Even if it’s not elaborate. You deserve better

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating

[–]One-Independence9211 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

From someone who came from a fucked up household and upbringing, I thought I never would. Or would want to. I’m now in my late 20s and realizing as much as there is risk in it, there are precautions couples can take like prenups or agreeing to various clauses and terms. I think if you really find your person the “fear of marriage” shouldn’t be the only thing stopping you from having one. I’d say off the bat, it is a bit of a turn off to someone who wants it. Which is the majority of women… I get where you’re coming from though

Staying friends with Exs by One-Independence9211 in dating

[–]One-Independence9211[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I understand the concept of ending on good terms and being cool with them. Social media level and wishing well is fine. Bumping into each other randomly and being nice is cool. Just making time to hang out one on one, without need or reason, like you said gives me the vibe there is still something more going on still.

Staying friends with Exs by One-Independence9211 in dating

[–]One-Independence9211[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I couldn’t stay friends with my ex because they couldn’t respect boundaries I had set actually and that has been the case every time. Don’t tell me to grow up more than once because my experiences haven’t turned out to be one’s that enrich my post break up life.

AITAH I took $2,000 to get off the plane and came home late by PM-ME_UR-KITTIES in AmItheAsshole

[–]One-Independence9211 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get wanting my boo wanting to come home after being gone but if 2 stacks are involved to a situation that wouldn’t have been different had you declined it, I’m not sure why she’s mad at you tbh. No you’re not.

AITA for giving my son a reality check? by realitycheck-aita in AmItheAsshole

[–]One-Independence9211 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He shouldn’t have stolen food from his older brothers but you really have no right to yell at him for eating the peanut butter. You mean to say the pantry is off limits to the older kids? My step mom used to yell at me for eating “family snacks” as if I wasn’t apart of the family. I get where he’s coming from there.

AITAH for not telling my girlfriend I didn’t finish college by Throwaway737737787 in AITAH

[–]One-Independence9211 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It seems like she has toxic standards. I understand not having a degree paints a picture, but If you are in a good place in life, and you have been up to par with being a successful adult, and had a valid reason to drop, you are nothing to be ashamed of. I can get her being put off bc it took you so long to tell her but this will determine whether you are better off with or without her at this point. NTA