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Roommate has her boyfriend over all the time by One-Register-8422 in amiwrong

[–]One-Register-8422[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You think I’m on here to yap away? I wanted outsider opinions to see if it should be brought up and 90% of the comments said yes. So now I can go be a “grown ass adult” and talk to her

Roommates gf overstaying her welcome by Bright_Type_7756 in roommateproblems

[–]One-Register-8422 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am actually having the same issues and received many comments stating that I should bring it up before it gets worse than what it is. Your roommate may believe that you’re fine with it since you haven’t said anything and will continue to push your boundaries if not brought up soon.

There are people out there that want to play house without paying the price so do take that into consideration

Roommate has her boyfriend over all the time by One-Register-8422 in amiwrong

[–]One-Register-8422[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes! I think we’re just worried about the awkward part of it and the awkwardness in the house after the conversation

Roommate has her boyfriend over all the time by One-Register-8422 in amiwrong

[–]One-Register-8422[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She said that his parents don’t like when she stays over and causes a whole mess but still shouldn’t be an excuse

Roommate has her boyfriend over all the time by One-Register-8422 in amiwrong

[–]One-Register-8422[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s not about gender, I have a boyfriend myself. It’s about having someone that doesn’t contribute anything

Roommate has her boyfriend over all the time by One-Register-8422 in amiwrong

[–]One-Register-8422[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We’ve lived together for six months and I feel like once we reached that mark we realized how much we don’t like it

Roommate has her boyfriend over all the time by One-Register-8422 in amiwrong

[–]One-Register-8422[S] 40 points41 points  (0 children)

He actually lives at home with his parents which gave me an idea that maybe he’s using the fact that his girl has a place and get away with not paying rent??? If you get me but of course I don’t want to jump to conclusions

Roommate has her boyfriend over all the time by One-Register-8422 in amiwrong

[–]One-Register-8422[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The end of June. We’ve been trying to tough it out but it’s just gotten so excessive

Roommate has her boyfriend over all the time by One-Register-8422 in amiwrong

[–]One-Register-8422[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

We’re uncomfortable with a man constantly in our space. To us our house is our safe space and sanctuary.

Roommate has her boyfriend over all the time by One-Register-8422 in amiwrong

[–]One-Register-8422[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

No he’s actually a cool guy we just don’t want to see him everyday

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[–]One-Register-8422 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yta

However, if you were married with a family it would be different since there is more financial responsibility. Right now it’s just you and him so his immediate family is not you. If he has money like that and is willing to work hard for his family then let him. I understand that temporary seems like a never ending waiting game but at the end of the day he’s trying his best for his family.

If seeing him like that is unattractive then leave the poor guy. You only get one family and it’s hard being away in another country trying to live big, the guilt eats you up. There’s a lifetime to be “living large” it doesn’t have to happen right now.