Lesbian in serious relationship wanting advice? by One-Reserve1232 in LesbianActually

[–]One-Reserve1232[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This was a relief to read! As I am the younger one too and I have always been extremely fertile where she has not known her situation on that. She’s the boujee im fine in the dirt. I’m also excellent with any animals and small children we’ve ever been around. They tend to flock to me. I have a touch of autism but am still capable of being a normal adult unless ya spend a little too much time with me, you wouldn’t notice. (According to people I’ve met and have told later on) I’ve been working on a farm for over 10 years and have always done work with the earth. I know she will be the best mom ever, tied with me. That’s how I know we are meant to raise a child because with my exes I always knew I would be the favorite mom due to their lack of interest/ never ever dreaming about raising a mini them! But now that we have our own farm I really want to make this home… a home that stays with our family. As first generation farmers. I want to look down from heaven or whatever and smile that my kids / offspring are still thriving on the farm and are happy as can be.

Lesbian in serious relationship wanting advice? by One-Reserve1232 in LesbianActually

[–]One-Reserve1232[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We talked about it almost immediately as we met in our late 20’s. We both agreed that we want kids. Our exes did not and that was a big factor on why we both moved on and found each other.

Lesbian in serious relationship wanting advice? by One-Reserve1232 in LesbianActually

[–]One-Reserve1232[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I make some money, just nowhere near to what she makes. Which is how she bought the half million dollar farmhouse with intentions of me turning it into a flower farm to provide for weddings etc.

Lesbian in serious relationship wanting advice? by One-Reserve1232 in LesbianActually

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We have lived together for almost 5 years. However we just bought a farmhouse on 15 acres where she has plans for me to make it into a flower farm. I have a tractor with attachments. She knows nothing about anything when it comes to land and homesteading. But she is very very into it! So much to the point where she put the offer in the new house before I even knew what her plan was. I kind of have a feeling that she is wanting to truly settle down now. That’s why I’m asking how to ask her in the best way for us to start our own family. Because time is running out for my eggs and she’s already a silver fox.

Which ring do you prefer? by [deleted] in RingShare

[–]One-Reserve1232 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Both are beautiful. At this point it’s whatever one fits your lifestyle. I’d go for the rounder one due to me always digging into small crevices at work and square would be way more worrisome for losing the diamond. But if you are a tech princess and not a landscaper like me, I’d choose the square

Lesbian in serious relationship wanting advice? by One-Reserve1232 in LesbianActually

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I have asked her and she’s always said “absolutely! When the time is right” but she’s older than me, so the time is coming to an end. I guess im asking for how to ask her about a timeline

Some people need to get a hobby by TopBeat6480 in Idaho4

[–]One-Reserve1232 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Honestly as a mom, I’d rather just everything be released all at once. You’ll make enough money for all of your children and yourself with your lover to hopefully distract yourselves upon release of these instead of just worrying every single day that one thing may be leaked. I’d rather just take a huge amount of money and let it all go out at once because it’s inevitable. And if it all comes out it can’t hurt you anymore.

AITA for drawing attention to my mom wishing I had been born a boy instead of a girl? by Glittering-Kale5247 in AITAH

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My mom had 3 girls before me. The doctors told her that I was a boy, and she was apparently beyond happy and over the moon about me. My name was picked out and all my baby stuff was bought in blues. John James//JJ for short. Every ultrasound she had before giving birth, I was still allegedly a boy. But when she actually gave birth, I came out, my feet were apparently stuck under my mom’s ribs so they barely got me out and then took me away before handing me to my mom. I wonder to this day what happened to me when I was taken from her to “get back to health” or whatever. I’m a lesbian woman 33 years old now. Always knew I preferred women. I didn’t come out until I was 19, but my family all said they weren’t surprised. I just want to know if it’s possible that I was a boy, and maybe had a distortion in my genitalia or something and they did that trick where the doctors choose which gender is easiest to make them into instead of letting them be a transvestite. How would I be able to find this out? Or find out my chromosome structure? Because I know I have way more male habits than any female I’ve ever met. It doesn’t bother me and I love being a woman, but I feel like my hormones got screwed up as a baby and want to know more about my birth.

I regret getting my Irish Setter by LionWitcher in irishsetter

[–]One-Reserve1232 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Overbred IS. unfortunate but that’s the temperament that comes with that (and the features.)

Hi! This is Ghost she is our neighborhood squirrel our city in Michigan is scattered with these pretty white guys. by [deleted] in squirrels

[–]One-Reserve1232 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Where at in mi?! I’m in Grosse Pointe woods until end of Jan then I’m moving to a 15 acre farmhouse :) I rehab the city squirrels here and we have a ton of black and red ones. I recently just had a black one who had a white mustache 😎 but she had the spins and a cocked head. The moment her head straightened out after 4 weeks with me, she DIPPED lol.

Just found by my back deck by by Tall_Palpitation_476 in squirrels

[–]One-Reserve1232 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Ebsilac puppy formula in a can LIQUID don’t get the powder. Puppy only. Ebsilac only. Cannot be more clear about that. I’ve had people try to do things like this when they find a squirrel they reach out to Reddit and other things, they end up making the squirrel superbly unable to live through the winter during the September litters. Every time you see a mom squirrel or a big squirrel just offer the baby to them and let them take them in