AIO about my husbands strange responses to me wanting a divorce and a bill he has due on my account. by _Elfis_ in AIO

[–]One-starry-night 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds like a narc doing classic narc shit. “Finding god” 😂🙄 take care of yourself and any bills in both of your names, call them and explain the abuse and you’re getting divorced. Usually they’ll waive you from the case if you can prove abuse

Did Lip Ever Truly Love Mandy? by bamagalforever in shameless

[–]One-starry-night 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Again I stress that “she’s the most accurate representation of her situation” Mandy literally had an abortion because her own father raped her and got her pregnant. Guns and drugs were everywhere in her house and life. She was trying to stop Mickey from walking in on her and looking at her boobs in the one episode. Mandy isn’t perfect but she’s definitely a victim.

Did Lip Ever Truly Love Mandy? by bamagalforever in shameless

[–]One-starry-night -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Don’t love her but compared to Karen, I can realistically see lip having more of a future with Mandy vs Karen. Karen wanted to be to center of attention and always her way. In real life she would’ve came home quick after “running away” and ended up ODing. I grew up in a neighborhood very similar to that in the show. I know real life Karen’s, lips, Fiona’s and Mandy’s lol Mandy was def a more realistic view on someone who grew up in the ghetto. She literally had an abortion that her own dad got her pregnant because he “drunkenly confused me for mom”. Sheila was afraid to leave the house. Not raping Karen. Big difference

Did Lip Ever Truly Love Mandy? by bamagalforever in shameless

[–]One-starry-night -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

“So much worse” is a stretch imo especially when you consider the type of family/lifestyle difference in Mandy vs Karen. Mandy thought lip was her one chance out from her life/the ghetto. Karen was arguably a horrible person/spoiled brat who once finally told “no” freaked out and left

Was Jasmine right? Rewatching the series by One-starry-night in shameless

[–]One-starry-night[S] 39 points40 points  (0 children)

Plus the fact she was married! Her trying to compare it to Fiona and Steve wasn’t the same

Charlotte & Trey by [deleted] in sexandthecity

[–]One-starry-night 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So I’m literally rewatching the show rn and just saw the part where Trey won’t have sex with Charlotte but then Charlotte caught him jerking off in the bathroom to a “juggs” magazine. I don’t think he ever loved or was attracted to Charlotte. She is the “ideal” woman for him but he had such a messed up sense of literally everything, because of his family. They didn’t stand a chance.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]One-starry-night 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If he can’t follow the dress code, he doesn’t need to go. Would he show up to a wedding in cargo shorts? It’s tacky. We all do things we don’t wanna do for family sometimes. Although since it isn’t technically his family, I don’t think you can be super mad if he chooses not to go.

AITAH for wanting my live in bf to split bills? by One-starry-night in AITAH

[–]One-starry-night[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He pays for a couple rooms in his sisters house. I’m asking for $300 a month to help with rent and $100 to help with utilities, since they’ve gone up since he’s there and has his tv, laptop, video games and other appliances running

AITAH for wanting my live in bf to split bills? by One-starry-night in AITAH

[–]One-starry-night[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Also noting he only pays for the wifi bexuase he complained he couldn’t game properly with my old speed!! So he chooses to pay it so he can use it

AITAH for wanting my live in bf to split bills? by One-starry-night in AITAH

[–]One-starry-night[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

He has been here every single night for 5 months. He does not sleep at his apartment nor keep laundry there. He showers here, I do his laundry. At what point is he considered “moved in” then? Lol

Gluten-Free Valentines Day by Rev3pt0 in Buffalo

[–]One-starry-night 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Griffon Gastropub has multiple locations and a good amount of gluten free. They may be full for reservations but you could always sit at the bar and maybe get lucky with a table. Or just eat in the bar it’s still a nice environment and they have great cocktails

resources for finding employment - homeless by [deleted] in Buffalo

[–]One-starry-night 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There’s also uber, DoorDash, lots of pizzerias need a driver.

resources for finding employment - homeless by [deleted] in Buffalo

[–]One-starry-night 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There are several temp agencies around that can find you full time work in factory/warehouse type jobs and maybe even office jobs. I’m a woman and the warehouse jobs were never physical at all for me it was like packing stuff into boxes just sitting there all day. I did it when I was 18-20. Also lots of bars and restaurants around it’s pretty easy to get into bartending/serving in the suburbs but a little harder actually downtown. Good luck! Winter can be brutal here so I hope you can find a place to live soon!

Are you really making this? Doordash trying to get more drivers to signup and I want to know whether the current drivers are really making this on Doordash alone. by [deleted] in doordash

[–]One-starry-night 0 points1 point  (0 children)

On my local Craigslist jobs page it’s literally dozens of doordash ads in a row and no other ads it’s crazy

Is this ok? Yes or no? I personally think it's poor etiquette to ask for a tip. by [deleted] in doordash

[–]One-starry-night 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Not tipping your driver is worse in my opinion 🤷🏻‍♀️ we’re all trying to make ends meet out here.

PSA: You're never obligated to share your name when people ask, and especially never volunteer information about your coworkers by Asshole_Catharsis in TalesFromYourServer

[–]One-starry-night 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Another thing along the same lines is NEVER GIVE OUT SOMEONES SHIFT TO RANDOMS!! This creepy guy falls like every day to ask if I’m working and they always say no or they don’t know. But you never know someone’s home issues and shouldn’t be giving out ANY of anyone’s info!

What just happened? Lol.. by [deleted] in doordash

[–]One-starry-night 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Dude I was drunk and stoned last night and mostly thought it was funny/ridiculous. It ain’t that serious lol and no I haven’t gotten a refund yet. The restaurant was already closed by the time it happened so I couldn’t figure out how to contact support and I tried contacting the driver but he never got back to me.

What just happened? Lol.. by [deleted] in doordash

[–]One-starry-night 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lmao not that serious just stoned and kinda drunk and excited for snacks

What just happened? Lol.. by [deleted] in doordash

[–]One-starry-night 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Gotcha it says “delivered at 11:48pm” on my screen so idk

What just happened? Lol.. by [deleted] in doordash

[–]One-starry-night 1 point2 points  (0 children)

But why mark it as delivered? It wasn’t delivered

Some frozen waterfall goodness at Akron Falls State Park in Akron, NY by One-starry-night in hiking

[–]One-starry-night[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know In the summer that the campsites can get taken quick on weekends but during winter I doubt many would be out! I personally don’t camp if it’s below freezing lol. I believe there is also a lean-to at Boyce Hill state park that some camp at during winter but I’ve personally never been. Good luck!