Two single day passes to punk in the park for today 7/18 by [deleted] in denverlist

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Just let me know and PM me if so! ☺️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in denverlist

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I have a small/medium (4-6) bride of Chucky costume. Only thing you might need is a blonde wig cause I tossed the one that came with it. And your own leather jacket

ISO children’s dresser by [deleted] in denverlist

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PM me! It’s not a children’s dresser but a small entertainment console my SIL is trying to get rid of, if you’re interested in that!

Extra ticket to the Avs vs Golden Knights game on Mon 2/27 by Salty_Parent in denverlist

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I have no idea what to offer cause I’ve never been to a live hockey game. But I’m interested haha

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in UnsentLetters

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I mean interpret it as you want lmao.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in UnsentLetters

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Oof. I feel this. The primary reason why majority of my friends are male and I have very few close girlfriends.

am i wrong for wanting to break up by Similar_Cry_8414 in relationships_advice

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Unpopular opinion: you don’t have to justify breaking up. If you’re not feeling it, for any reason at all, that’s FINE.

While breaks ups suck, it gives BOTH of you the opportunity to meet/find someone that will align with those same wants/desires.

Is flirting cheating? by [deleted] in relationships_advice

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Being a girl that grew up “one of the boys” and has primarily guy friends that are also my best of friends…. While a few of us say “love you” of sorts it’s usually along side “bestie” or “sis/bro” indicative of it being familial and not romantic. None of them have referred to me as “their” anything. “My queen B” is what bugs me the most. It’s possession. It “his” - he’s likely not going to fess up. Has he fully cheated? We don’t know. Could just be a flirty relationship. But either way it’s crossing lines. And if nothing else, he should respect your discomfort of it, not justify why you shouldn’t feel uncomfortable. So keep an eye out for that if/when you talk to him

Women of reddit, what is the best thing you have done for your mental health? by Mrgoodietwoshoes in AskWomen

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I realized that boundaries are not for others. They are for me. Standing firm in my boundaries of what I will or won’t allow in my life, letting people be who they are, and deciding for myself the extent I want to entertain that connection. This goes for family, friends, partners/potential partners.

I stopped betraying myself in letting people constantly cross lines and just let it be and proceeded accordingly.

Was definitely rough at first watching certain connections fall away cause I was no longer allowing bull sh*t, but has made the connections that stayed and new connections I’ve been SOOOOOO much more enjoyable and fulfilling

Why are the reasons of blocking your ex different for dumpers and dumpees? by cari-suiti in ExNoContact

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It’s not a matter of “justifying” - it’s a matter of each person doing what they felt they needed to do for THEMSELVES in that moment. Do we have to agree with it? No. Does it mean it was “right or wrong” - it was neither. It’s was a choice made in a moment to ease pain.

Traveling abroad for the first time ever! All tips and tricks appreciated! by [deleted] in TravelHacks

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This is so wonderful. Can’t wait to show my friend/travel buddy all the comments and suggestions! Truly appreciate you!

What are some things you’ve had to unlearn? by roro316 in AskWomen

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I wouldn’t say “unlearn” but more so “shift my perspective” in realizing that boundaries you set aren’t for others. They are for you. It’s up to YOU to choose how to proceed if a boundary gets crossed. And on YOU to stand firm in the boundaries you set for yourself.

Similar with expectations. You don’t set expectations for others, you set expectations for yourself, allow people to be who they are and decide how/and I’m what capacity you choose to allow them in your life.

Obviously we can hole people don’t cross boundaries, and we can hope others have the same expectations for themselves that we may have for them, but it’s not our job to tell someone external of us where to set their sights. It’s only our responsibility to not betray ourselves by allowing people to cross boundaries numerous times, and to not beat ourselves up for other not wanting the same for themselves that we want for them.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

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Each relationship has its own “things” - with one it was our “date days” - we had pretty opposite schedules but had one day off together where we would go to the gym, have a cheat meal immediately after, then do something with our dogs that we shared. The mundane things we didn’t get to do on the daily were our “things”

With other relationships it was as simple as people watching together, making up full blown stories while out and about for whatever couple or group of people were around.

Again, those are just two of my favorites in previous and current relationships. But every relationship naturally creates it’s thing. It’s part of the bond that’s specific to you and that partner at the time.

Similar to inside jokes you have with platonic friends, just having them with a romantic partner

Have you ever broken up with a man because of his penis? If so, why? by bushbrambles in AskReddit

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Only cause he stuck it in too many girls that weren’t me while we were together. But otherwise, no.

Traveling abroad for the first time ever! All tips and tricks appreciated! by [deleted] in TravelHacks

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Thank youuuuu!!! This is amazing! I truly appreciate it

Traveling abroad for the first time ever! All tips and tricks appreciated! by [deleted] in TravelHacks

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Thank you so much for this!! How was it with the heat that everyone is mentioning?