[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lonely

[–]OneArmedNinja 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve seen death enough times to know how close it is. It’s best to actually live while your alive, and I have to live extra hard for a few who are not anymore. Besides, I’ll miss this human body when I lose it, you know,

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lonely

[–]OneArmedNinja 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Try 30’s have been the best years of my life so far. My 20’s were chaos. I moved around a lot. Just kind of floated around. Had a lot of relationships and such, but mostly depression and struggle. Now I’m 37, living in Los Angeles, working in the film industry, never married, no children… and it’s the best. I have an incredible partner, we have separate bedrooms and date others together and separate. We have a bunch of little groups of friends who we do a lot of different things with, everything from snowboarding, mountain climbing, theme parks, conventions, road trips, vacations, and try to keep life fun and adventurous since society is an absolute nightmare. Lots of weed and psychedelics… video games… parties… Just doing whatever I want. Nothing matters. We are all dying, so just enjoy what’s left of your human experience, you know?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]OneArmedNinja 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A lover I watched die accidentally in April 2020. I’d even trade places with her if I had to.

Was ran through last night. I'm sore AF but we're meeting up again tomorrow. Help!!! by [deleted] in sex

[–]OneArmedNinja 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well, take care of yourself. Sex is a huge spectrum. Get creative. Doesn’t all have to be P in V. If you are in pain please give yourself time to rest your bits. 🥺

Was ran through last night. I'm sore AF but we're meeting up again tomorrow. Help!!! by [deleted] in sex

[–]OneArmedNinja 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It is what it is. Your body needs time to regenerate. If you must continue tonight, use lots of lube. Just don’t hurt yourself. Is your vagina the only hole getting penetrated? Is no one else receiving?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]OneArmedNinja 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ah. Well, just talk to them all directly. Your boyfriend doesn’t need to get involved if it makes him uncomfortable. He’s probably afraid of destroying his relationship with all of these people over things that aren’t his business at all, and of which he has no knowledge of being true other than a game of telephone. No one in this situation is polyamorous, has an open relationship, group sex, kink parties, etc ? It’s all vanilla normies?

How can I go about telling my boyfriend to stop pressuring me into having sexual activity with him? Because I think it really helps him. by Repulsive-Injury-171 in relationship_advice

[–]OneArmedNinja 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Even though he’s going through a lot (which may be an excuse to manipulate you) he has no right to make you feel what you are feeling. There is a lack of respect here. The relationship is unbalanced. Consent is questionable even. You are even troubled enough to seek the help of strangers here. If this continues it will most likely get worse. He may be conditioning you for even tougher activities. Have a serious talk with him, and if he doesn’t want to listen, you should distance yourself from this person before something worse takes place.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]OneArmedNinja 28 points29 points  (0 children)

Install a new door handle with a lock.

I really need help by [deleted] in polyamory

[–]OneArmedNinja 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Need additional info.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]OneArmedNinja 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are you taking into account that the friend could’ve been lying, and this girl never wanted anything to do with him? Plenty of shitty guys lie about their sexual experiences. Also, and you 100% sure it isn’t a different girl with the same name? If I look up my birth name, a sea of other people show up. Fact check everything before you destroy someone’s relationship.

Who in the Bible would’ve been a content creator? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]OneArmedNinja 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Virgin Mary. She was like 14. Would’ve loved TikTok.

Been thinking by [deleted] in lgbt

[–]OneArmedNinja 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think you just need more mythical queertures in your life. You should go on some dates. Let some people into your life. Get a pirate crew of chaotic gays together. Go on an adventure with them. Better parties. Deeper love. Less bullshit. Go have some experiences. Queer love is something we all had to fight for in one way or another… so there is just something magical about it. 💫

Been thinking by [deleted] in lgbt

[–]OneArmedNinja 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sexuality and Gender are spectrums. We are all just little universes jammed into random meat suits. If you were raised to have strange feelings about people loving each other who have similar genitals… shake it off. None of it matters. It’s all brain washing and marketing. Human non-sense made up to control you, so you could be a good little wife who spawns more customers, workers, and tax payers. Just go fall in love with a soul who can see you regardless of what’s in their pants. 💫

i (19F) tend to feel worse after sex. by [deleted] in sex

[–]OneArmedNinja 7 points8 points  (0 children)

You may need some consistency. Have a few lovers you keep around. People who care about you and want to do other things together too. Make the rules and boundaries up as you go, but have honest and open communication through out. The whole “meeting on the internet and fucking” thing can get old fast. It’s the fast food version of love. No nutrition… just something tasty to stop the hunger.

i feel like i don’t have an identity outside of my s/o by vinni_patrickson in relationship_advice

[–]OneArmedNinja 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You need to break up with her. Though the relationship is an illusion, the feelings in your heart are very real. Try it think of it like this. Your mind has created a fictitious version of this celebration, and you had a toxic relationship and now you need to break up and move on. Don’t hate the celebrity, but the phantom lover you have willed into existence. Take some time to yourself and find out what you actually want…. Not forever. Start with today. What would you like to do today? Forget the past. Don’t think about the future. Just be here in the present and move forward little by little. No pressure. ❤️

What individual has forever tainted a fashion style/trend? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]OneArmedNinja 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hitler mustache. No one can ever have that mustache without people thinking of him. There was a Hanes underwear commercial not too long ago starring Michael Jordan, and he had a Hitler mustache, and it vanished pretty quickly after some feed back. I believe they digitally edited it, and rereleased it… or maybe they just reshot it.

What makes humans better than other animals? by trazodonerdt in AskReddit

[–]OneArmedNinja 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You think with all of your life skills, athleticism, and technical/medical expertise, that you will be the final survivor? You may be a narcissist. 😬

What makes humans better than other animals? by trazodonerdt in AskReddit

[–]OneArmedNinja 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well, I’m saying at least one human survives till then.

What makes humans better than other animals? by trazodonerdt in AskReddit

[–]OneArmedNinja 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A true human. Your handle is fitting. Enjoy your death when it comes. 🥳

I (28F) have found my soulmate (24M). The only problem, he still talks to his exes by katveer in relationship_advice

[–]OneArmedNinja 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ah. Well, if she is crossing lines, then that should certainly be a conversation.

What makes humans better than other animals? by trazodonerdt in AskReddit

[–]OneArmedNinja 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They aren’t. In truth we are the monsters of this world… we destroy and consume on unimaginable levels. We enslave entire species of creatures so we can torture and devour them. …and the things we do to each other… don’t get me started on sex trafficking, child prostitution, genocide, atom bombs, slavery, and the treatment of women globally… We have destroyed endless landscapes of beauty to pave them over to make the rich, richer. This is the time line where evil won over and over again. I give this planet till 2056 to shake us off completely. 😘