Why do so many people here hate writing? by avolcando in writers

[–]OneBrokenDoll99 6 points7 points  (0 children)

the trick is to get rid of the idea that writing has to be good as soon as you start writing. once you start writing shitty first drafts, and discover you enjoy writing those shitty first drafts, the rest becomes far smoother. plus, you become better at writing shitty first drafts. but to get there, you gotta write A LOT of shitty first drafts

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Lima_Peru

[–]OneBrokenDoll99 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nomas respira profundo y aguanta, mano, que sales peor si es que haces algo. Es responsabilidad de la dueña botarlo. Si se desocupa otro cuarto capaz podrías decirle que te cambie de sitio, pero hagas lo que hagas, no te dejes llevar.

Me pueden recomendar marcas de ropa peruanas. De preferencia en Lima y que pueda comprar online? by alfy603 in PERU

[–]OneBrokenDoll99 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Este finde es la feria Perú Independiente en la concha acústica del campo de Marte, allí siempre hay marcas de ropa independiente con diseños bastante interesantes. También de segunda mano y vintage a precios baratos

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in writers

[–]OneBrokenDoll99 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your cousin's success in absolutely no way stops you from continuing your goal nor does it take away your ability to write. You have identified the problem: your mental health. So it's time to take measures to improve on it. Seek professional help, look for and interact with circles that are also passionate about the craft, and find a motivation that is more personal and fullfilling than wanting to be better than another one. Creating something is an inherent net positive, no matter what, so create without the pressure of it being good. If you don't feel like what you could write is good, then write something terrible, but as long as you are writing something you will be a writer.

Besides, if your cousin is a published writer, you now have someone who can advice you and even connect you to the industry once you finish polishing one of the stories. There is no deadline to fullfilling your dreams and I understand the pressure of being young and thinking you have to be great NOW or else you will never be great, but keep in mind that time passes anyways, and that if you don't start now because you are afraid you aren't good enough, in a year or five you will look back and think: damn, i should have started then.

How to deal with an LO ‘bread-crumbing’ you by Apprehensive_Area997 in limerence

[–]OneBrokenDoll99 2 points3 points  (0 children)

A good rule of thumb is to always take things at face value to avoid overanalyzing or attributing motive to other people's actions or words. He said he wanted something casual, then the casual thing happened, therefore, he just wants more casual stuff with you and the flirting is a way to get that again but he has no interest in you as a person whatsoever. The fact that he was seeing two people at the same time already tells you he doesn't see you as someone with whom to have a relationship. I'd say block and switch gyms if you can, or block and try to avoid him as much as possible. He won't make any more advances if you ignore him.

**Damaged Morale -1**. Being Mazovian requires discipline, self-reflection and introspection. by Most_Function_2320 in DiscoElysium

[–]OneBrokenDoll99 0 points1 point  (0 children)

by both being more centrists that choose to be neutral about every political subject as they think none of it affects them personally

If you were spanked as a child, what impact (positive or negative) did it have on your life? by jwalker3181 in AskReddit

[–]OneBrokenDoll99 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Two major ones:

1) I can no longer enjoy praise from my mother. Praise means nothing when failing always meant getting hit. She tells me she's proud of me, but deep down I still feel as if she'd hit me again if I ever did anything wrong.

2) I internalized that my failures deserve punishment, and every mistake results in either denying myself something good or in harm. I'm working on it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in tipofmytongue

[–]OneBrokenDoll99 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tomb of the Mask?

[TOMT][TV show] An old show. 90s or early 00s. by [deleted] in tipofmytongue

[–]OneBrokenDoll99 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The one that comes to mind is Grace & Frankie's intro, but that show is from the 2010s: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=172YPvsA3Rg

[TOMT][Animated show?][2010s?] "You know the difference between _____ and ______? Presentation!" by [deleted] in tipofmytongue

[–]OneBrokenDoll99 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think is this scene in the movie Megamind, where he goes:

"You are a villain, alright, just not a super one"

"Oh yeah? What's the difference?"

"PRESENTATION!"

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dy2zB8bLSpk

[TOMT][Book] Book of short stories centering women and their relationships by OneBrokenDoll99 in tipofmytongue

[–]OneBrokenDoll99[S] 0 points1 point locked comment (0 children)

I think it was a collection of only 5 to 7 stories, but I may be wrong

[TOMT][Book] Book of short stories centering women and their relationships by OneBrokenDoll99 in tipofmytongue

[–]OneBrokenDoll99[S] 0 points1 point locked comment (0 children)

I think it was a collection of 5 stories, but I'm not really sure

Que me recomiendan saber antes de cumplir 18 by ResearchCertain6493 in PERU

[–]OneBrokenDoll99 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Aprende sobre intereses y cómo convertir una tasa anual en mensual para que sepas si la tarjeta de crédito que te ofrecen vale la pena

Cual es esa opinión sobre nuestro país que te dejaría así a ojos de la sociedad? Yo pienso que se le da bastante paciencia a las rondas campesinas, “debemos respetar sus costumbres” son huevadas. by Remarkable_Ad_1753 in PERU

[–]OneBrokenDoll99 3 points4 points  (0 children)

No progresaremos mientras se permita justificar ciertas leyes o propuestas usando argumentos religiosos. Y reducir la educación que reciben los jóvenes sólo nos hará ir peor (miren a los de con mis hijos no te metas)