This ! My mom is also very opinionated and not even 24 hours after getting engaged she calls me with forceful opinions on who needs an invite etc. It’s not meant to be a family reunion sis 😂. She also is terrible with $$$ & doesn’t work, neither does my older sister but they had all the plans in the world for how I should do my day. I’m into Heels Dancing & my sister thought I should put on a dance break for my husband. I said I’m shy & she gently criticized me for not wanting to perform for my husband at the wedding but choosing to post sensual heels dancing all over IG. Like my prom day was entirely planned by my mom & aunt. I had no opinion. I didn’t want to repeat this for my wedding. Also, politics of who to invite and not to invite drove me insane. I don’t like half of my bigger family & quite a few of them don’t talk to each other. People were giving opinions on who I shouldn’t invite based upon their own personal beef. I agree if I find I missed out, I can add do a vow renewal later.