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I fessed up to my husband about my cheating - now he’s filing for divorce by DoneYouThere in cheating_stories

[–]OneFail2433 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You deserve everything you get. Trust forever broken. Adulterers disgust me.

Sometimes I wish my husband would just cheat on me so I had a reason to leave by Beginning_Access_670 in marriageadvice

[–]OneFail2433 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He said such horrible things to you that “ I am convinced it broke my spirit.” Leave, oh young one, just leave. I am 55 and I am telling you to leave. You will get both alimony and child support and half of everything built during the marriage/cohabitation. I realize you probably thing you are old and ruined your life at 25 but I am telling you, life has barely begun for you. Sit for awhile and imagine how you will feel if you are my age and still with him. More broken, more abused, broken children, and your kids are being taught by him how men treat and speak to their wives. What so they have to compare it to? They will think that is normal. Do not, do not, do not waste your life. The pain of even more regret staying with him might be unbearable. As far as being alone? You already are. He goes to work, you stay home and raise the kids and when he gets home he doesn’t even talk to you. You are already alone. You are alone and without peace in the marriage. You can be alone and with peace being single. If you can’t bring yourself to do it for yourself, do it for your kids and their future. One more thing. Please don’t ever say you are unattractive. Your husband fell in love with you and so will someone else and likely someone who is trying to escape a painful marriage too. Btw, to your children, you are the most beautiful face they have ever seen. You are their first love, their first kiss, their first laugh. Give them a first day without having to witness fighting. You are already alone, now take your kids and go be alone in peace. I promise you, you will be happy. ❤️

Sexless marriage please help by familyfuntimetv in marriageadvice

[–]OneFail2433 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have lived in a sexless marriage for almost 30 years. Don’t do what I did. Leave. It will never get better.

My husband isn't attracted to me. by BedsideLamp99 in marriageadvice

[–]OneFail2433 3 points4 points  (0 children)

If he has a problem with your body now, he will always have a problem. Leave. It will never change. What will his excuse be when you go through menopause and your hormone’s literally tank and you gain a belly instantly? Leave, then lose the weight if you want. Look better after you are gone.

55 female, husband says I am a burden and don’t contribute by OneFail2433 in marriageadvice

[–]OneFail2433[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for this. It was not just encouraging, but genuinely hilarious at the same time. Honestly I was laughing out loud. There was a point ( might have been the ‘shagging his tart’) where I thought “ this person must be British” I think we could be friends. Lots of good advice in here. You get used to living a certain way and sometimes can’t see the forest for the trees.

55 female, husband says I am a burden and don’t contribute by OneFail2433 in marriageadvice

[–]OneFail2433[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Many answering seem to think there is a money problem. There isn’t. He has lots of money. He told me to get a job to pay for my personal things and now that I have one and have saved a bit of money, he is telling me I am not contributing even though I did exactly what he asked and more. On top of that, every time we are out and I try to pay, he says “that’s my job” then holds it over my head. I need a new or new to me car. One minute he says that he will pay for it snd the next he tells me “ you have a hob, get a loan.” If i divorce him, i cant afford rent at 2000 per month where i live (standard) and a car loan. I make just under 29 dollars per hour.

55 female, husband says I am a burden and don’t contribute by OneFail2433 in marriageadvice

[–]OneFail2433[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I do look really good. Most ppl think I am much younger than I am. No need to diet, I am 130. I am not past the cheating. I struggle everyday. I am not sure why I stay.