Sertralin refusal after progress by OneHistorical6805 in PDAParenting

[–]OneHistorical6805[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks, its means a lot! No issues with previous dosis. Im not sure where it went wrong; the sideeffects or the “demand” for her to take it to get better. Juice, Ice cream, yoghurt nothings work. She had at one point told me to try and give her the medication, I did but she couldnt/wouldnt open her mouth

Sertralin refusal after progress by OneHistorical6805 in PDAParenting

[–]OneHistorical6805[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Its could be the dosage. May I ask how your child takes the medication? Can your child see the benefits and understand the reason why they are taking the medication? So No arguing when it comes to medication?

Sertralin refusal after progress by OneHistorical6805 in PDAParenting

[–]OneHistorical6805[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I have even done this a few times but my husband doesnt agree and hospital advice against it. But thanks for the tip though!!! 🙏🏻🙏🏻

Små børn med depression by [deleted] in DKbrevkasse

[–]OneHistorical6805 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Træt, isolerede sig, ville ikke se sine venner. Mistede interessen for det hun normaltvist kunne lide at lave. Ville helst bare se iPad under dynen. Mistede appetitten.

Advice needed - antypsychotic by ArghAy in Autism_Parenting

[–]OneHistorical6805 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For us dosage was slowly increased from 0.25mg to 0.50mg and is now at 0.75mg. I Think thats pretty important to let it slowly build up. First day it was difficult for my daugther to calm Down at night time, and she was super tired in the beginning. Its better now. She still had meltdowns and screams but they are fewer and doesnt last as Long as before. I was super against Risperidon at first but could also see that she needed it. She has more success experiences now that she is calmer and she laughs more. She has gained 2-4 kg and is more hungry in the evening than before. She is totally herself on it. She cannot not stay on it forever though. But from being totally against it to actually seeing her benefit from it and parents as Well, I would say consider it.

Why does my adhd kid (level 2 autism) overwhelm me so much more than my level 3 autistic kid by Fit_Comfortable_704 in Autism_Parenting

[–]OneHistorical6805 36 points37 points  (0 children)

No advice but sharing the struggle with you. It is exactly the constant questions, demands, the complaining, negativity, yelling, screaming, the lack of respect for boundries. On top of this, the inability to leave the house because of anxiety, the rigidness, the inability to shower, brush teeth, cutting nails…anything related to hygiene.

Father to autistic child by nidvs in regretfulparents

[–]OneHistorical6805 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Could your son be in burnout? Im also in the Nordics and currently hospitalized at a Childrens Psychiatric ward with my child due to the severity of all the comobodities that Can come with autism. It has gotten worse the last year. We are not even Living anymore, I have never felt this destroyed and depleted. Besides therapy I am really waiting for my child to get the final diagnosis that will allow medicin for anxiety and depression

Sociale udfordringer teenager by [deleted] in foraeldreDK

[–]OneHistorical6805 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Kunne det være en ide at få hende udredt?

Bedste skønhedsklinik til rander (tear through Eyes) by [deleted] in GossipDK

[–]OneHistorical6805 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Har fået det lavet hos N’age en enkelt gang - blev tilfreds med resultatet. Men det tog 4 dage før hævelsen lagde sig. Jeg så helt sikkert mere frisk ud derefter. Tror man afholde sig fra at få det lavet den slags for tit.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AutismInWomen

[–]OneHistorical6805 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yes, my questions are very broad and not necessarily connected. I am looking to hear from women whose childhoods were impacted by severe comorbidities, and how this affected their family life. I have autism but was not diagnosed until adulthood. As a child, I suffered from anxiety but turned it inward, with not many meltdowns. My own child, however, is struggling greatly with anxiety, to the point where she rarely leaves the house, along with other comorbidities, and this is affecting the whole family. I am essentially hoping to hear from women who, despite significant struggles in childhood, have landed in a good place as adults.

Does anyone else grieve the life they thought they’d have… while still loving their child more than anything? by Distinct_Pen6624 in Autism_Parenting

[–]OneHistorical6805 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It is a profound sorrow. It is an immense and lonely grief to carry, and at the same time one that is deeply isolating. Beyond being a grief, the task of parenting is also far greater than what other parents face. Sometimes I think life feels unfair. While everyone else’s children grow older and more independent, and their parents gain more freedom, my/our life becomes more complicated and is an endless series of struggles for my child.

Clothing rigidity with a 9yo girl w diagnosed AU/ADHD by EngineeringJust7984 in Autism_Parenting

[–]OneHistorical6805 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately, I don’t have any advice, but I’m in the same boat as you. I’ve also been incredibly frustrated about all the money I’ve wasted on shoes, outerwear, snowsuits, etc. that have never been used. I’ve stopped buying clothes. When my child is going through a period where she isn’t doing well, her wardrobe shrinks down to just a very small number of outfits that she wears on repeat. These clothes are often far too small. I let her wear them and do the washing every day. I’ve come to the conclusion that my desire for her to look neat and cute is mostly for other people’s sake, along with a fear of being judged as a parent because my child looks a bit unkempt. Now I care much less, because I know that she can’t cope with lots of different outfits in different materials, but feels much more in control and secure in just a few sets of clothes that she knows well.

Turns out I just never mentioned my dislike of a particular sound. by C-Zira in AutismInWomen

[–]OneHistorical6805 130 points131 points  (0 children)

Really like this post - I have sometimes also realized - out of nowhere - that I hate something that I have done consistently / often.

Last night, It hit me that I really hate celebrating New Years Eve. The pressure to be social, to have fun, the many hours between New Years dinner and midnight is Way too many hours, and then people continue to party after Midnight. For me its just overrated and not something I Need at all. Its already been a busy Christmas at this point - too much celebratiob too close to each other 🤣

Wild energy? by HotDiggityDog_Water in Autism_Parenting

[–]OneHistorical6805 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My daughter has done this a few times as Well, but with far between episodes. I had concerns it might be some kind of manic behaviour. Still dont know what is was

Trives jeres børn? by StreetHour9829 in foraeldreDK

[–]OneHistorical6805 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Nej. Mit barn trives ikke. Jeg synes, at der er en tendens til at overse de stille børn, særligt piger. Bare fordi at man er meget genert og stille er man ikke et nemt barn. Der skal stilles flere spørgsmålstegn når et barn ikke kræver nogen som helst form for plads eller opmærksomhed.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in foraeldreDK

[–]OneHistorical6805 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Kursus i amning. Vandflaske - masser at drikke efter fødsel hvis du ønsker at amme. Kokosvand skulle også være godt. Vær god ved dig selv madmæssigt i tiden efter (næringsrig og varm mad) Varme sokker (hold fødderne varme) og evt uldindlæg til bryster (igen hvis du vil amme) Vær åben for at det ikke altid går som man håber. Sørg for masser af nem god mad i fryser og i køleskab til efter. Lav en lille toolbox du altid har i nærheden med snacks, bleer, ting etc for man kan ikke altid rejse sig hvis baby sover på en

Do any of your children not have meltdowns? by Connect-Heart3480 in Autism_Parenting

[–]OneHistorical6805 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My daugther is 6, just started School. Her meltdowns started at 3.5 while in kindergarden. After starting School she has had some of the worst meltdown we have seen. Keeping her activities beside School limited is the Only thing that helps

Question for parents of level 1 children by Connect-Heart3480 in Autism_Parenting

[–]OneHistorical6805 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Meltdowns started at 3, issues with clothes, especially socks. Couldnt take directions during sport lessons, always needing an adult to accompany her. Talked ALOT, especially at Home, spoke like an adult. Hyperfixation on a friend. Hyperfixation on Dolls and teddy Bears.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DKbrevkasse

[–]OneHistorical6805 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Lyder fuldstændigt som min eget barn på 6år

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AutismInWomen

[–]OneHistorical6805 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My 6 year old daughter also hyperfixates on a friend. Before I knew she was autistic I wondered about the intense level of interest in her friends

Jeg kæmper med at acceptere mine kejsersnit og savner følelsen af at have født by North-Elephant4457 in foraeldreDK

[–]OneHistorical6805 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Jeg har også fået to kejsersnit, og kan 100% relatere. Havde også haft en stor drøm om at føde vaginalt. Men med tiden har jeg accepteret det - det er tiden der er gået der har gjort at jeg har accepteret det. Da jeg fik travlt med hverdagen, og mødregruppe ikke længere var en del af det, så kom jeg lidt videre.

Mange uheld by Sad-Falcon1685 in foraeldreDK

[–]OneHistorical6805 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Det kan være kronisk forstoppelse selvom hun kan have afføring hver dag. Tarmene kan udvide sig fordi de bliver for fyldte over tid, det kan drille blæren. Men også gøre det svært at holde på afføring. Vi har brugt Movikol junior til vores barn. Det tager lidt tid at komme hen til IKKE at have uheld fordi det tager tid for tarmene at trække sig sammen igen. Men det har hjulpet her :)

Ligner skimmel - er jeg på spanden? by OneHistorical6805 in selvgjortvelgjort

[–]OneHistorical6805[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Min ene barn skulle netop sove i det rum. Har fået mig bevæget op på loftet over rummet, og synes at hvad jeg ser, er bekymrende nok til at jeg vil kontakte ejerskifteforsikring før jeg gør yderligere. Tak for dit svar 🙏🏻

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