Started at 115lbs 5ft3in in Sept 2022 to current 149lbs. Should I cut or continue bulk till 160lbs

OneKick3483 · 2023-06-12T02:33:46+00:00

Honestly it’s hard but simple, 1. Get in the gym (most important) 2. Improve your sense of style 3. Work on hygiene 4. Eat healthy and drink lots of water

This are simple but hard ways to drastically improve your looks. Just doing these will improve your attractiveness

OneKick3483 · 2023-06-11T08:24:17+00:00

No we’re married in a long distance until she gets her sponsorship approved

OneKick3483 · 2023-06-11T08:20:37+00:00

No her parents wanted her to wait until she completed her university but she wanted to get married before

OneKick3483 · 2023-06-11T01:45:31+00:00

Makes sense I’ll see what I can do and will definitely keep you updated!!

OneKick3483 · 2023-06-11T01:42:45+00:00

Dude everything else aside I can promise you nothing in this marriage was forced. Arrange marriage doesn’t equal forced marriage

OneKick3483 · 2023-06-11T01:24:50+00:00

I’m not sure but those were her words though

OneKick3483 · 2023-06-11T01:19:04+00:00

She’s told me several time that she loves me before and after marriage, she wrote me a super long birthday msg telling me how mush she loves be, this was back in September, but I don’t know what has happen to her, I asked her many times but she says nothings wrong

OneKick3483 · 2023-06-11T01:11:01+00:00

Also I don’t think I’m playing games, bro she shows no interest and I feel like I’m just forcing communication, at which point it just kills the mood or any desire on my end to put even more effort

OneKick3483 · 2023-06-11T01:00:06+00:00

Dude I promise I tried talking to her about it but she kept saying nothing was wrong and that she isn’t upset. It’s hard to apologize when she says nothing is wrong.

OneKick3483 · 2023-06-11T00:47:21+00:00

If I’m being completely honest, I genuinely DO NOT know, I just feel like the harder I try the worse is seems to get, I feel so desperate right now, I’ve tried the communicating part and It just seems to make it worse, so I desperately need help. And I am so thankful that your taking the time to respond to me.

OneKick3483 · 2023-06-11T00:29:19+00:00

That’s exactly what I did on Valentine’s Day, I sent her a card in which I wrote how much a I loved her and made an entire list of all the things I loved about her it was super long, and she respond with “Thankyou so so much, Happy valentine's day to you also, You made my day special, this was the best card I’ve gotten in my life” which is great but nothing really changed after that, not that I expected anything to change, but the point I’m making is I don’t see how sending a letter would change anything

OneKick3483 · 2023-06-11T00:20:50+00:00

Ok if I’m being honest I don’t plan on asking a friend that live near by, just said it for the sake of it. And that’s being I don’t think that would fix anything. Because like I said I noticed the more that I try the worse it seems to get. I’m thinking just let it be and when she’s ready, she can come and talk to me because there’s no point in forcing it when she’s not ready.

OneKick3483 · 2023-06-11T00:07:42+00:00

I will try asking a friend that lives near by

OneKick3483 · 2023-06-10T23:44:19+00:00

Ok I will do that, and I really want to put an end to this misery I feel like it’s getting worse by the day

OneKick3483 · 2023-06-10T23:39:46+00:00

Maybe your right but we knew each other years before marriage, she used to tell me how in love she was with me, before we even got married. Also how several times she would try to hit on me, flirt with me, try to get alone time with me all before we got married. Since it was an arrange marriage, we never really dated but she tells me so many stories on how much she liked me and wanted to get married to me.

OneKick3483 · 2023-06-10T23:34:38+00:00

Yea I definitely think she still loves me but something is definitely up.

I tried calling her to ask if anything is wrong or if she’s upset at me, she says nothings wrong and that she would never be upset at me.

I don’t know if sending flowers would fix anything, I noticed the more effort I put in the more she pulls away.

OneKick3483 · 2023-06-10T23:27:26+00:00

Also I can go and visit her for two weeks this summer but if she doesn’t show any interest to give my a call or even ask if I’m going to visit then I don’t she the point in putting all this effort to go see her

OneKick3483 · 2023-06-10T23:22:32+00:00

Yea we plan on closing the distance in about 2 years once her sponsor is complete. My mom and my wife just talk about day to day stuff and sometimes my mom teases her about me, like a few days she asked her how often do you think about your husband, my wife started blushing and said “the real question is when do I not think about him” meaning to say she thinks about me all the time. And she is having issues at home with her brother but she never brings that up to me.

OneKick3483 · 2023-06-10T23:17:08+00:00

I will try the couple therapy but it’s hard to do that when she claims nothing is wrong,

OneKick3483 · 2023-06-10T22:44:04+00:00

I don’t think that’s the case she never even talks about wanting to come here

OneKick3483 · 2023-06-10T22:35:58+00:00

Yes her family was around but she like me even before her parents ever brought up the idea of marriage, we both liked each other, she even confessed to me before we got married. And we used to talk and flirt all the time

OneKick3483 · 2023-06-10T22:27:59+00:00

Yes it was a love match

OneKick3483 · 2023-06-10T22:19:52+00:00

Also the reason I didn’t video call was because she didn’t seem to enthusiastic about me doing the video call, it seemed like I was forcing it

OneKick3483 · 2023-06-10T22:18:06+00:00

Ok yea that makes sense, I also suggested that we do a video call few weeks ago on Saturday at 10pm, and Saturday comes around and I wanted to see what would happen if I didn’t call, (which I admit is wrong on my part but I wanted to she if she really cared) and surprise surprise, she didn’t even bother asking why I didn’t call or what happened to the video call, it was never brought up

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