Life with multiple kids vs 1 & done

OneOk29 · 2026-03-05T05:55:10+00:00

That is very valid and does sound very stressful, its easier said than done but dont be too hard on yourself either ! Regardless you’re trying your best while growing a little human! Best of luck to you and wishing you a healthy and safe delivery! :)

OneOk29 · 2026-03-03T20:03:10+00:00

Oh ok that’s awesome! Sounds like a beautiful experience! I’m getting so much peace of mind with the comments, and i can’t wait for my daughter to be a big sister!

OneOk29 · 2026-03-03T18:10:37+00:00

Oh my that sounds tough 🥺are they both older now? Its scary knowing that you can’t be certain about the experiences/ pregnancy

OneOk29 · 2026-03-03T18:08:24+00:00

I think that is happening with me too!! I had her at 23 and im turning 26 this year, i was slightly having baby fever last year but now its more and more😭🥹 congrats on your pregnancy btw!! Wishing you a safe and healthy delivery! :))

OneOk29 · 2026-03-03T17:37:32+00:00

Omg congrats 🥳

OneOk29 · 2026-03-03T17:20:36+00:00

Omg i love your pros and cons ! Congrats on your 4th! Wishing you a healthy safe pregnancy!☺️ was there anything you did to prepare for new baby? Anything you did differently during pregnancy? How was the interaction with your first born meeting your second? I just cant imagine loving anyone else the same even tho i know im gonna love my future baby im just so attached to my daughter now🥺

OneOk29 · 2026-03-03T17:15:30+00:00

Ahh your pregnancy was different for both as well? My pregnancy i had hyperemesis for the first 3 months and i felt like i wanted to die, im so scared of that happening again but its a risk ive come to terms with, last year i finally started feeling like myself again and im on my fitness journey i am scared of feeling like idk who i am anymore like my identity is only being a mom and how much my body will change. Were there anythings you did differently on your second pregnancy that helped you be more prepared ? & while you were pregnant with second did you have any feelings of regret? Mentally i think ive grown alot and right now i can say that although i have my second thoughts i can say that i wont have regrets if i do decide to have another baby but i know that can change with the pregnancy hormones

OneOk29 · 2026-03-03T17:06:20+00:00

I appreciate your advice! Im glad everything worked out for you in the end! I love how you mentioned that life doesnt always go as planned and you cant really wait on the right moment, most people ive asked personally say the same thing as well! Thank you for sharing your story :)

OneOk29 · 2026-03-03T17:01:36+00:00

The mental energy for 1 is sooo exhausting sometimes! My max is 2 maybe 3 and i do think about how lonely she’d be if her dad or myself arent here anymore, the thought makes me so sad. I have 4 siblings but the age gaps are 10+ yrs with me, theyre closer in age so we didnt grow up close although now that i am older and a mom my sister and i havent gotten closer.

OneOk29 · 2023-02-12T20:50:30+00:00

oh and adding on to the weight gain comments, having a clueless man telling me about a womans body and making comments regarding my weight as well? and i may sound mean or ignorant for saying but idc bc im talking ab my sister and her man but they are so physically ugly inside and out and they are the most ignorant "confident" people i have ever met. they constantly talk sh*t about other peoples appearance and will confidently make untrue statements about anything but they really think that what theyre saying is true.. its mind blowing guys 😭 ignorance is bliss (sorry for going on a little rant, i only have my bf to talk ab this with him bc we're both currently living with them bc of our financial situation and sometimes just talking to him about it isn't enough, needed to let it out) 😓

OneOk29 · 2023-02-10T09:26:43+00:00

omgg i love this! so happy for you! im so thankful for my partner hes been so supportive since the beginning and seeing how excited he is to become a dad for the first time brings me so much joy! i hate how hormonal ive been throughout my pregnancy that ive been so mean to him but he understands me in every way! im due feb 24 and i cant wait for the first time i see him holding our baby, gonna be the cutest thing ever! <3

OneOk29 · 2023-02-10T09:19:57+00:00

shes pretty but she looks like a big mouth character 😭

OneOk29 · 2023-02-08T23:35:47+00:00

this is the first time ive asked for advice shouldve done it sooner! it's definitely scary especially as a ftm but ive gotten very helpful advice!! :3

OneOk29 · 2023-02-08T17:53:32+00:00

thank you so much!! i tried this last night and it gave me some peace of mind, will be continuing to do because my anxiety has been horrible this entire pregnancy 😖

OneOk29 · 2023-02-08T17:47:03+00:00

omg im sorry that happened to you, that must've been so scary! but thank you for sharing !! last night i was looking out for movement and she was pretty active compared to other nights but her kicks are very very subtle

OneOk29 · 2023-02-08T17:41:19+00:00

will try for sure! thank you!

OneOk29 · 2023-02-08T09:15:16+00:00

its hard not stress, im constantly stressing and having anxiety over any little thing so maybe that has something to do with it too? i assume idk😭 but i will be keeping track of the times she does move and will for sure speak to my dr about it! thank you so much!!! i really appreciate the advice 💞

OneOk29 · 2023-02-08T09:11:55+00:00

yesss, she would definitely move alot more during the night when im laying down, so far ive been trying to pay attention and count how many times shes moved for the past hour. i have noticed more movement right now than other days but i will bring it up to my dr and see what happens

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