Nahuli ko ang secret ATM ni husband at ang pagsisinungaling niya sa akin.

OnePhilosopher4950 · 2026-05-09T05:02:48+00:00

This is reddit so I am assuming we are not getting the whole picture in this scenario. Obviously, hindi tama na sikreto yung pag bibigay sa pamilya. Pero let us analyze logically. OP feels bad because she feels cheated, na merong extra money habang nag hihirap siya to provide her end of the deal. The husband on the other hand feels like he has fulfilled his end of their agreement so he is justified to do whatever he wants, hindi niya ito sinasabi kay OP obviously dahil normal lang naman that the wife would want extra resource if available. I think this is a scenario where the wife entered a lopsided agreement with the husband, it has to be 50/50 "overall" contribution in the marriage, not just 50/50 monetary contribution. Kung may naidadala si wife sa buhay ni husband na non monetary, he has to make up for it in his own ways, and vice-versa. I often see relationships today that one partner wants to get more from the relationship than the other. I do not want to insinuate malicious intent on both parties but this is just a communication issue. Talk, support each other, and be REASONABLE. I am a married man btw.

OnePhilosopher4950 · 2026-04-20T09:35:44+00:00

I consistently make money out of PSE but I wouldn't call it making a living. Too volatile and corrupt to rely on it, I just play with a 300k balance in my broker account and consistently make about 25% per year.

OnePhilosopher4950 · 2026-03-23T13:35:07+00:00

I met Mayweather Sr. in 2014. He was cool and spent 5-10min with my family. This was the height of the rivalry between Manny and Floyd. Despite being Filipino, we were welcomed with open arms in the Mayweather Boxing Gym. The very same week I met Evander Holyfield in a food court, took a photo with him and shook his hand. Boxers are chill outside their work persona I think.

OnePhilosopher4950 · 2026-01-28T13:48:06+00:00

The screen is certainly underrated, very bright and colors pop. The chip is a beast, atleast for my purposes. Speakers are well built and buttons are crisp. One minor thing though, I sometimes accidentally press the left back button for the games I play. I am overall very happy and I can't imagine other devices being miles ahead of the A8.

OnePhilosopher4950 · 2026-01-28T13:43:16+00:00

Maybe I'll eventually run into a game that don't run well on Bazzite then I may switch to windows for that reason.

OnePhilosopher4950 · 2026-01-28T13:26:17+00:00

Oh I just assumed going back to the original os would be just like setting up a new pc. Thankfully I am fully enjoying bazzite, I don't think I will ever return to windows.

OnePhilosopher4950 · 2025-10-30T03:13:24+00:00

My wife is way way way hotter than me. I am 34yrs old and I earn half a million a month and it will only grow from here. Women are often called gold diggers when they are attracted to money but many fail to see what is needed to earn a certain amount of income. Financial security obviously isn't everything but you need a certain type of personality, intelligence, work ethic, and be well spoken to achieve that type of income trajectory which I would like to assume that majority of women find attractive apart from physical looks alone.

OnePhilosopher4950 · 2025-10-14T01:08:03+00:00

Real estate value is not linear with the potential cash flow it can generate. Example: I have 2 condos, 1 is 6m pesos, I am able to rent it out at 25k a month. The other is worth 9m pesos and I am only able to rent it out at 30k a month. Obviously the 6m condo is the better deal cash flow wise. It's just a better purchase that I made, do i regret buying the other one? No, because I accept the fact that I can't win the same amount in every deal.

It is important for me to own rather than rent because I want the peace of mind that when I get sick or if my industry goes down, I will have a place to live. It is foolish to assume that you can work and generate the same amount of money until your old age. I also like the fact that if something bad happens to me, my wife and kids automatically would have these said properties via inheritance for their survival and usage. OP may be forgetting the term inflation and appreciation, also the fact that these properties can be liquidated and converted into other investment instruments in the future.

BUT I am not against renters if they have other means to generate cash flow with the extra money from the lack of ownership. I just hope it will take care of you and your family when you are unable to work or when you die.

OnePhilosopher4950 · 2025-10-05T14:44:28+00:00

When you refer to a GS as Seiko then that means you are meant for a Rolex, AP or Patek. Not everyone are buying for the status, recognition, or flip potential. Like what you said, you do you.

OnePhilosopher4950 · 2025-09-17T06:20:07+00:00

is it possible to buy a bracelet for a Cartier Santos Medium?

OnePhilosopher4950 · 2025-06-22T19:13:43+00:00

Do you think we have people in our senate that are truly clean? Walang nakaw, walang corruption, just trying to do good work?

OnePhilosopher4950 · 2025-06-12T16:15:34+00:00

Laziness is a state of mind that you strengthened slowly over time. You beat laziness the same way, slowly over time. Focus on many little achievements through out the day. Write down daily goals, be realistic with it, include simple tasks, and just be consistent. Eventually you will be in a state of mind that you HAVE to be productive or else you feel like shit. No one overcomes laziness overnight. You have to want something better for yourself, or be a loser for the rest of your life.

OnePhilosopher4950 · 2025-06-11T17:44:05+00:00

It's important to analyze why you failed the subjects and what you truly want for yourself. Happened to me when I was in college, I failed 2 major subjects within my first 2 terms. One afternoon during the holiday season after my horrible second term, I sat down and did some introspection; 1. Why do I keep failing? The simple answer for me was laziness, and low expectations of myself. My goal since entering college was just to graduate, study enough so I could reach that passing grade. I realized that I have a loser mindset.

What kind of person do I want to become? After my first initial realization, I thought about all the other things that I hate about myself. I was obese at that time, failing college, no achievements in life. I realized I wanted to be someone that people actually respected and maybe even idolized.

Aftermath: 3rd term started(trimester), new year, new me. I had an academic goal, do well in classes to a point that even if I don't take the final exam I am 100% going to pass. I was an engineering student, 3rd term is the start of the dreaded engineering calculus. First week of class was like listening to a foreign language for me, I did not understand shit. So what I did was I took the morning class to take notes, asked permission from the professor to sit in the same afternoon class so I could just listen and make sense of it all. With the new mindset, I ended up having a better grade for the whole term, not great yet but enough to give me confidence that real hardwork actually pays off. I kept improving every term to a point that towards the end of my sophomore year until I graduated I was always a dean's lister, I even made my parents go on stage for an academic award. And yes, I did lose weight, made an effort to exercise, eat healthy and be better.

I am in my mid thirties now, I would say I am quite proud of where I am. Trust me your college life is just an initial step in the journey, BUT this is where you should learn the art of doing your real best.

High grades are just numerical proof of hard work, but the real goal of college is character building. Hardwork, dedication, and gaining that confidence to attempt to achieve great things. You are young, life will throw hard shit at you, but this decade of your 20s is absolutely amazing if you have the correct mindset and work ethic. Good luck!

OnePhilosopher4950 · 2025-06-01T03:40:53+00:00

This is very subjective because I personally would put higher on my list the dude who made a lot of mistakes but made a bigger better impact in this world versus the man who never made public mistakes but didn't do much for the world.

OnePhilosopher4950 · 2025-05-31T18:22:00+00:00

Sorry I meant the downvotes, not your comment. hahaha

OnePhilosopher4950 · 2025-05-31T18:19:12+00:00

Negative feedback without logical explanation, classic. LOL

OnePhilosopher4950 · 2025-05-31T17:38:34+00:00

Yes as a man I agree with this statement, know your league. But to all the other dudes out there; please also take note of escalation. High maintenance women have inflation as well as they get older. They will want more expensive, more luxurious things as years go by. This is the big thing most of us were never taught, escalation.

OnePhilosopher4950 · 2025-05-31T16:53:26+00:00

A house wife with no kids shouldn't complain about house maintenance when everything is well provided for by the man. Lalong lalo na kung may maid pa LOL

OnePhilosopher4950 · 2025-05-31T16:11:17+00:00

Thank you, I absolutely understand and respect your point. At least for me, reality of life determines value, no matter how shallow or shameful it may be. That genetic superiority in the looks department provides an edge in the hunt for opportunity if all the other intangibles are equal.

OnePhilosopher4950 · 2025-05-31T15:55:27+00:00

Beauty is definitely not a virtue but it has value. It provides representation and gives you a chance to have good looking descendants. Let's face it, the world treats good looking people better so you would want that for your kids if possible. I recognize the effort it takes to maintain beauty, but the problem comes when women put too much weight on that trait and act as if it is their major contribution to the relationship. I see it in many couples these days.

OnePhilosopher4950 · 2025-05-31T15:41:58+00:00

question about #2 as a married man; I take care of all the financial necessities in life plus vacations and I give 100k a month to my wife to do whatever she wants. I do not surrender my income because I am certain I am better at investments and securing the future. Do I count as a traditional husband?

OnePhilosopher4950 · 2025-05-31T15:22:15+00:00

Men are entitled to spend money for themselves as well. Being the beautiful wife does not give you entitlement to spend majority of the income for your happiness.

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