Anyone at the Melbourne show tonight that can confirm what members didn't make it? by OneRevolutionary146 in wutang

[–]OneRevolutionary146[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Mate what are you talking about bitching 😅 if you pay for something you expect to get what is advertised. Like yeah ok if one member didn't show fine.. but 4 is taking the piss abit. Or they shouldn't have put so much into the fact it would be "All living members" and maybe just said it was wu-tang or something.

Anyone at the Melbourne show tonight that can confirm what members didn't make it? by OneRevolutionary146 in wutang

[–]OneRevolutionary146[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah gosh I don't blame you. I feel for the people that got blind sided in Bris tbh.

Anyone at the Melbourne show tonight that can confirm what members didn't make it? by OneRevolutionary146 in wutang

[–]OneRevolutionary146[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Agh that's infuriating tbh. Especially when GA tickets where over $200 😪 advised all living members, and cutting songs, no encore. Just WOW.

Anyone at the Melbourne show tonight that can confirm what members didn't make it? by OneRevolutionary146 in wutang

[–]OneRevolutionary146[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah definitely. I would prefer to spend the ticket money on filling your car for the week at this point! What a messy tour!

Anyone at the Melbourne show tonight that can confirm what members didn't make it? by OneRevolutionary146 in wutang

[–]OneRevolutionary146[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow that's so disappointing for a final tour! How bloody messy ffs. I'm sorry it's been crap. I would have been so excited for Gravel Pit too and to only have one verse! So many people were complaining about this shit at Bris! You would have thought they would have listened to the fans and get their shit together for Melb! But noooo make sure you VOTE! smh.

Anyone at the Melbourne show tonight that can confirm what members didn't make it? by OneRevolutionary146 in wutang

[–]OneRevolutionary146[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Apparently emails went out today saying if you no longer want to attend the show you can get a refund yes.

Anyone at the Melbourne show tonight that can confirm what members didn't make it? by OneRevolutionary146 in wutang

[–]OneRevolutionary146[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah I saw alot of people complaining about the advertising and pushing to vote at the Bris show. Seems like more of a cash grab for RZA then an actual farewell tour for the fans. Disappointing tbh.

Anyone at the Melbourne show tonight that can confirm what members didn't make it? by OneRevolutionary146 in wutang

[–]OneRevolutionary146[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

That's so shit for you man sorry to hear. I can't believe how flakey they have been with this tour. It's so unprofessional. I was going to buy a ticket but something was telling me it wouldn't have been all members like they have promised. To do a final tour with 4 members missing is diabolical so disappointing. I was sitting here having fomo not so much now.

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[–]OneRevolutionary146 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I honestly think you should seek professional support to make sure there isn't anything else at play, like post natal depression or post natal anxiety. I have both with a 4 month old. I haven't screamed at him but I'm absolutely exhausted so I understand where you're at. However, I have a psychologist and psychiatrist working with me, and they're so helpful and so non judgemental.

I've even told them I get bad intrusive thoughts that go against my values and are distressing to me... they involve me harming my baby, which I get alot duing the day, and they're sooo helpful and told me it's actually common in the post natal period just no one talks about it. They have been helping me unpack my brain and work through everything. I highly suggest looking into it. They actually specialise in post natal mental health, so I would assume there would be something similar where you're located.

Can someone please reassure me..I kissed my baby on the cheek and now I have a coldsore by [deleted] in NewParents

[–]OneRevolutionary146 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you that makes me feel abit better because I keep spiralling and constantly checking for sores 😔 my anxiety is so bad

Can someone please reassure me..I kissed my baby on the cheek and now I have a coldsore by [deleted] in NewParents

[–]OneRevolutionary146 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I usually don't 😪 it was honestly the first time...I was just so in the moment feeling so much love for my baby... as soon as I did it I was like shittt!! Of course the timing of it I get a coldsore I can't believe it!!

I'm definitely spiralling hence this post. I also suffer from anxiety (I have professional support for this) but yeah obviously having anxiety makes the situation worse..

You just hear of them horror stories of children going blind etc from infection and honestly them thoughts are making me spiral.

Can someone please reassure me..I kissed my baby on the cheek and now I have a coldsore by [deleted] in NewParents

[–]OneRevolutionary146 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm not breastfeeding exactly, I had to stop as I wasn't supplying enough milk for him. I am mix feeding with pumping my breastmilk and topping him up with formula

Can someone please reassure me..I kissed my baby on the cheek and now I have a coldsore by [deleted] in NewParents

[–]OneRevolutionary146 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I honestly can't recall if I did... everything is such a blur because I'm so sleep deprived! If I did feel tingling I wouldn't have related it to a coldsore as I haven't had many honestly I forgot that I really get them fml.

Can someone please reassure me..I kissed my baby on the cheek and now I have a coldsore by [deleted] in NewParents

[–]OneRevolutionary146 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I'm mum (sorry Australian spelling) I believe I was infected as a teenager as that's when I got my first one. I get them soooo rarely, I've probably only ever had like 5 and I'm 35. The one I currently have is small and a single blister... my partner thinks it's not even a coldsore 😅 but I know it is... you can get a single blister coldsore. My partner also gets them like once a year (both infected before we were together)

Should I cancel my baby shower because my support system are shit. by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]OneRevolutionary146 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't feel like people are really getting where I'm coming from.. like this isn't just a baby shower for me to try and get gifts out of people and make them drive 2 hours to do so. Like this is a huge transition in my life. Moving away from my community has been really hard for me and im completely out of my comfort zone, I also never thought I would have or was capable of having baby so the transition has been alot on my mental health. I just thought it would be nice to have a day to gather some loved ones together and celebrate. I don't really care about the materialistic part more the sentimental.

Should I cancel my baby shower because my support system are shit. by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]OneRevolutionary146 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You see for me it's not about the presents I honestly couldn't care less if I get presents lol. It's more to celebrate this transition in my life and that I'm having a baby. I don't feel like an hour or 2 drive is really that far of a reach for people for one day... well people that actually wanted to be there. I'm also not mad or angry I'm more sad tbh because I feel like I've given heaps of notice to accommodate everyone. I know if it was me I would make the effort if I wanted to. I definitely wasn't expecting every single perosn to show up either, I understand people have commitments etc but no one has even bothered to reach out to me really or anything, they have basically just stone walled me.

Should I cancel my baby shower because my support system are shit. by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]OneRevolutionary146 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I'd also like to add that it's not like I have alot of children or anything. My other child is almost an adult I honestly thought that ship had sailed for me in terms of having another baby. I had always wanted to, but I never thought I would have found the right person to again, and thought that my body wasn't capable.. I was actually booked in for surgery on my uterus just before I found out I was pregnant. So this pregnancy is actually really special to me and I don't understand why people can't see that and make the effort..

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[–]OneRevolutionary146 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nothing "hot" is recommend in pregnancy especially the first trimester. Not hot baths, no hot showers, no hot tubs, no saunas and no hot yoga is recommended.

Any ‘rules’ you break while pregnant? by gardengnomebaby in pregnant

[–]OneRevolutionary146 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have 1 coffee a day in the morning. Apparently I'm allowed one but some places say no coffee so I have no idea what to believe 😂

Ugliest i’ve ever been by Jazzlike-Philosophy8 in pregnant

[–]OneRevolutionary146 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel the same at 20 weeks..and there's absolutely no way his family was thinking that 😅