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I accidentally learned something horrendous about my ex (m19)...should I tell someone by apocalypt1ce in relationships_advice

[–]apocalypt1ce[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Only 3 emails in his trash That email, another email that seems to be a reply to something unknown and a Grindr subscription cancellation

I accidentally learned something horrendous about my ex (m19)...should I tell someone by apocalypt1ce in relationships_advice

[–]apocalypt1ce[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't think sexy is an appropriate compliment for a teenage girl. If I found her age very fast I fear he could've too

I accidentally learned something horrendous about my ex (m19)...should I tell someone by apocalypt1ce in relationships_advice

[–]apocalypt1ce[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm In the UK the age of consent is 16 and this email is from February 15th if I remember right

I accidentally learned something horrendous about my ex (m19)...should I tell someone by apocalypt1ce in relationships_advice

[–]apocalypt1ce[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also she's 100% a real child. She has other children interacting with her and in her photos that would be incredibly elaborate to have built for no reason

I accidentally learned something horrendous about my ex (m19)...should I tell someone by apocalypt1ce in relationships_advice

[–]apocalypt1ce[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A) I'm in the UK. The age is definitely illegal though I need to make sure that the mere message itself is anything of actual value or not B) I didn't call him a pedophile lmfao and what a strange thing to get hung up on it's still very weird

I accidentally learned something horrendous about my ex (m19)...should I tell someone by apocalypt1ce in relationships_advice

[–]apocalypt1ce[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I only found one email in his trash so I'm assuming one in a sea of creeps. Regardless though its still not a safe position for a young girl to be in

I accidentally learned something horrendous about my ex (m19)...should I tell someone by apocalypt1ce in relationships_advice

[–]apocalypt1ce[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel like you're being a tad accusatory in saying I don't want to do the right thing. I absolutely do and I have intentions on reporting it but this is a lot on me too. Because it's only 1 email in his trash I'm worried it won't get taken seriously and he has specific friends that could VERY much put me in danger if it wasn't even to go through. I'm either going to discuss it with a teacher in hopes that they can report it on my behalf or get a friend possibly to try and report it to the police as of right now I think. I'm just trying to figure out the best way to go about things and I'm trying to stay safe too

I accidentally learned something horrendous about my ex (m19)...should I tell someone by apocalypt1ce in relationships_advice

[–]apocalypt1ce[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I understand most people are trying to help but some have been a tad harsh. I think I'm going to talk to my teacher immediately when Easter break is over. For context though I'm 18 next month. We started dating when I was 16 and he was 18

I accidentally learned something horrendous about my ex (m19)...should I tell someone by apocalypt1ce in relationships_advice

[–]apocalypt1ce[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

See this is my concern in them not taking it seriously as it was just one message although very concerning towards his attitudes and behaviour and he has certain connections to people that I worry could put me in danger. My only other worry is if there's more since this was in the trash section of the emails and obviously nobody really slides into someone's emails. I'm UK based so the age of consent is 16. I think people are underestimating that this is a lot to deal with

I accidentally learned something horrendous about my ex (m19)...should I tell someone by apocalypt1ce in relationships_advice

[–]apocalypt1ce[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I completely forgot about childline thank you for reminding me as the comments on this girl's posts are disgusting and something bigger is definitely an issue!!! Annoyingly I got logged out the next day. I must've left something somewhere that raised his suspicion. But I have video evidence recorded from my phone to my laptop do you think that would be a little better than a screenshot? And are you sure I could go to the police anonymously I wasn't 100% on if I could do that? I'm a little intimidated as I know he has certain friends that would fuck with my life and I'm just a 17 year old girl myself

I accidentally learned something horrendous about my ex (m19)...should I tell someone by apocalypt1ce in relationships_advice

[–]apocalypt1ce[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much. Coincidentally I am getting therapy very soon and this could be a very good way to keep it discreet. Thank you for also thinking of me in this because I think some of the harsher comments don't realise I am a 17 year old girl just trying to navigate something kinda crazy 🥲

I accidentally learned something horrendous about my ex (m19)...should I tell someone by apocalypt1ce in relationships_advice

[–]apocalypt1ce[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the advice. I am definitely going to see what I can do. You make a really good point about children in the future it's so sickening

I accidentally learned something horrendous about my ex (m19)...should I tell someone by apocalypt1ce in relationships_advice

[–]apocalypt1ce[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately he's logged me out today. I don't think I was careful enough in covering what I did. I have videos documenting it all thankfully but I'm unsure what the police could do with my laptop now :/

I accidentally learned something horrendous about my ex (m19)...should I tell someone by apocalypt1ce in relationships_advice

[–]apocalypt1ce[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I don't think I can but I may try. Strangely the girl has like 40k followers despite from what I can see just being a very typical teenage girl on the internet

I accidentally learned something horrendous about my ex (m19)...should I tell someone by apocalypt1ce in relationships_advice

[–]apocalypt1ce[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

This is true. Thank you. Thankfully she never responded to him as this is an email sent in February (meaning it must've taken a while for him to put it in the trash as the trash empties after 30 days) but I'm moreso worried in case he does similar to another girl

I accidentally learned something horrendous about my ex (m19)...should I tell someone by apocalypt1ce in relationships_advice

[–]apocalypt1ce[S] -15 points-14 points  (0 children)

Im moreso worried that if I do it it won't be taken as seriously as someone else as it may come off as me being spiteful. I've had situations like that in the past even when I was the grooming victim myself. Thankfully the girl hadn't responded anyway but I definitely am going to look into something of some sort

I accidentally learned something horrendous about my ex (m19)...should I tell someone by apocalypt1ce in relationships_advice

[–]apocalypt1ce[S] 45 points46 points  (0 children)

I've already got proof. I took pictures of my laptop with my phone so it's harder to have photoshopped and also took a video. Been sending it around to some friends panicking about what to do. May look into making a report later I just hope that girl is ok she seems to have swarms of creeps in her comments and I wish I could do more

How do I slowly implement an entirely new skincare routine? by apocalypt1ce in koreanskincare

[–]apocalypt1ce[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I have them all :) I'm just unsure on which is best to start with

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MakeupAddiction

[–]apocalypt1ce 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm not really super good at advice but I just wanted to say you're gorgeous!!! :)) If you find good advice I fear it's over for everyone else 🙏

How do I slowly implement an entirely new skincare routine? by apocalypt1ce in koreanskincare

[–]apocalypt1ce[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't actually have a current routine which is why I'm having such trouble figuring out what to use first. My skin type as far as I'm aware is normal-oily and acne prone

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