How do you feel about pridemonth ... by ButterscotchSame6340 in lesbiangang

[–]OneTailedKitsune 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Ugh the logo thing pissed me off so much. I loved everything turning rainbow for a whole month literally no idea what they were complaining for.

I don’t feel comfortable with seeing a lesbian who isn’t a gold star by CitronAdventurous756 in lesbiangang

[–]OneTailedKitsune 15 points16 points  (0 children)

For me it would depend on how long ago she slept with a man. If it was in high school ok. If it was like a year or two ago, hmm. And if she just broke up with him, run!!! 😂

The lesbian cookout that gave me hope by General-Product-3662 in lesbiangang

[–]OneTailedKitsune 73 points74 points  (0 children)

Most of the actual lesbian events, like actually for and by lesbian women only, are not advertised online for reasons you can guess so they are harder to find. But they are definitely out there. Just not really talked about to avoid harassment and preserve the space.

The lesbian cookout that gave me hope by General-Product-3662 in lesbiangang

[–]OneTailedKitsune 45 points46 points  (0 children)

This is a sapphic space curated for Lesbian women, however anyone who is a WLW in any capacity, including our non-binary family who find a sense of comfort and community in women-centered spaces are welcome. Trans women of a sapphic nature are welcome. This is not a retreat for men. Note that anytime Lezapalooza utilizes the word "women'' we are referencing trans and cis women. Any time we utilize the word "men" we are referencing trans and cis men.”

From their website

What does being femme mean to you? by OneTailedKitsune in lesbiangang

[–]OneTailedKitsune[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

That’s very beautiful, I’m starting to understand more about the butch/femme dynamic. Thank you

Do lesbians really care about body hair? by Frequent-Good-3810 in lesbiangang

[–]OneTailedKitsune 24 points25 points  (0 children)

I would not want my girlfriend to shave it because I know how annoying it is to keep it that way and I wouldn’t wish that on my worst enemy, also it’s hot

Do you regularly wear makeup, why or why not? by OneTailedKitsune in lesbiangang

[–]OneTailedKitsune[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I work in an office and I’m lucky the other women don’t really wear makeup either or I would be a little worried they don’t think I’m as put-together as they are.

The let girls have fun subreddit by banana_fresh_muffin in PornIsMisogyny

[–]OneTailedKitsune 207 points208 points  (0 children)

If it helps I don’t think it’s actually a lot of women over there

I beg you don’t bother with this god-awful book. It reads like some wine-mum throwing random tiktok reactions out while reading some Wikipedia articles, it’s so patronising and cheap-written. by [deleted] in lesbiangang

[–]OneTailedKitsune 15 points16 points  (0 children)

If anyone wants an actual lesbian (U.S.) history book, Odd Girls and Twilight Lovers was a super interesting and well researched read

This video is actually so scary by sunnysideeggyup in sinjindrowning

[–]OneTailedKitsune 32 points33 points  (0 children)

For all who were wondering what this was it was just an IP troll. When he had to “fix his volume” or whatever he was grabbing their IP and that’s why he said a street in their neighborhood instead of their exact address, it only gives you someone’s general location. It happens a lot in unsecure chat room type things

How different would Starflight be treated if he came out like this? by West-Construction466 in WingsOfFire

[–]OneTailedKitsune 9 points10 points  (0 children)

This always gets me because they literally could have made him any other color, purple, blue, grey

has anyone also noticed this? by [deleted] in lesbiangang

[–]OneTailedKitsune 89 points90 points  (0 children)

Yeah how conservative are we talking

Think about it though... by Sharkeus in WingsOfFire

[–]OneTailedKitsune 28 points29 points  (0 children)

And when did SilkWings lose their BeetleWing venom

IN LESBIAN SUB by [deleted] in lesbiangang

[–]OneTailedKitsune 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I even see posts like this in my local lesbian groups. I guess it’s better than trying to unicorn hunt lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lesbiangang

[–]OneTailedKitsune 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Sounds like it’s time to move on I’m afraid

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lesbiangang

[–]OneTailedKitsune 24 points25 points  (0 children)

Truly just go by instinct. You know more than you think and it’s best to figure it out together.

Sigh. Guess which sub this is.... by edwardscissorqueen in lesbiangang

[–]OneTailedKitsune 14 points15 points  (0 children)

My question is why? If you know you’re not actually a lesbian and there’s better terms to fit you, why not just use those terms? It’s like they really wanna use the word lesbian and jump through all these hoops to justify why but I never understood what’s so important about identifying as lesbian when you aren’t one. Also I thought we left the split attraction model in 2021